Beautifully penned Eve, as always. Love is the most complex emotion that binds all of us and as you rightly said there's no right wrong..each has their own way to express fight back rejoice and repel in love..each one has different understanding,perspective insight and objective about love. Nothing is concrete or hard coded except one thing..once in love its not easy to forget..one may get deeply hurt bruised and hopelessly betrayed..momentarily it might seem there's no hope..well, without hope there's no life I say..there's always hope to understand,empathise,forgive and heal the pain.its impossible to live peaceful when the loved one is sulking in pain..well, again how does one sulk is his/her self expression but ironically it is visible, noticeable and good enough to read between the lines or just beyond face value.
Yes, as everything when broken, takes time to restore. Especially when loved ones is hurt or pained,it takes sometime for the person to deny the existence, feel it, react to it, introspect,make corrective steps, forgive and then fall all over again with improved and enhanced awareness about the person likes and dislikes, after all love is also to respect each other along with forgiving and accepting. As they say nothing can happen with a single hand, healing when hurt also needs support.support from partner to look beyond themselves, unsaid listening,patience and perseverance to rekindle the lost aspect of love.
Falling is love and rising in love is a process that can make life more worthwhile living with that one person in love..sharing many things, doing things together and writing an extra page in the book called my encounters and experiences of being in love.
I am not a good writer Evi but just thought of sharing my thoughts on Love..
Manik and Nandini, well I shd say I am detached from their pain as I just recovered from depression about their breakup..am wearing a counsellor hat when I am watching the episode on YouTube post reading reviews to ensure it don't affect me..in other words, am watching their love story progressing as a bystander..
Last weekend was terrible to me personally..it took Friday nite se Monday nite tak to understand I got emotionally drained by their breakup idea..