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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: zohasad2.0


I get aunty...I get her. But my worries for Cabir don't lessen. Her intentions, at least she thinks are good.

But Cabir...my BABY can't handle this pressure alone...to live up to his mom's expectations w/o Fab5. He needs them.

They all need each other and we have seen it time and again. ALl these broken kids need each other to vent out all that goes in their heads and hearts.

Aunty...may not be ruining it but yes she is going to lose her son for a while after this.

MaNan+Cabir excites me so much.🥳


Ya, even I get her. I know that whatever she is doing is out of love and fear for her son. But the drugging seemed extreme. Like, literally taking away his right to make his own decision. 😵 And then he wakes up who knows where? Just being drugged and waking up in some strange place scares you, and it is giving me weird feelings.

Nandini and Manik will have to put awaytheir differences and work as a team all over again.

Nandu is such a cat, clawing and mauling Baba's hand --ishh!😆
MaNanBir⭐️
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Posted: 10 years ago
CM is so creepy, but it fits - I feel bad for Cabir, he needs break, I don't even know how Raghav can leave him like this? Was never a fan of latter but he will be so aloof and not care is disappointing.
So basically Harshad will again be setting the stage for Manik-Nandu reunion. I am sure this plan will be for Manik to see how Nandini still wants him and that is all.

I cannot believe Alya and Dhruv still cannot read his possessiveness for her.

He reads her hurt so well, let the chase begin.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: annboleyn

Just catching up with episode...

I'm a bit disappointed with CM, they shared such a healthy relationship and this drugging seems extreme. I can understand isolation from friends,house arrest,phone internet privileges being taken away. Maybe taking him to a psychiatrist coz she thinks it's a mental illness. But this attitude I can't empathise with.
Manik wiping her tears in the forest,was very moving. Baba is getting back into my good books.
His monologue was not dubbed correctly..I couldn't concentrate on his emotions.


Same, drugging doesn't sit well with me and who is to say Cabir might not have hallucinations if they subject to all sorts of weird treatment. I am really worried that Cabir might come out broken because of this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
BRB.
Going to heat dinner else I'll be dinner for those street dogs out there by my very own mom 🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
Moi back
What are we talking?
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie

CM is so creepy, but it fits - I feel bad for Cabir, he needs break, I don't even know how Raghav can leave him like this? Was never a fan of latter but he will be so aloof and not care is disappointing.

So basically Harshad will again be setting the stage for Manik-Nandu reunion. I am sure this plan will be for Manik to see how Nandini still wants him and that is all.

I cannot believe Alya and Dhruv still cannot read his possessiveness for her.

He reads her hurt so well, let the chase begin.


Nandu might hurt in the process of Harshad's plan.

Today should have made it clear to Alya and Dhruv about something happening between Manik and Nandu. Manik's intense tone when he asked them to go...goosebumps.
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Posted: 10 years ago
After I read what Srinivasan did to cure his gay son, I am actually not surprised with CM's action. She is single mom and her focus is to protect Cabir and cure him, even if it means hurting him.
Till she doesn't understand homosexuality, the resentment and her obsession will continue.


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Posted: 10 years ago
Hi sweetheart. Miss me anyone?😎

I am so shameless. #selfPromotionZindabad.

Bas🤗 My new VM. Ignore if you have already seen or you can check it if you want😳

MaNan Vm: Ab tum hi Ho


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Posted: 10 years ago

Where have you been all day, Catty? 🤗

Genie, you too! 🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Flame.Of.Rose


Nahhh, nothing, absolutely nothing but the two people involved in a relation can spoil it. Yeah Cabir's Mom ways are bit too much but she isn't spoiling it, not yet. She isn't Nyonika. You know the relation won't be spoiled till the time she loves Cabir and is worried for him. That is one thing which will always bring Cabir back to her.

Hell hath no fury then women scorn'd. Wasn't it what Shakespeare believed in? Well it very much is true. A women scorned is the last thing anyone should encounter for you won't even know what hit you before your world falls apart in front of you and you can only watch it helplessly. You know, we always underestimate our mothers, we think that they just can not do it? Why? If we can why can't they? I know my mom is very much capable of cold blooded murder, given she is law student doesn't help too. A mother can do anything, ANYTHING, if she thinks it can protect her child. You all saw it today, right? I saw it yesterday. When she gave him that kheer na, I told my mom right away that she has drugged it and my mom couldn't help but agree with me.

After that I sat with my mom later yesterday night and discussed the whole thing over dinner *thanks dad absence from the scene* I asked her what does she think if that was the right thing to do or something unexpected and she denied. Yeah she denied. She said anyone in her place would do that. Come on, we can not ignore the fact that she is SINGLE mother. She has single handedly raised Cabir. My mom told me one thing that really got me thinking. She said, "I have your father here. I know if something happens to you then he will be there if not me. I can always doubt my judgement or his for that matters because we both have each other to support or disagree in your matters but what do you have to say for single parents. Who do they have?"

Well that is more than what can actually make us understand Cabir's mom POV.


And she has already lost a son, they were around 10 when they got separated I think, both the twins. And this women in a similar situation who has this group was saying that many of the women feel that it was them, bringing up their kids alone without a male influence that made their children like that.
She probably thinks that it happened after her divorce and her husband took away Ranbir, who knows and supports Cabir in this. She has lost one son for good, they don't even talk while Cabir doesnt talk to his Father.
So raising him alone and him turning out to be gay makes her think that she did something wrong or didn't raise him right.

Sometimes parents do end up ruining it completely though, even if they love and worry. Though, I don't think that will happen with Cabir and his mom.

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