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Hola ppl🤗, am back with my all time favourite topic ManRuv😳
i see everyone lashing out anger on dhruv bt none of them is angry at manik y??
just bcoz he is manik n he can do anything n everything. both ManRuv treated nandu as toy yesterday bt oly dhruv was bashed, wat kind of blind love for manik😳. fab4 can make mistakes bt dhruv shud not make mistakes y?? he is human not god to be goody goody all the time. both ManRuv love each other n also r insecure of each other bt the way of expressing is different. i had read post comparing ManRuv with each other dat "manik was also jealous of dhruv bt how did he behave n how dis jerk dhruv is behaving n dat is manik malhotra" Dude whoever ve written dis, let me clear u if dat is manik malhotra den dis is dhruv vedant😳 who was treated as baby all his life, who was over protected by his frnd n whose life's decision was taken by his frnd, whose crush fell in love with the person who tortured her like hell, whose love still worship's her ex, who has disease wich no person in teenage faces, who is mentally not a normal kid. dat same kid is expressing his frustration,insecurity,jealousy,suffocation of not being treated as man, of not being treated as normal person all his life, judged by everyone around him, not being treated as equal, who has/had fear ppl not accepting the way he is, dis kid is screaming to live him alone, let him make his decisions,let him ve his opinions,let him feel as mature person n dis is the same kid who is indirectly making his best buddy manik understand dat manik also shud think to live for himself, manik does not ve to take everyone's responsibility n dis is a same kid who is being bashed for dis behaviour, y?? just bcoz he is telling truth,tell telling the fact!! comparing him with cabir is very lame bcoz cabir also had his flaws n mistakes n he learnt from it n same dhruv is doing, he is making mistake bt he also making manik realise the reality wich cabir didnt. just bcoz cabir is manan's cupid shud not be treated as god n just bcoz dhruv is btw manan shud not be treated as villian. cabir n dhruv both r pure souls n ve der own flaws so shud be treated with same respect. cabir also made manik understand with his own way dat he shud learn to live for himself etc bt did manik understand?? no, so dhruv's way is best way to make him realise dat he cannot be mother hen to everyone. ppl were angry bcoz dhruv was rude to cabir bt was cabir never rude to dhruv, didnt cabir made fun of dhruv many of the times?? wen cabir can make mistakes den y not dhruv?? i agree dhruv was very harsh bt at least he is being honest,he learn from his mistakes, he will repent, give poor lad a time to discover himself.
ppl who call dhruv selfish, pls get ur facts clear bcoz of the same selfish dhruv manik will realise his mistakes,his love for nandu n also will realise he cannot be mother hen to his frnds all the time n will also realise its high time to live for himself n for his own happiness.
A fight back from manik will certainly redeem him. yesterday he was not grateful for manik for sacrificing nandu for him instead dat he told he could ve given chance(wich is actually wrong, bcoz nandu isnt toy) or else manik could ve easily told abt him n nandu being a thing. wat irks dhruv more is manik treats him as baby, protects him,accepts his tantrums happily. dhruv just want manik to lash him out,shout him,punch him n i bet after dis dhruv will surely back. dhruv wants manik to go against him atleast once in his life. dhruv wants manik to treat him equally, as a frnd not as father. he wants the respect as frnd bt doesnt want baby sitting.
Agree dhruv is being big time jerk, ASS etc. bt this is the oly way to make manik malhotra realise dat he is not born to take responsibilities of his frnds especially dhruv just because he saved his life some years ago. if the same behaviour is enacted by cabir,mukti or alya, manik wont realise.
oly his best buddy dhruv for whom he sacrificed can make him realise dat he is not born take responsibilities of him, though dhruv is harsh, bt dhruv is being honest, he is showing his insecurities, jealousy, his displeasure of always being treated as baby n always being protected. but manik is still in deniel mode, dat dhruv can tell something like dis.
fab5 always hides things from each other, hide der insecurity, jealousy etc. dhruv was actually not aware dat he was jealous of his buddy until alya thing happen to him. once dhruv started to feel jealous at least he is being honest, expressing actually wat he feels rather than hiding under manik's shadow.
dhruv has been f***ing ASS to alya bt here also he was honest, he said actually wat he felt, he didnt go to silent mode. how can dhruv be calm wen he comes to know his girl is not comfortable of publisizing der relationship to everyone where as this is the same girl who is best buddy's manik's ex, who went public abt their relationship!! alya is used of making out session n kissing, its her way of expressing love bt it didnt go well with dhruv. this will also make alya realise importance of communication in relationships. alya surely will not forgive dhruv. she will give him toughest time of his life. he has to repent a lot to get her back.
dhruv has always been judged everyone around him. manik made him good person, nandini n alya called him sweet , Mr.perfect n speacial person n mukti n cabir just always made fun of him. but none of dem n dhruv himself never bothered wat he is actually, wat is his identity, wat he is without manik?? now he is trying to find wat he is, though in good or bad way atleast he expressing now.
manik is such a gadha he still thinks dhruv is better for nandu, he is still insecure of dhruv being good boy where dhruv is already showing his vulnerable side. wen nandu has clearly told him wat she feels for him, for god's sake, he should understand nandu is not a girl who kisses everyone n romances with everyone, she is oly his n he is oly her manik. both ManRuv treating der respective gals as commotidities, punch n tight slap from alya will make dem realise wat dey r doing.
ppl compare manruv n manbir n call cabir true frnd n dhruv as selfish, ppl pls get ur facts clear, just bcoz cabir is cupid btw manan doesnt make him good frnd n just bcoz dhruv is being bad to manik doesnt make him selfish. cabir has tried to explain manik in his own way bt it didnt work n now dhruv is trying his own way wich will make manik realise dat he shud stop being mother hen to his frnds n leave dem alone, let dem grow for demselves, let them fall n get up by demselves rather than manik being protector. And its high time manik shud realise importance of nandini in his life, respect hern stop taking her granted all the time n for god sake give a NAME to der relationship n trust her dat she has actually choosen manik not dhruv n understand nandu is human n she can also make mistakes.
some ppl missing old dhruv, its completely der wish n pov bt my question is wat was old dhruv?? nothing but a guy who was hidden in manik's shadow for 10 long years who had no choice, who had no opinions of himself. to be frnds with nandu also he wanted manik's permission n for sake of manik he broke frndship with nandu. all the fab4 ve done severe mistakes, the way dey treated navni, shahid etc is not all sane bt dey changed right?? dey reedemed demselves. oly dhruv was Mr. goody person, seriously i want to know who is actually like old dhruv in real life?? well am not, i ve my own flaws. dhruv is not normal kid, he is a person who has been insecure bcoz of his disease, fear of ppl not accepting him the way he is, fear of loosing dear ones bcoz of his attacks bt now he is not afraid of ppl not accepting him, he is least bothred wat ppl think abt him, he is ready face the world even with his attacks.
atlast i wanna say this step of dhruv will certainly will make manik understand its high time he shud think of himself rather than baby sitting his frnds n dis will also lead to beautiful manan confession n manik's realisation.
dhruv will also come as new,confident person with his redemption. dhruv will also realise how rude he was to his closed one's, how rude he was to his brother,how rude he was to his frnd nandu, how rude he was his love, how rude was to cabir n how selfish he was during mukti's incident bt its just matter of time.
p.s- special thanks to firebolt's post n genie,kritu,priyanka,aloo,sadhana ,harini,simz,sal,shravya,niya(i), appy,snepoo,pandirang,sana,dushtu,arthu etc who all made me understand wat dey r actually trying to show abt dhruv.
p.s- pls share ur pov😳
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