Devising ways to get our bhola Dhruv back! - Page 6

Originally posted by: DHRUVLOVER

dushtu a fight back from manik will certainly redeem him. yesterday he was not grateful for manik for sacrificing nandu for him instead dat he told he could ve given chance(wich is actually wrong, bcoz nandu isnt toy) or else manik could ve easily told abt him n nandu being a thing. wat irks dhruv more is manik treats him as baby, protects him,accepts his tantrums happily. dhruv just want manik to lash him out,shout him,punch him n i bet after dis dhruv will surely back. dhruv wants manik to go against him atleast once in his life. dhruv wants manik to treat him equally, as a frnd not as father. he wants the respect as frnd bt doesnt want baby sitting.

Agree dhruv is being big time jerk, ASS etc. bt this is the oly way to make manik malhotra realise dat he is not born to take responsibilities of his frnds especially dhruv just because he saved his life some years ago. if the same behaviour is enacted by cabir,mukti or alya, manik wont realise.

oly his best buddy dhruv for whom he sacrificed can make him realise dat he is not born take responsibilities of him, though dhruv is harsh, bt dhruv is being honest, he is showing his insecurities, jealousy, his displeasure of always being treated as baby n always being protected. but manik is still in deniel mode, dat dhruv can tell something like dis.

if u all remember, cabir also told its high time u shud think of urself, u r not responsible for everything dat happens, u need not always blame urself, cabir has told dis to him calmly bt did manik understand, did manik change?? no he is same mother hen.

fab5 always hides things from each other, hide der insecurity, jealousy etc. dhruv was actually not aware dat he was jealous of his buddy until alya thing happen to him. once dhruv started to feel jealous at least he is being honest, expressing actually wat he feels rather than hiding under manik's shadow.

dhruv has been f***ing ASS to alya bt here also he was honest, he said actually wat he felt, he didnt go to silent mode. how can dhruv be calm wen he comes to know his girl is not comfortable of publisizing der relationship to everyone where as this is the same girl who is best buddy's manik's ex, who went public abt their relationship!! alya is used of making out session n kissing, its her way of expressing love bt it didnt go well with dhruv. this will also make alya realise importance of communication in relationships. alya surely will not forgive dhruv. she will give him toughest time of his life. he has to repent a lot to get her back.

dhruv has always been judged everyone around him. manik made him good person, nandini n alya called him sweet , Mr.perfect n speacial person n mukti n cabir just always made fun of him. but none of dem n dhruv himself never bothered wat he is actually, wat is his identity, wat he is without manik?? now he is trying to find wat he is, though in good or bad way atleast he expressing now.

manik is such a gadha he still thinks dhruv is better for nandu, he is still insecure of dhruv being good boy where dhruv is already showing his vulnerable side. wen nandu has clearly told him wat she feels for him, for god's sake, he should understand nandu is not a girl who kisses everyone n romances with everyone, she is oly his n he is oly her manik. both ManRuv treating der respective gals as commotidities, punch n tight slap from alya will make dem realise wat dey r doing.

ppl compare manruv n manbir n call cabir true frnd n dhruv as selfish, ppl pls get ur facts clear, just bcoz cabir is cupid btw manan doesnt make him good frnd n just bcoz dhruv is being bad to manik doesnt make him selfish. cabir has tried to explain manik in his own way bt it didnt work n now dhruv is trying his own way wich will make manik realise dat he shud stop being mother hen to his frnds n leave dem alone, let dem grow for demselves, let them fall n get up by demselves rather than manik being protector. And its high time manik shud realise importance of nandini in his life, respect hern stop taking her granted all the time n for god sake give a NAME to der relationship n trust her dat she has actually choosen manik not dhruv n understand nandu is human n she can also make mistakes.

some ppl missing old dhruv, its completely der wish n pov bt my question is wat was old dhruv?? nothing but a guy who was hidden in manik's shadow for 10 long years who had no choice, who had no opinions of himself. to be frnds with nandu also he wanted manik's permission n for sake of manik he broke frndship with nandu. all the fab4 ve done severe mistakes, the way dey treated navni, shahid etc is not all sane bt dey changed right?? dey reedemed demselves. oly dhruv was Mr. goody person, seriously i want to know who is actually like old dhruv in real life?? well am not, i ve my own flaws. dhruv is not normal kid, he is a person who has been insecure bcoz of his disease, fear of ppl not accepting him the way he is, fear of loosing dear ones bcoz of his attacks bt now he is not afraid of ppl not accepting him, he is least bothred wat ppl think abt him, he is ready face the world even with his attacks.

atlast i wanna say this step of dhruv will certainly will make manik understand its high time he shud think of himself rather than baby sitting his frnds n dis will also lead to beautiful manan confession n manik's realisation.

Originally posted by: dushturain

First of all, wooo hooo and oour Shruti is back!! defending Dhruv!!

Hmmm I can see you hv written very honestly and unbiasedly and I agree to it!! While we are all hating on Dhruv now...we know Dhruv is not like this in real...True he needs Manik to punch him, treat him like an equal and not a weak person.

And the fact, all Fab3 and Nandini is angry with Dhruv but Manik is still going on like buddy tu buddy main is making Dhruv more mad...he wants , no he NEEDS Manik to lash out at him...

You hv written very well.. I agree about him and Aliya...he was brutally honest with her...I agrree but whats the use of this honesty when his belief is wrong...He is being honest about sth which he percieved wrong..what good will this honesty bring??

Yes Manik always acts like a mother hen with fab 4 but not to the extent to which Dhruv is implying that Manik is suffocating him. But true baba Manik needs to start living for himself and stop worrying about his friends...

In the scene yesterday between Dhruv-Manik-Nandini...they were still treating Nandini as a toy. My friend Chicks said the best thing...she said Nandini should have slapped Dhruv hard said no point fighting for me because no girl wants to be with an insensitive jerk like you and then slapped Manik and said you are welcome to be with your jerk friend...You both jerks deserve one another and just leave...

I want to point out...Manik left Nandini for Dhruv as if she was a toy completely disregarding her feelings...and Dhruv's parting words to Aliya was "Manik can have you"...just see how both of the boys treated their lady love as if they are commodity...approach was different but did the same thing...Both of them deserves a slap...

I dont think old Dhruv was no one but a shadow of Manik...or that Manik never let him make his own choices/decisions...he never once told Dhruv not to be friends with Nandini ...Dhruv broke their friendship all by himself..(and we all know why Manik was picking fights with Nandini and asking her to stay away from Dhruv...Manik had feelings for her and he was fighting those feelings but thats a different story) Dhruv was a star by himself...and girls dig him always..but he himself was shy and introvert (read Dhruv's bio in Mtv's website) Dhruv was always insecure and its not because of Manik...

Manik should stop babysitting Dhruv and stop taking Dhruv's shit ASAP. And thats what will bring Dhruv back...losing Manik as a friend