A personal note ...Updated!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thank you for all your concerned and caring messages. Thanks for showing me a different perspective...being on the receiving side does cloud your judgment!! Your words do help..a lot!! I really appreciate you all helping me see the other side of the coin...thanks once again!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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eveline wht happened?i m a silent reader in here and prefer to b silent becos its nt that welcoming in here...but ur post had me worried ..pls continue writing in here pls
eveline n like u said b4 i think it was u...its a youth show ...getting tooo real wid the reel ones is normal in here...lost for words...but dnt leave pls
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: navi04vet

Huh...what happened??

Its a long story...I just had to write this...sorry!!😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shena07

eveline wht happened?i m a silent reader in here and prefer to b silent becos its nt that welcoming in here...but ur post had me worried ..pls continue writing in here pls

I should have stayed a silent reader too...😉!! Thanks for your kind words...they mean a lot...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

I should have stayed a silent reader too...😉!! Thanks for your kind words...they mean a lot...

my rest of my post is edited
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am knowingly boycotting you am sure being intelligent and observant you
are aware of it.and i am over confident also that you care a dam about my
absence as am insignificant in your life which is bestowed with many
worthy admirers 😊

of all the things that i am in life , i never learned to fake.and i try best to
not hurt anyone by my brutal bluntness.yet the title and the words of
your this post made the personality in me give you my valid
reasons before telling you a final goodbye knowing that
perhaps you don't even need to know about those reasons.😳

first comes acquaintance then comes buddyship then comes
companionship.friendship comes last as this stage is
unreachable without common taste common principles
mutual trust faith and understanding concern and love.i admired your
intelligence that shone from your each posts.i loved
your depth that reflected with your chosen sentences and wordplay😊

i sought your buddyship hoping to better myself as a person in life
in the matured company of you i had hoped to draw some
inspiration learn a few more things.sharpen my limited perceptions.
but alas i could not interest or impress you to acquire your
approval and you denied me your buddyship.
for three days i kept checking the waiting list.
i consoled myself that you are busy.that you receive tons of buddy request
so you are taking time to respond favourably to every tom dick and harry 😆.
you made many beautiful posts in the meantime.doubt crept in my mind.i realized
am a pest and un-welcomed in your list 😆

now as i have certain principles in life , amongst which falls
that do not throw yourself to someone forcefully who does not like you
do not disturb her don't piss her beyond her tolerance 😆 , give her 72 hours
to consider her options else decide to walk away silently at the end of that 72 hours
,i moved away from you with a heavy heart.i am new to IF.you successfully instilled the
fear of being turned down from sending buddy request to others in this forum too 😆
after all once bitten twice shy right?😳
who likes to be shurpanakha after all? 😉
i had sought your buddyship not your bank account but you
ran away 🤣


thank you for giving me this opportunity to bare my heart to you
i shall always herald your every wise post by hitting the like button
but i guess i must selfishly guard my self respect by preventing
my active participation in your epic posts.stay blessed always 🤗


and sorry for this thesis of mines 🤢


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Evie,

you said it yourself,

its a virtual world and the virtual friends are indeed what they are...virtual!!

I am really feeling bad if anything such happened with you...I had no idea, matter has been stretched so far...

we may often disagree thats cool with me, but Its an open forum and I would always welcome a different opinion to mine so that I can debate...

and you said that to me too,

we have unique minds capable of looking at the same scene from different perspectives and interpreting it differently...more importantly we are not afraid to speak up and share...trusting the other to understand, respect the other's viewpoint.


What you wrote is beautiful Evie, And I completely agree with you...but there are immature and juvenile people here who only think one way, and never ever has the courage to accept a 2nd opinion...but thats their problem na?? why should you let their opinion affect you???



If sth such as private mass messages and movement against you happened thats very unfortunate...you are not the first one evie, before too such boycotting movement started and that too khullam khulla...ended pretty badly...so maybe thats why this time khufiyaan mission going on...


just dont worry about them, or let them dishearten you...you will and should do what you think is best...no one has he right to bring you down...

I liked that you shared your note openly and without pretense..I salute you for that...

Evie, just remember what manik is trying to teach nandu right now...dont take anything on face value...if a person says she is your friend and then going behind your back...thats not a real friend...and forum is full of these kind of friends...you hv to save yourself from them and also meanwhile understand that not everyone in the forum are all bad...you have to make correct choices and realise which one of them are genuine...


Just take this as a lesson learned...believe me when I say I have learnt my lesson too well too...

Also,

You deserve more and you should be proud of yourself Evie dont let them affect you.
you said it well,

I take with me your conditional love and hate and judgments...thank you!!


Thats the spirit girl...Stand tall.
Edited by dushturain - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

Its a long story...I just had to write this...sorry!!😊

Well... Just know I didn't boycott ur posts..did I??? If u felt so I m sorry...most of the things u wrote didn't make sense to me... Sorry for that too
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey.. Eve... kya hua?????????? 😲😲😲😲

I have no clue what happened that got you so upset... all i can say is... Please don't let people affect u... as Abhimanyu says rightly... be responsible for ur own happiness... if you enjoy writing and expressing do continue doing so without caring who says what...

cheer up dear.🤗🤗🤗🤗 warana i will have to come

Edited by Smiley_23 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree we disagree on many things, but i hope this isnt intended for me😆 i havent been able to reply much lately because i'm normally offline when you post your comments😳 in fact i dont reply much to others either, stay online for 2 hours then go away for my assignments😊 after each episode...

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