The beginning of Manik's tussle: to surrender to fate or to fight !

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Posted: 10 years ago
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[just copying and pasting my reply in response to another topic-don't have patience to proof-read or align..so sorry and kindly bear]

But has he decided yet? I think it was just his reaction. First reaction. He is in a

state of shock. First he was so bewildered to know that Dhruv had planned so much

for Nandini and then Dhruv used the word love. He is in shock and going through so

many emotions at once. Manik has always been a friend for a long long time now. He

has just become a lover and infact it hasn't been long since he became a true

lover. It was after Nandini's confession that their relationship would have started

like a proper relationship between two lovers. Before that it was the whole process

of realising their feelings and how they affected each other. It was only recently

that they accepted to themselves what they wanted from each other. That night was

confession night. So it was just going to be the start of their relationship as

lovers. But Manik hasalways been a friend, a best friend=brother, fab 5 leader and

everybody's caretaker, those relationships he has been living for a long long time

now. so i think it came instinctively to him to support Dhruv/or to think of Dhruv

first FOR NOW. Maybe he didn't even know how to react. It happens a lot many times

that we are torn between two people we love the most and are confused as to whose

happiness should we think about first, Manik being Manik he's always thought about

Dhruv or his friends first, he took care of Dhruv like his baby brother. And he is

in so much pain right now, shocked and numbed at the same time..he has to deal with

his own pain first. Right now he's only thinking that it's a choice between his

happiness and Dhruv's happiness and his instinctive and old habit led him to place

Dhruv's happiness before his. That it is also a matter of Nandini's happiness is yet

to sink in. But when and if he sees her sorrow with his own eyes maybe then the real

tussle will begin. And he has to see that many times maybe not just once. And we all

know that Nandini is one damsel that Manik cannot see in distress. So his decision

will take time. And even if he does take some decision he won't be able to stick to

it. Hadn't Kabir also said goodbye forever to Raghav. But he realised that it's not

just possible to have a break-up suddenly if its true love. Manik has never

experienced this kinda true love. After listening to Kabir he's realising the

certainity that it's love and it's true love. With Alya it was never true love or

for that matter even love.So he's going through a lot of realisations. He yet has to

see Nandini's reaction, her pain and her proximity with Dhruv(even its friendship

from Nandini's side) and what it's like to not have her around him 24/7 day or night

and what it's like to not have and exert that right over her which he felt but not

realised was only his, whether it was at his house/her house, whether in college or

in jungle, whether in store room alone or at stage before the entire world,whether

in the road or in the cafe, whether on top of his car or inside his car or standing

next to his car hugging, whether in his thoughts or right in front of him, whether

in the green room or in the auditorium, whether behind the music wing or in the

canteen, whether in the library or at the stairs, whether in Alya's house or

beneath the true outside the house, whether at friendship's day party or at swimming

pool party, whether they were singing together in old age home or giving a duet in

jungle, whether dancing at birthday celebration or getting intimate at Diwali

celebration, whether it was fighting for pen or drum sticks or dupatta, whether

taking care together of Dhruv or Rishab, being concerned together for Kabir's

love/secret or for Fab 5's friendship, whether it was watching stars together or

fireflies...or whether it was saving the jar of fireflies together...she has been

everywhere around him, with him...they have been around each other, with each other,

together everywhere, everytime..since 94 days(Dhruv met Nandu the same day she saw

Fab 5 performing?+ add1 more day and that would be =94 days for Manik)they have

crossed each other's path.

so taking a decision is one thing but implementing it throughout is another ball-

game, thinking about making a sacrifice is one thing but to bear the consequences of

that sacrifice is another,to try to bring two people together whose mere friendship

made you green with envy is one thing and to witness and feel another's presence at

something-more-than-friendship level is another, to ask someone to trust you always

is one thing but to think you can bear and afford to lose that very trust is

another, to ask someone to shine for you always is one thing and to see them shine

for someone else is another, to ask someone to always keep you in their prayers and

then have the heart to give that place to someone else is another,to think that you

can live without Nandu is one thing but actually surviving without her is another

specially when you will see her daily, when she will always be in front of your eyes

but with someone else.

In the episode where they show the week that was, they had said that Manik trust

Nandu but when it comes to his friends he knows no mercy, not even with Nandu. He

hurt her but when he realises that, he will make it up to her. This was when Nandu

told Manik that she knows Kabir's secret. So that has been Manik's character till

now.This is all from Manik's POV. We yet have to see how Nandini behaves after she

deals with her pain. I am hoping that she will understand Manik's dilema eventually (not so soon) coz she had also said that if she can do anything to make Dhruv's life better she will not hesitate. That again will decide as to how Long Manik can control himself and stay away from her.


