Angad:Unaware of Kripa's Power on him - Page 2

U know what MD, u r rite ...

Most people in luv are unaware of the power their beloved has over them …. & this is where the beybassi of this emotion 'pyaar' comes in….u think that ok , I luv him/her , I trust her , I want her, I want to be with her for the rest of our lives or whatever ….

U think that life is peachy …. Its ok…… still in your control, But unbeknownst to us, the existence of that person entrenches itself in the very fabric of our being … we start associating our life with that person …. We start depending on that person for survival …. And yes …. Ultimately we end up GIVING POWER to that significant other … the power to hurt us, to command our life, to excite destructive emotions from us and to make us behave in an illogical manner…..the power to do all this….

Things get more complicated when such symbiotic r/ships start breaking up ….. u know u cant live together, but u cant live without that dependency either ….. so u start abusing the power that u hav over the other person , just to get back at him, to make him hurt either in the same way or more than he/she is hurting you ….. luv then, is all about power play and abuse of that all important power ….. only when there is balance/harmony between two people ( ie. No conflict) can two people enjoy the true beauty of this sentiment cald luv, otherwise its just one power play after the other …..

And forgive me for sounding a little Freudian, but this is exactly Angad's prob currently …. He feels that despite all his efforts to expunge her from his thoughts & mind, she still has an uncanny power over him . So to exorcise her from his existence & to hit back at her, he keeps on taking cheap, below- the-belt shots at her & hurting her at every possible point just so that he can get internal satisfaction & a momentary salve ( Can it be anything but that !!!) for the wounds that have supposedly been inflicted by him by the luv of his life …. He's trying to make her bleeed by hurting her wherever he knows she is weak …… & paradoxically …. Is hurting himself in the process tooo…. that's logical now isn't it?

Ishq par zor nahin hai yeh wo aatish Ghalib
Jo lagaey na lagey
Bujhaey na baney …..

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

U know what MD, u r rite ...

Most people in luv are unaware of the power their beloved has over them …. & this is where the beybassi of this emotion 'pyaar' comes in….u think that ok , I luv him/her , I trust her , I want her, I want to be with her for the rest of our lives or whatever ….

U think that life is peachy …. Its ok…… still in your control, But unbeknownst to us, the existence of that person entrenches itself in the very fabric of our being … we start associating our life with that person …. We start depending on that person for survival …. And yes …. Ultimately we end up GIVING POWER to that significant other … the power to hurt us, to command our life, to excite destructive emotions from us and to make us behave in an illogical manner…..the power to do all this….

Things get more complicated when such symbiotic r/ships start breaking up ….. u know u cant live together, but u cant live without that dependency either ….. so u start abusing the power that u hav over the other person , just to get back at him, to make him hurt either in the same way or more than he/she is hurting you ….. luv then, is all about power play and abuse of that all important power ….. only when there is balance/harmony between two people ( ie. No conflict) can two people enjoy the true beauty of this sentiment cald luv, otherwise its just one power play after the other …..

And forgive me for sounding a little Freudian, but this is exactly Angad's prob currently …. He feels that despite all his efforts to expunge her from his thoughts & mind, she still has an uncanny power over him . So to exorcise her from his existence & to hit back at her, he keeps on taking cheap, below- the-belt shots at her & hurting her at every possible point just so that he can get internal satisfaction & a momentary salve ( Can it be anything but that !!!) for the wounds that have supposedly been inflicted by him by the luv of his life …. He's trying to make her bleeed by hurting her wherever he knows she is weak …… & paradoxically …. Is hurting himself in the process tooo…. that's logical now isn't it?

Ishq par zor nahin hai yeh wo aatish Ghalib
Jo lagaey na lagey
Bujhaey na baney …..

Amazingly put Angad_Diwani!! 👏👏 Hats Off!

I couldnt have put it better myself... that was a beautiful analysis, and yes, exactly my thoughts!!

Angad wants to purge Kripa out of his system, but he is unaware that in process he is purging his soul out too.. Kripa wont get out of his system, whatever he does. The best way for him is to accept it and move on, rather than try to change this simple fact..