Why Nandhu said what she said....want your feedback Mananians...

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Nandu was right in telling to take things slow...but went wrong in telling lets b friends first...kal hi dey started their relationship..and today she tells him lets b friends first..it must have sounded like a break up for manik😆 "lets take a break ..friends bante hai..phir sochte hai" aisa laga hoga manik ko...wat nandu said...She should have explained it clearly..which both of them never do😕...and also she must have shown those messages..i believe that msgs which soha send somehow had an impact on nandu...

core ingredient of any relationship and which can never be breakable😳👏

👏fabulous post dear!! i wholeheartedly support and believe this...absolute truth👏👏👏👏👏

Originally posted by: dushturain

👏fabulous post dear!! i wholeheartedly support and believe this...absolute truth👏

Originally posted by: rits08

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Unreserving it now😊 Fab post by you😃

There was nothing wrong with what Nandu said to Manik... The thing is that they never had the chance to be friends...to understand each other! They both used to hate each other, but gradually fell in love! They realized it soon because of the physical attraction. But they never reached a stage where they could talk out things... pour out their hearts to each other...though they understood each other thru eyes and action, yet there was always scope of misunderstandings.

Earlier, their relationship was built on trust and care... But after Manik lied to her for Dhruv, that trust was broken... Both of them were shaken by the shock of separation! Nandu trusted Manik's words so easily without questioning them, because they had never built a relationship..had never talked...so she couldnt figure out whether what Manik said was true or not! She just believed it...but after noticing actions of Manik, she understood that he was lying for sake of Dhruv! Even after accepting his mistake, Manik kept on apologising, but she refused because she was heartbroken and her trust was broken badly! Finally she did accept his apology but even they never talked out things... Manik did not explain his feelings to Nandu and vice- versa!

Though she accepted his apology, it was very difficult for her to accept him back! Since they both are so different from each other, she thought they were toxic for each other. More importantly, even the name of Manik gave her so much pain! She couldn't tolerate it! Again they never talked about their fears and feelings! Had she conveyed her feelings, her fears to him...explained him they would not have to part! But sadly, they never had a relationship where they could talk freely!

When Soha came into Manik's life, Nandu out of jealousy couldn't stay away from MAnik! Her heart wanted him... She could nt see him move on with another girl...be with another girl all alone... Thats where she went weak and accepting to Manik that she did feel something for him! Even in that night, they got involved physically, but they still did not talk out things!

The entire problem between them since the beginning was lack of conversation! And when there is lack of communication, the chances for misunderstandings increase! NAndu was smart enough to realize that in order to save their relationship, they need to understand each other..be able to talk about things easily! People often say, and I believe in it too, your spouse/gf/bf should be also your best friend..only then the relationship can sustain for the longest time! If you keep hiding your feelings, dont talk out your fears or pain, then the gap begins to develop and gradually increases! This is the reason why Nandu wanted Manik to be friends... she did not say she wanted to be just friends...she said she wanted to start out as friends... Basically start by understanding each other...talking to each other! They do have feelings, but she should be also comfortable enough to tell Manik what she is feeling or anything and anything about herself! They still havent build a rapport where they would talk about anything! This is why Nandu told Manik to be friends!

But our Baba has too much gussa and ego...he doesnt understand things properly... Shes not asking him to back off... But being the naive li'l conservative girl she is, or as she says "Commoner" she is unlike Mukti or Alya... For her its the first time she is getting physical with someone... And in order to be physical with a person, you need to have a great deal of comfortableness ... She was trying to build that! But baba got gussa that he will have to stay away from her😆... when infact he needs to understand her fears and insecurities and make her comfortable with himself! 😳

Fabulous!!! wonderful wonderful post...i absolutely agree with every word!!!👏👏👏👏👏

thank you to all who tried to explain..i was unable to understand why nandu said that ..bt after reading your post i understood it well..👏

i def agree! if their not really good friends first it won't last