Now we have to see how Dhruv's character progresses and what revelations are made.

As a possibility has been expressed in another post, of Dhruv turning negative, it

must be related to all the unexplained things happening with Dhruv.(maybe alien

theory coming up).Had also read in an article that Utkarsh plays the parallel lead

and the antagonist. True or false dunno. maybe he could turn negative. But

considering the audience's response to Dhruv with so many people falling in love

with him, may be they will go a different way. Maybe Dhruv is the star that will bring the two lovers closer. (not making sense in this cas am I?). But he certainly has some relation to star or the symbol star. going off-track..so will stop here.


But Manik and Nandu, its just the beginning of their journey as lovers...far far far

away, to be the end. Guys Fireflies don't lie. They did not lie to her mother, nor

for her friend in Nandini's introductory scene.


P.S.:But one question what would we have done if we were in Manik's place, atleast

immediately or initially??

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A.Hajnal thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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A wonderful post...!!! 👏

Right now he's only thinking that it's a choice between his happiness and Dhruv's happiness and his instinctive and old habit led him to place Dhruv's happiness before his. That it is also a matter of Nandini's happiness is yet to sink in. But when and if he sees her sorrow with his own eyes maybe then the real tussle will begin... <- These lines say it all...Couldn't have said it better...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

A wonderful post...!!! 👏

Right now he's only thinking that it's a choice between his happiness and Dhruv's happiness and his instinctive and old habit led him to place Dhruv's happiness before his. That it is also a matter of Nandini's happiness is yet to sink in. But when and if he sees her sorrow with his own eyes maybe then the real tussle will begin... <- These lines say it all...Couldn't have said it better...


@ bold..exactly..this is what Manik has to realise..

@myvoiz...totally in love with ur way of writing :))

especially i loved the part where u mentioned that he just became a lover and his friends are with him since so long...indeed it has become his habit to be there with them and most importantly for Dhruv...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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If I were in manik's place I would hv said that she hd a bf I would hv nt reveal that its me. And I would hv helped him to cm out of his love bcoz I knw its one sided.
For me dhruv thinks he is in love. Bcoz he hd never felt like this, he himself hd said that I dnt what he is missing till he found nandu. He never liked any grl and when he see his friends with some1 he kinds of feel lonely. So when some1 cm in his life who is nt in a grp of his fri who hd accp him he thought this grl is the one 4 him.

I hv read somewhere" love some1 only when u r ready nt when ur lonely." Dhruv is not in love in my eyes. This is my opi and I sry if some1 disagree.

Great post after yes's epi first time I felt manik's pain too. Bcoz since yes my only concern ws nandu & cabir. Bt ur post hd make me realize dat manik's dilemma is nt tet over. Lets see what is in store for us.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great breakdown and post. Selfishly I want the Dhruv factor to come out ASAP to Nandhini so that she can help Manik deal with ot and figure out a solution together.

I just don't want it to take too long because in the end we know it's all about Manan and they will find their way back but Manik's decision to sarifice hurts not only him and Namdu but also Dhruv and even Aaliya by giving them both false hope.

I really hope that Manan decide to fight for their love soon!😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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abt Dhruv turning negative i dont see that possibilty as of now..i donno his character till now has been very positive...all i am wondering is in all this mess when is Dhruv gonna try to confess again to Nandini..?

P.S this post should be on first page coz u have written it so well...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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it i were in manik's place, i wouldn't have know what to do, how to react..

but i surely wouldn't have encouraged dhruv...definitely would have walked out without uttering anything..and never have thought of just backing out...lets see what the cvz show us...

i dont think dhruv will turn negative... he's just not that guy!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Oyshee...

it i were in manik's place, i wouldn't have know what to do, how to react..

but i surely wouldn't have encouraged dhruv...definitely would have walked out without uttering anything..and never have thought of just backing out...lets see what the cvz show us...

i dont think dhruv will turn negative... he's just not that guy!


yea that was uncalled for...but i guess its in his nature to be always there as a support system for Dhruv so i would count this also as a reaction ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Honestly I wouldn't have been able to back off, love is not a possession, that we can give away, its an emotion you feel for another person.
Nandini's love for Manik is not going to get transferred to Dhruv just because Manik backed off. In fact right now, with this decision, its heartbreak for two of them and impending heartbreak for the third.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

Honestly I wouldn't have been able to back off, love is not a possession, that we can give away, its an emotion you feel for another person.

Nandini's love for Manik is not going to get transferred to Dhruv just because Manik backed off. In fact right now, with this decision, its heartbreak for two of them and impending heartbreak for the third.


his backing off i think is temporary n not permanent..coz he has yet to see the implications of his backing off on Nandini

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