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I hope you know that your contradicting your own words, let me point some out (in blue below)If you think he did everything equally for her you would never question what he did to win her trust back, that's contradiction to your own words.By doing equally for her, I meant he protected her from Soha and did so much for her...but he also made some mistakes which he could have handled in a better way...similarly, now Nandini has made a big mistake...but should she really sacrifice all just to rectify her 1 mistake? how far should she really go? She can fight with Noyonika, she has to fight with him and his darkness...how much she has to fight? and what if in that process she loses herself? Would it then satisfy Manik?Im not saying he has no right to be angry...he sure has...but also needs to accept her with her faults...Shes not perfect and she made a mistake... also she got manipulated...and probably with time she will even win his trust back...but for how long before a little thing happens and the trust comes crashing down again? Because clearly, whenever anything happens, they break up and go separate ways...Till how long this will go? What happened to friendship track and when will they both really understand each other?First and last rule of debate, stand for what you believe in, it's either you believe in or you don't, there are no middle grounds.Maybe Im just not as good as you😛Now let me answer your post (in black above)... (and I thought my one and only day off thanks to the dead President of US was going to be fun and light (thanks to Manan's so called friends breakup 😆, lol they are still friends right? ), but you just made it very interesting)Yes he did everything equally for her...He stood by her...tried to manao her... but what did he do to win her trust back? First he hurt her so badly, sacrificed her for Dhruv...and then used devious ways to manao her... kidnapping her to farmhouse, forcing her to accept his apologies...and then making her jealous to get her back in his life...All this while, he never talked to her...He never made her sit and understand his feelings..He could never make up for it.. He gave her the jar of fireflies, made her happy...she forgot all the pain...yet, that closure never happened... How far do you think Manik would have gone to make her accept his apology or to make her win his trust again? Bcoz he never really won it back... He just got it bcoz Nandu cared for him and she was jealous of Soha!lol what did you expect a 19 year to do for his upset girlfriend, go jump off the cliff? 😆 I mean seriously? He did what he knew best in his powers to manaofaing her, this is Manik not an ideal BF, where you expect hearts and flowers. He said sorry for his mistakes, but she never accepted him fully either. It took some more realization to come in terms that they want to be with each other and Soha brought in that realization in them. You can not question how far Manik would have gone, unless we have seen that for our self, this is not theoretical show, where I can assume how far the character should go, I can only discuss on what I see, and what the show portraits.Agreed, Manik is a 19 year old...similarly Nandini is also just a 17year old, who got played by manipulations of Noyonika and got confused in front of magistrate... Also, in case of Manik, the mistakes he made, he never really understood Nandini's pain... He could never associate himself to what she had felt...He only though about how much pain he went through...and cared only about Dhruv's feelings...only when Dhruv told him, hes over Nandini, Manik decided to approach and apologise to Nandini... I dont expect a 19yr old anything big ofcourse... But he never apologised from heart...never apologised for hurting her...never sat and tried to understand her...offcourse then situations played a big role here that his hand got worse and he had to be taken to hospital... He probably would have done all this if Nandini had not walked away... But it still doesn't make his mistake any lesser!😳Similar way, Nandu needs to realise her mistake and make up for it... But how far she should go before he accepts the apology? How far she will have to sacrifice?? Would it help Manik to see her burning in fire...is that what will give him peace of mind or is that what will make him trust her? Sure she needs to work on it, but at the same time, its Manik's duty as well to make her trust in him... reinforce that trust! he himself doesnt trust her enough to understand her fears and what could have happened between her and Noynika... he can't understand either what was going thru her mind at that time...Not that Nandini, was not wrong, she was wrong...and he is really hurt... but I dont want Nandini to lose herself in process of winning his trust... She needs to fight back with Noyonika and win him again... But in that process she shouldnt get herself hurt!Tell you the truth out of all the mistakes Manik has made till date, Nadini's mistake to doubt him is lot worst than any of his mistakes. Because to loosing one's trust and faith is worst then loosing one's self. Imagine if Nandini was in Manik's place, and she was trying to save Manik and pushed Soha who died, how would you have Manik played the role? The answer to this question will answer your above...
I dont agree...because for Nandini, it was her innocence and her naive nature that she got played out...besides that, Manik's impulsive nature confused even his own childhood best friend Cabir, then what is Nandini? In her 1 moment of doubt that it could have been an accident, she lost his trust...whereas Manik, in all his senses had broken her trust on the night of Musicana..even after she caught his lie, he was not sure whether he should have Nandini in his life or not because Dhruv's feelings might get hurt...only when Dhruv approved that he is over Nandini, Manik tried to win her back...thats when he tried to apologise and she was mad...then in the farmhouse he forcefully tried to make her accept his apologies...and he even succeeded in that...but he could never understand the pain she had been through... he apologised for leaving her but never for hurting her...she forgot those wounds but he never filled them...At this moment when he himself has been betrayed, he can feel what she went though! So, I dont think NAndini's mistake is bigger than Manik's mistake!LOL I hate chocolates 😆Okay so what else do you want? I own a retail shop😆😆
Yes its true that Nandini gave him a hard time...did not accept his apologies...and that now he will do the same and ultimately accept her apologies..So that loop will be closed as well! And with that Manik will also understand Nandini in a better way! But another truth is also that these two never really had a blind trust on each other...one misunderstanding, and they are both ready to end everything and move on...when will they both try to understand each other? And not take decisions in a haste?
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