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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: I...

if it does not hurt you won't feel the pain.if you don't feel the pain you are not in love..yet.

Again, one's perception will always differ from another... The way I see it love doesn't hurt, because what hurts is fear, attachment, addiction, possessiveness... To me love is selflessness, it doesn't have "needs" or "attachments", it's a sensation of allowing, rather then seeking, basically letting go rather than grasping..

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Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: -mehr-

Again, one's perception will always differ from another... The way I see it love doesn't hurt, because what hurts is fear, attachment, addiction, possessiveness... To me love is selflessness, it doesn't have "needs" or "attachments", it's a sensation of allowing, rather then seeking, basically letting go rather than grasping..

i agree with you 😊 .I assure you yours and mine perception match but i refrain from making myself accept it mentally as I am practical not the idealist.😊
the way you are defining love is the ultimate state of mind.can i reach that ultimate state?no.
i can not rise above my selfishness yet.i could not conquer my ego yet.the day i can perhaps i would feel no pain.but that day no love will be left either.as all my emotions will bow down to my soul.there would be nothing left for me to struggle to deal with.nothing would hurt me then.I would become a demigod emotionally unconquerable having attained the unattainable .

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Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: rima4ever
haha yes he was a very good watchman
about the bitter part
yes i think we have to accept the negative traits too

you failed to decode the main msg 😉

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: I...
saw a handsome peon in abhi now a stud of a watchman that too in towel towering over nandu 🤣

he watched over her while she slept away her grief and pain ❤️

I know manick is bit bit impulsive with his words it does hurt nandu

am sure nandu would never give more importance to those impulsive unkind words and
over look the love the pampering and the sincere concern 😊
am sure nandu knows that one who showers love also should be given the right to hurt her.she can take his love and his frustrations too 😳 a dozen unkind impulsive words can never be big enough to nullify the thousands doting genuine efforts to bring a little smile on nandu's lips.the night angel has earned his right to hold her love her kiss her and hurt her at times how else would nandu taste the sweetness of the relationship unless she licks in its bitterness too?😳

So true...and as our wise Nandu herself says...true love always hurts. Love is incomplete without pain!! The monster will always hurt her unknowingly, but then give her tenfold more love to compensate. And am sure Nandu finds this deal profitable in the extreme. She is ready for all the pain...if in the end its Manik she can gain!! Loved your post...and the understanding of her psyche behind it...thanks for a good read!!

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Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: eveline
So true...and as our wise Nandu herself says...true love always hurts. Love is incomplete without pain!! The monster will always hurt her unknowingly, but then give her tenfold more love to compensate. And am sure Nandu finds this deal profitable in the extreme. She is ready for all the pain...if in the end its Manik she can gain!! Loved your post...and the understanding of her psyche behind it...thanks for a good read!!

omg you said you liked it?😲
i won the medal today

thank you it means a lot , truly