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Sadaf Nawabzada

@sadaf_5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

So glad u made this post i rlly cldnt agree more..u hav pin pointed all the things perfectly...i too fell Nandini us not at fault. I knw manik is feels guilty but he not approaching here rightly because I think he has realised yet or acknowledged what he mad her go through is broken and he needs to win her trust and make fall more in live with him deep bit for that he need to understand he is love with her deeply s nd truly and cannot leave for anyone or anything..seeing her with dhruv and fear of his heart will give a good wake up call that he cannot lose her or let her go...

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simran45

@simran45

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

i agree with everything what u said we have to understand nandini pain also . i am happy finally she is questioning herself this will make her clear atleast to herself that how much she loves manik

manik needs to do something more to woo her

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Khyati

@So_Naley

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

That was an exhaustive analysis of Nandu's state of mind. Beautifully put across.

I love how you totally get the depth of her emotions. She is no simple being I must say.

Simply put, when you break something you love, you make efforts to mend it rather than just mumble a sorry and get away with it. That is exactly what Nandu needs Manik to do. Mend her broken heart by confessing his truest and innermost feelings. Not just apologize. It ain't good enough for Ladoo! 😎

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: nneeiill
i feel she is giving mixed signals to manik...not as in character wise. if u look from manik's POV ..on one hand she says she does not care..but on the other hand she is constantly worried about him..so thats a mixed response from nandu's side towards him..which makes manik all riled up. so i loved where he questioned her on the very same thing..but then soon after that he lost it again..he words were just inappropriate.it was like he was purposely hitting at her weakness.
*bad move*

See Manik needs to realize that Nandu was honest and promised all her hameshas' to him, not so long ago ...she has been living them too. Saw through his harshest lies, still cared for him...and cried all those tears...so yes all are evidence of her great love for him..., So then why such a girl is turning away, denying herself the love...Her feelings are transparent...but it's the hurt which he is not able to decipher ...he worries that she will leave him but he is not able to realize that maybe she is just too hurt to love again... .He is underestimating the damage caused by him. He takes her walking away as she moving on from him, whereas it's her trying to turn back on her love. Here the why should come in this mind.

It's not Manik's fault too , he is insecure, suffers from severe inferiority complex and struggles with give and take theory, for him , the apology is a big thing and it should mend everything but then that is not enough- he needs to realize that. For him her accepting apology means , going back to what they shared...and that is something Nandini is not ready for...

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Firebolt

@Firebolt

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

My Genie in a bottle... come here you 🤗

They're both not.. wrong... In the sense both of them have reasons for being the way they are. Manik has been told his entire life that everything is give and take... In his mind he's said sorry.. he's made a grand gesture... it was her turn to forgive. Like you said he doesn't understand what he's asking sorry for.. not fully. He just doesn't want her to be angry at him... and like Nandini said that's pretty arrogant of him. But that's baba.. he's a baba.

Love is not always enough. Of course farak padtha hai.. to both of them... but they need to grow so much more. Their relationship was all pretty and roses before the break up.. When they over come this.. they'll only be more in than they have ever been.

Nandini walked out because in many ways she can't understand Manik... Manik is frustrated with her not accepting his apology because he can't understand her in many ways.

This is their story.. of growing up.. because they are still kids.. of love and of understanding.

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zahara

@ZAHARA.

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

I'll add later but I just wanted to say that:

Originally posted by: charminggenie
Or even after she blanked on Musicana night, she wanted his shoulder as a FRIEND badly to cry her heart's misery.

My heart went out for Nandini when she wanted to talk to someone after Musicana but couldn't because a) she couldn't talk to Manik but he was the one who hurt her and b) Navya wasn't even listening to her.

She's the girl that helps everyone when they're down but not one single person listened to her when she was upset. On top of that Harshad blamed her for ruining their performance. I agree, she really wanted a shoulder to cry on, and I so hoped Dhruv would remain a friend to her, and give her this shoulder.

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Cat.

@Cat.

Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

RES

How did I miss this? Guess I was out yday. Be back later.

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Firebolt
My Genie in a bottle... come here you 🤗
They're both not.. wrong... In the sense both of them have reasons for being the way they are. Manik has been told his entire life that everything is give and take... In his mind he's said sorry.. he's made a grand gesture... it was her turn to forgive. Like you said he doesn't understand what he's asking sorry for.. not fully. He just doesn't want her to be angry at him... and like Nandini said that's pretty arrogant of him. But that's baba.. he's a baba.

Love is not always enough. Of course farak padtha hai.. to both of them... but they need to grow so much more. Their relationship was all pretty and roses before the break up.. When they over come this.. they'll only be more in than they have ever been.

Nandini walked out because in many ways she can't understand Manik... Manik is frustrated with her not accepting his apology because he can't understand her in many ways.

This is their story.. of growing up.. because they are still kids.. of love and of understanding.

@Bold - That song is the reason behind this username😆

And Agree , both of them need to understand and explore this together. They both know it exists but what it is and how to handle and evolve with it their story, their growth. In the course of it, they will discover each other.

Falling in love is easy but understanding it is another story.

But the most important thing, they both are kids...

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Lia

@crystalfairy95

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

It totally agree with u dear great post👏

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Mrinal Krishna

@Sexpot

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Genie🤗

I love Nandu bas. If anyone is badmouthing my baby tell them to deal with me. I watched the epi again and you are right about the side rest. I felt like she was exhausted and needed to rest her head for a bit. If you look at this objectively the poor kid has not made any friends at all. I want to avoid talking about Navya coz she is really not worth my words. And to be fair when she told Dhruv that he never allowed his feelings to get in the way of their friendship,she meant it. Her overtures towards Dhruv are based on this understanding subconsciously and therein lies the beauty of my Nandu.

She is not ambiguous nor faltering she is 17,alone and probably very fatigued. What she feels for Manik is not a passing fancy because that's not our girl. She is such a vulnerable,sweet child and she has cared for our monster with such honesty. So baba needs to get there as well. He is ambivalent in his thoughts and actions not because he doesn't care it's mainly because he doesn't know " care".

But boy when he does the passion,the pain,the persistence,the perseverance will be glorious. His realisation has to be a public acknowledgement and has to be very transparent. It's not an apology Nandu needs its the metamorphosis and the awakening.

Loved the post. I'm gonna bug you to write more...

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