Kripa’s undoing- Choice or Circumstances?

For all familiar with the Harry Potter Series, you would remember a classic line uttered by Prof. Dumbledore to Harry, '' It is your choices which determine what you become in life, not your abilities.''

Just modify it a little bit and the same will apply for Kripa. If Kripa decides to go ahead and consummate her relationship with Angad, it will be her choice to do so and partly circumstances (can't really blame that girl, rain outside, hot guy inside......😆 ) hence even if Angad does ''ditch'' her or does not formalize their relationship post the Ding-Dong session, I for one would not blame him, at least on this account! Hey, when did he say, that ''Come Kripa, Waltz with me in the rain, get wet and then lets do a jig on Roop Tera Mastana and then we will get married as soon as we get back home?''

Kripa might hail from a small town, but her attitude and personality is as modern or as liberated as a big-town / metropolitan girl's would be. Right from the beginning, Kripa was shown to be a go-getter, she literally fought with her parents and came to Mumbai. And the reason for her coming are all the more dubious, she comes to meet with Angad (a man she has not met, only seen and heard off!) and not to pursue music (the reason she gives her parents, but discloses the truth to Harshini) I thought that was quite a bold decision for someone so young and inexperienced in life! Hence Kripa is a small town girl only in looks, not in thoughts!

Amongst all the characters in KYPH, Kripa is the strongest of the lot, followed by Prithvi and Misthi! Angad is way behind, he a typical, tough on the outside, soft inside case! He is emotionally fragile, confused, immature, indecisive and perplexed with his feelings - and it is this vulnerability of his, which makes him so lovable and adored by all of us!

On the other hand, Kripa who is much younger is confident about what she feels, is ready to come out with her feelings, is the first one to confess her love and walks out on her family and friends for a man whom she loves, without any committments from his side. To love like this, one has to have tremendous confidence and belief in self.....which Kripa obviously has!

If Kripa is dejected after Angad lets her down, it will be her own undoing and not anyone destroying her. A girl who has so much guts, such assurance, self-belief, poise and conviction in herself, will be and should be ready to take on any obstacles and barriers that life has to offer in her way. Angad is not that strong a character to destroy anyone's life, his own life is dictated by his Mother, wherein does he have the power to destroy Kripa's life?

Kripa herself will be the reason for her destruction and similarly for her own resurrection, Angad will only be the means for her destruction, not the reason for it and similarly Prithvi will be the channel for her resurrection and not the cause for it!

I hope I have made a strong, feminist and individualistic statement on Kripa today! I wish Ekta would think sense this time and make Kripa's character a truly different one!

Cheers,

Chilly

Chilly I am clean bowled!!!!! Are U a Lawyer or something? You sure have a knack of justifying UR stand. Whew!!!!👍🏼 Good job👏👏

Originally posted by: asdfghjkl

kewl....but how long dus dat take u to right, my god i dont knw how u guys write stuff like this long 😊

I think chilly's used to it because of the updates she writes.

Anyways... back to the post... I agree, It won't be all Angad's fault, but I am sure she will end up blaming him.

I agree with chilly ! I'm convinced that K is by far teh stronger of the two characters ..... Must say that although I loved A's acting in the last 2 -3 episodes , of a confused man, I was kinda let down by the fact that instead of creating a ruckus to get K's engagement stopped, he just sat around, moped a lot and got drunk as a fish..... and this too after finding out much in advanced from Teddy key yeh sab Kripa key sath honey wala hai!

Well, he thought that Kripa wanted to get married to Prithvi, thats why when Kripa came to him, he was like "why did you do that."

Hey Chilly,

I have to tell you that you do write wonderfully and most of the times very convincing indeed. I do agree with a lot of things that you said, but there are few points which I am inclined to somewhat disagree.

Kripa does represent a very strong self and the examples that you gave of her does show her bold side. Your self-confidence is directly connected to how much you feel you are making a difference in your world. Kripa's self confidence surely keeps her going, even if that means going against her parents' wishes.

Also, she is the first one to disclose her love to Angad, but don't you think Angad contributed to that. When Angad finds her, this is what he exactly tells her "Mein nahi jaanta yeh pyar kya hai, mein toh yeh bhi nahi jaanta mein jo kehna chahta hoon woh pyar hai ya kuch aur hai…mein jab tumse mila os waqt mere liye pyar ek commodity tha, ek fizul ke jasba. Leken jabse tum meri zindagi mein aayi ho, mein badal gaya hoon Kripa, mein khud apne jasbaat mein fas gaya hoon. Kripa mein nahi jaanta mein aise kyun sochta hoon, mein bas itna jaanta hoon ki jab bhi tum mere saath nahi hoti ho, mein tumhe bahut miss karta hoon Kripa. Leken(with a pause) ek khalipan sa mehsoos karta hoon. Tumhare na hone ka ehsaas mujhe pagal bana deta hai. Tum meri zindagi mein bahut mayine rakhti ho Kripa, you are very important for me Kripa. Mein tumhe khona nahi dena chahata. Tum samaj rahi ho na mein kya bol raha hoon. Talk to me damm it, muhjse se baat karo. Don't do this to me Kripa, please tell me something."

Don't you think these words greatly affected Kripa, Angad basically expressed his deep feelings indirectly without saying that I love you. I know Angad's charater is not that strong, but after saying those words if he ditches Kripa---then Angad's definitely is unaware of what love really means. The reason for people's unhappiness is their tendency to blame others. So, I wouldn't want to blame anyone, but after Kripa loving Angad so much, if her trust and faith breaks then I would definitely hint it towards someone.

Angad would be destroying Kripa's life, if he claim's to love her and then ditches her. Don't you think that Kripa started hating Angad when she saw his true side, but then as she realized that he wasn't as bad as she thought, she again fell in love with him? (This time Angad wasn't faking his feelings-clearly shown in the last episode). Love is something that is always present, it's just a matter of feeling it or not. Kripa because of her self confidence will surely be the reason for her resurrection.

I hope that you don't mind me contradicting some of your ideas. Just wanted to share some of my thoughts with you.

-Love4ever

Originally posted by: AALIYAH786

Wow...................good point on Kripas character...............

so true👍🏼

tia

Thanks Girls!😛

Love4ever, can't tell you how much I enjoyed reading your views and fully agree to the fact that it was Angad who compelled Kripa to come out with her true feelings!

But I still think that Angad is not clear about what he feels! We as the viewers know that Angad is in love, but Angad the character is not aware of it! What I was trying to say is that Kripa is clear about her feelings, she is in love and knows it, unlike Angad who is in love, but does not know that! Meanwhile Angad knows that Kripa love him and she in turn knows that he loves her too! But it is only Angad who is not aware of his own feelings😕 Men, what do you do with them???

Please don't apologize for contradicting what I have written! I am honored that people take out time, read my posts, think it over and reply back, giving their point of view and their take on things!

Thanks once again!

Cheers,

Chilly

i agree with chilly rather....both are equally responsible for anything that happens...its logic that we are responsible for our own actions.everyone makes their own decisions!