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Posted: 10 years ago

#951

I JUST KNEW HE'LL INCREASE THE VOLUME 🤣 🤣 🤣

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Posted: 10 years ago

#952

I really wish some animal would have just eaten that girl up... for our sake endured the pain of eating her...

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Hera Flames

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Medha.S

Another reason for Nandini and Cabir to get together and become Bruhs!

Both of them will have trust issues, both of them feel betrayed and hurt, frustrated at having their right to choose for themselves being taken away from them by the people they love. After all, the people you love can hurt you like no one else. And rebuilding trust is very hard and some pieces will always be missing.
BUT, it doesn't stop the love. The person hurts you, you feel betrayed, you might hate the person in that moment, you will be angry -- but you won't be able to stop Loving.The love will be ther no matter what.

Isn't hate and love but two side of same coins. You hate a person only because you love them.

Hate and love are two very strong emotions and destructive too. You won't hate a person you don't love. You'll be disappointed in them or be indifferent towards them, but you won't have them. You will never hate them. Why would you hate them when they don't even matter to you?

While when you love someone you do hate them at some point or other. Tell me who hasn't had the phase when they didn't hated their parents. I did, from the bottom of my heart. I even went to teh extent of thinking that they don't even deserve knowing my reality but does that make me stop worrying about them. Will that ever make me stop seeing things from their point of view? No, right?

Same is with Cabir and Nandini. They might be angry with their respective offenders but they can never give up on them, they can hate them but not let go of them. Yes, they will have hard time rebuilding trust on them again. Manik and CM has to work hard to earn their trust but that doesn't mean that in the time being they'll stop caring about them right?

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: AnomanderRake
Hola😆

Bolo 😆

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Hera Flames

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Posted: 10 years ago

#955

Originally posted by: zohasad2.0
Adi, u write beautifully. *fangirling moment*

Should I be happy or scared?

Happy that you liked it or scared that now expectations from me are high? 😳

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Sush

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Flame.Of.Rose

Isn't hate and love but two side of same coins. You hate a person only because you love them.
Hate and love are two very strong emotions and destructive too. You won't hate a person you don't love. You'll be disappointed in them or be indifferent towards them, but you won't have them. You will never hate them. Why would you hate them when they don't even matter to you?

While when you love someone you do hate them at some point or other. Tell me who hasn't had the phase when they didn't hated their parents. I did, from the bottom of my heart. I even went to teh extent of thinking that they don't even deserve knowing my reality but does that make me stop worrying about them. Will that ever make me stop seeing things from their point of view? No, right?

Same is with Cabir and Nandini. They might be angry with their respective offenders but they can never give up on them, they can hate them but not let go of them. Yes, they will have hard time rebuilding trust on them again. Manik and CM has to work hard to earn their trust but that doesn't mean that in the time being they'll stop caring about them right?

I was talking about the same thing.. That love is all about forgiveness and redemption. When you love someone you will ALWAYS try to understand their POV. You may do that after you've vented out your anger and pain but you always will. That is what sets love apart from all the other emotions we feel...

Edited by Sush94 - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

#957

Originally posted by: nyxx

Bolo 😆

Dee🤗

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Mrinal Krishna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#958

Just catching up with episode...

I'm a bit disappointed with CM, they shared such a healthy relationship and this drugging seems extreme. I can understand isolation from friends,house arrest,phone internet privileges being taken away. Maybe taking him to a psychiatrist coz she thinks it's a mental illness. But this attitude I can't empathise with.

Manik wiping her tears in the forest,was very moving. Baba is getting back into my good books.

His monologue was not dubbed correctly..I couldn't concentrate on his emotions.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#959

aw DhruLya and MaNan hanging out

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Hera Flames

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: BoxedIn
Flamey, I meant 'spoil' in the context of the relationships in the show's universe; wasn't criticising the writing as such.
But tbh I'm not sure how I feel about a mother drugging her own son, no matter what her reasons. I get the purpose of this track, and am looking forward to it because it has so much potential not just for Cabir but the other characters too. But the drugging...the subterfuge...I'd rather hoped for a less extreme, less dramatic reaction. It's okay though. I will watch this with an open mind, but I've really come to like Cabir's character and want to protect him just like MaNan. Hence the reactions. 😊

Nahhh, nothing, absolutely nothing but the two people involved in a relation can spoil it. Yeah Cabir's Mom ways are bit too much but she isn't spoiling it, not yet. She isn't Nyonika. You know the relation won't be spoiled till the time she loves Cabir and is worried for him. That is one thing which will always bring Cabir back to her.

Hell hath no fury then women scorn'd. Wasn't it what Shakespeare believed in? Well it very much is true. A women scorned is the last thing anyone should encounter for you won't even know what hit you before your world falls apart in front of you and you can only watch it helplessly. You know, we always underestimate our mothers, we think that they just can not do it? Why? If we can why can't they? I know my mom is very much capable of cold blooded murder, given she is law student doesn't help too. A mother can do anything, ANYTHING, if she thinks it can protect her child. You all saw it today, right? I saw it yesterday. When she gave him that kheer na, I told my mom right away that she has drugged it and my mom couldn't help but agree with me.

After that I sat with my mom later yesterday night and discussed the whole thing over dinner *thanks dad absence from the scene* I asked her what does she think if that was the right thing to do or something unexpected and she denied. Yeah she denied. She said anyone in her place would do that. Come on, we can not ignore the fact that she is SINGLE mother. She has single handedly raised Cabir. My mom told me one thing that really got me thinking. She said, "I have your father here. I know if something happens to you then he will be there if not me. I can always doubt my judgement or his for that matters because we both have each other to support or disagree in your matters but what do you have to say for single parents. Who do they have?"

Well that is more than what can actually make us understand Cabir's mom POV.