Why Nandini doesn't deserve Manik! - Page 2

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If making mistakes was all it took to pass judgement over who "deserves" what, then by that logic Manik stopped deserving Nandini the moment he walked out on her and pulled the sacrifice drama for Dhruv's sake.


But that is not how it went...Manik was given the chance to atone, to realize his mistake...does Nandu not deserve the same chance? And she realized her mistake MUCH faster than him btw.


People make mistakes and hurt each other but that doesn't mean they automatically stop loving each other and don't deserve each other anymore...when you start keeping a tally of who did what and how much, that in itself is an unfair way of viewing their love for each other.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@TM totally agree with you
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Posted: 10 years ago
#13
Whether u like it or not, manik & Nandini are made for each other..n 'Manan' is da end game so...😆😆
no offence😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
#14
Hahahahah,,,,,,what do I say in reply??!?!?!?🤣
I'm guessing you are not a Manan fan, since you like nothing about Nandani it seems...From the very beginning.

But I disagree with all of it. I love both the characters equally. Both do make mistakes but both have immense love for each other. Enough said. They were, are and will be perfect for each other! The End.
Edited by prishika - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

If making mistakes was all it took to pass judgement over who "deserves" what, then by that logic Manik stopped deserving Nandini the moment he walked out on her and pulled the sacrifice drama for Dhruv's sake.


But that is not how it went...Manik was given the chance to atone, to realize his mistake...does Nandu not deserve the same chance? And she realized her mistake MUCH faster than him btw.


People make mistakes and hurt each other but that doesn't mean they automatically stop loving each other and don't deserve each other anymore...when you start keeping a tally of who did what and how much, that in itself is an unfair way of viewing their love for each other.


very well said. 👏👏 crisp and to the point!!

bold--> totally agree with this. and this holds true in real life also. if u start keeping a tally of ur partners mistakes or contributions then i dont think the relation can work. In every relation, there ll always one who loves a lil more or fights a lil more or sacrifices a lil more but that doesnt make the other person bad or doesnt means that he/she loves less.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#16
Disagree.. People falter in relationships.. Manik faltered too in the past.then why blame only Nandini ...I know many might think the girl has always failed the trust test but their relationship has just started and they never really had time to talk it out..for me MaNan is the soul of the show
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Edited by Chickee - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: radt

a/n:- No offence! Just a P.O.V

There have been numerous incidents when Nandini has expected stuff from Manik and he has fulfilled those... (and not too, but rarely)

Recently, instead of protecting Manik from Soha.. she was ready to leave for gramps despite knowing the fact how much it would and could hurt Manik!
she was leaving for him and his friends, yet she almost reverted back on her decision and tried to talk with Manik, but the way he talked with her in the car and Cabir's suicide, what was she supposed to do? act selfish and say to hell to the album and Cabir's need for the album because she loves Manik😲

She said once that the first thing she noticed about Manik was that he was a great friend, but after the Dhruv issue.. she wanted to know if he'd ever choose her over Fab 5. Her insecurities were understandable but if she really loved him, she'd rather be happy to just be around him than to have him exclusively. Looked more like an ego issue than a security issue.

being in love makes one insecure, especially when the last time Manik sacrificed her without one second of hesitation! and what you say "to be happy to be just around him" doesnt work, it's only good on paper!
You cant make someone your priority when you are only an option for them! that's a very bad relationship for anyone.

She likes to dictate as to when she and Manki have an off and on relationship.. She's comfortable.. she doesn't mind getting intimate... she isn't... she shows him the door.

I fail to understand people minds lately! when Manik wanted her, he could kiss her, sacrifice her, and want her back when Dhruv said he's moved on!
but Nandini as a girl was supposed to be a "Yes" woman and accept whatever Manik wants! she's a person not a puppet.
besides it always was the prerogative of a person to say yes or no in a relation!🤔

The sensitiveness she has.. a part of the person she is.. vanishes when it comes to Manik. Despite being smitten with him and insecure with Soha around him... she can still throw water on the face of a Manik sleeping in his car outside her house. Her emotions are hardly seen around him.

her emotions are always seen whenever she's next to her, but she's also a practical girl, i fail to understand what she should have done! kiss and jump to bed with him! after what Navya did, how can people expect that! and i agree with her decision to always be on her guard, because they both havent really understood each other till. they have more to go, more hurdles to cross.
why she threw water is a mystery to me though

She doesn't mind lying to her family/friends as and when she deems fit... Be it lying to Chachi about an overnight picnic or keeping her relationship with Manik under wraps or lying to trap Harshad.. but she is Satyawadi Harishchandra when it comes to saving a guy who is innocent in her head... Her truthfulness is subjective.. Criteria: Only Aiyaapaa knows!

lying to save friends is something we all have done in life, but lying in a murder case, i doubt many can do that! it doesnt depend whether they are righteous or not! it's merely the way one react to those pressures and murder is the worst kind of harshness! anyone can crumble when faced with such things! so she should have lied to save Manik? 😲
comparing a lying for a murder and a lie to go on a date with Manik! are they even comparable! besides why should she even lie, she was unconscious and didnt really see anything! her truth of not really being a witness stands out with this.

And I doubt if Manik will ever be able to forgive her.. because after the Dhruv situation too... Manik asked that why did she never doubt that he was lying about playing with her. Was her trust that fickle?
And she hasn't changed.

he can insult her, degrade her, BUT SHE SHOULD TRUST HIM😲
but what about him, when it suited his purpose he left her, when it suited his purpose again he came after her! is Nandini an object or a person?



having said all the above, i really love Manan a lot, and feel both made mistakes, but if a relationship broke so easily, then over 90% of real life relationships would already have ended!
and something else trust is something earned with time, and never given blindly! Till now Manik hasnt really shared much about his past, about Nyonika... how is Nandini supposed to be on guard from her! she was bound to lose at least the first time😊
they need time, need communication, needs to share things!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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OMg title is so apt..👏👏 I totally agree with u. NANDINI doesn't deserve manik, she deserve some1 who s much more better, if its all based on Mistake counts.. Hands down, Manik will win the Mistake race. But alas,, she loves him and he loves her😔
Manik Bachke rehna re baba.. So many Sohas are after UR Nandini.. Sautans ki toh line lagi hui hai😆. They want u for themselves. They dont even need the fire, they can burn her just with their hatred. SO BE CAREFUL

Anyway thanks ,, Ur post is 🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
#20
I do not ... I SERIOUSLY DO NOT EXPECT U TO UNDERSTAND MANAN!!!! but still i will try🤣

U will misunderstand Nandini if ur Manik's fan u will misunderstand Manik if ur Nandini's fan ... For understanding MaNan u need to be a MaNan fan...

Seeing a single side of coin is easy but then u will never be able to see the beauty of other side ...

Rest i guess everyone stated nandini's POV quite well ..

Still i know .. Dimaag ki bati nhe jali🤣

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