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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanely_Insane

Chetuuu yo! Y u no come on Twitter?

All I need is for Sarika to join in. Bas.

Bacchi, it's like a vicious circle of life, he ditches she ditches he ditches she ditches he ditches she ditches. Phew.-.-

Adhiii, I ain't watching. No. Give me something else to pun. 😆


u can still trun up on the AT kameeni, did u see Maisu ka comment
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: BoxedIn

Just wrote this somewhere else too, but anyway, here goes.
I like how they are approaching this 'trust' question. Nandini's guilty right now, she recognised that she has 'failed' someone for the first time. Manik says she has failed him. I'm glad the protection shit's over an done with.
Thing is, Nandini did not make a 'mistake', not for me. So I don't see WHY she should apologise or go around wooing him. This is not Musicana where the line was very clear- MANIK was WRONG. He willingly CHOSE to crush her . Yes, we ahve all expalined his reasoning and friendship and all that, but at the end of the day, that was fact, and MaNan got over it and moved on.
This time, how is Nandini 'wrong' to tell him that she had a doubt? She faltered under a moment of pressure, and he doesn't hold her responsible for that. I LOVE HIM FOR THAT. But he is not able to accept it when she tells him her truth, one which he doesn't like. I'll hold my judgement till I see how they show Nandini going forward from here, the kind of pressure she puts herself under, the kind of pressure even the audience, is putting on the character. How she takes everything literally, which is usually not problematic, but with Manik it doesn't work because he is the kind of giy who expects her to trust what he's saying, and even what he's not saying. He wants her to trust his truth and his lies, which is essentially what his friends do. Absolute, blind trust. He craves it from Nandini especially, because he loves her so much. He's not wrong. But he's not right either. they need to find a middle path here, like always.

Manik needs to figure out how he is essentially helping Noyonika by being 'bad'. He, in his anger, is becoming what he detests the most- he's essentially becoming his mother's toy. And only Nandini's truth, her doubt will make him do this. No one else in his life has the bloody balls to tell him that truth. Fab4 will doubt him but they will lie to him, and for him. Reason why he never explains his actions to them, and why they can't ask him for it either, so they will happily go around wrongly blaming Nandini instead of asking their own friend.
His friends seem to trust Noyonika's ability to handle their shit blindly, and that is why I asked that question on the previous AT- does Manik trust Noyonika? Cabir saying outside the court- Noyonika did her magic again. Does Manik have any idea that the give-and-take he so believes in, is all really part of a much bigger manipulation, that Noyonika does to keep him under her thumb? Harshad understood that, Manik doesn't- he, in his reckless innocence, is letting himself be moulded by his mom. And only Nandini's doubts can drag him out of this web. THAT is how she becomes his star, not by blindly trusting him or lying for him or running around trying to 'protect' him all the time. She's his star because she doubts him, but loves him anyway, and because he loves her too, he'll rage at her but also explain himself. It's how they work.
Noyonika is BRILLIANT. She's the best thing to have happened to this show since Musicana.


Phew, rant over. 😆




BOXY...

That was Brilliant...

Manik asks for Blind Trust in him...but Blind Trust itself is not Healthy and prevents Growth by introspection...His expectation of Blind Trust makes the relationship dysfunctional and suffocating at the same time for the other person...If she has Blind Trust in him...she will never see the mistakes he can make...or will make...until he actually makes it...and thats dangerous to him , her and their relationship...
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: lostmymusic.

what the hell is Jamaal ki dulhan doing here? 😳


ignore the hater Bushra she's just jealous you're getting more love than she is
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -mehr-


To answer your question, you must first understand what do these promises really mean to one another:

Nandini to Manik: I will always shine for you...
She knows he is scared of the dark, she knows he likes stars because they shine in the dark for him, so the stars are his guiding light in the dark, they help him come out of the darkness. So when Nandini promises to shine for him always, she is promising him to be his guiding light through his darkness forever! She will never let him go into the darkness alone. She will always be there for him.

Manik: You are suppose to shine for me...
She broke her promise, she should have known that her doubt on him would send him back into the darkness, that too alone. She stopped shining for him, he lost his guiding light, cause he believed in her, he has blind faith in her, that she would always be there for him no matter what...

Their bond is attached to the depth of stars, night, darkness and finally light..


Easy to say , not so to live to it...'I trust you""I will always shine for you" they seem casual to pronounce but the underlying meaning and promise it carries can become overbearing.Glad with the delay of I Love you confession.The thing is , we are able to understand his position,be it his insecurities, dilemma and pain , but at the same time ,it becomes a burden on her , though out of choice. His fears, insecurities stem from his past demons and for her, without having a complete understanding of those , it is difficult to comprehend the level of darkness in him for her to shine through it.It takes a lot of growth from both ends and the track just unfolding,i am hoping for the issues to be highlighted...the saviour complex needs to go away..
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie



^^Dysfunctional MaNan are good for AY-Genie love story. 😆



"Kisne kaha that...I love you?"😛


But damn, MaNan have indeed made me dysfunctional like them only😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar




I have a weird love-hate relationship with the show right now...hard to explain😆...last week I was liking it cuz Soha ka packup ho raha tha and all these tender MaNan scenes...then 2 days ago I was all ready to give up...then I liked a scene yesterday...today I'm pissed off again😆


Rafi changed the CC to an FC cuz apparently some of us were gushing too much about MaNan in there🤣...

Waise she showed up today as well...do you guys still stay in touch?



I stopped watching with Rafz, the friendship track was the last, but then I watched an episode of their "date" where she does weird stuff 😆 and I got reminded of how we discussed if there will ever be a sequence as beautiful as the first kiss sequence, and this one was lame. I stopped again. 😆

But that CC was about ky2 right? Toh Manan ke hi baatein karenge na? 😕😆

Yes, we still stay in touch and mostly talk about food. Lol
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar



"Kisne kaha that...I love you?"😛


But damn, MaNan have indeed made me dysfunctional like them only😆


WHAT.
WHO DOESN'T LOVE GENIE :OOO
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Posted: 10 years ago
Guys chomu posted another video on IG of UTTU doing his stunts
What say who expects him to appear tomorrow or day after
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Posted: 10 years ago
@Bushra: I missed you too. But let's not make Bachhi jealous again.

@Suha: Of course Nandini ditched Manik. How else would he go back to Alya and make your doomed ship sail again?
Oh wait. We still have Dhruv. 😆

@Genie: Sorry not sorry. 😳
Edited by BoxedIn - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar





"Kisne kaha that...I love you?"😛


But damn, MaNan have indeed made me dysfunctional like them only😆


Pulling a Manik on me eh, looks at you with Niti's button eyes...Really AY, Really😭? Together when we AGREE fireflies and their asses glow😆

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