Popularity Matters - Page 3

Originally posted by: dadhich

hey!

THis might turn out to be a very contervisal post but i just want to see your views on it. 😃These are just my views.Sorry in advance if it hurts anyone.

In the 7 months i have been on "IF" i have come to a conclusion. I concluded that people only give the time of day to people who have more popularity amoung the forum. People who are yet to be well know get dont get respected as much.

That is not always true Neelu! I also suggest or advice newbies just dont put new posts for expressing their opinions. They should read all existing posts and try to incorporate their opinions in that. I'm also observing for quite few months that we are getting numourous posts which does not have any worth seeing them. Take example about kyph ending. Y do ppl posts so many new topics on one subject?

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Popularity matters, because it will make your post succede. I am not saying everybody but some people look at the name of the post and think, is this post worth my time?, does this person create good and sensible posts. So even if a Newbie had a good post we just kind of overlook it as being a worthless post. Thats why its hard for a newbie to become well known.

This is just because of impatience and dsnt like to post their opinions as replies thinking their replies may not attract attention which is not true. I like quote one member "ghunoo"..she's new and I dont remember I came across her past few days but last 2 days I read very valuable opinion in her posts

So this lesson is for the newbies and everybody else who makes posts to trick people or to make a joke. If you make worthless posts you will have a repution as an "Attention Seeker" and the next time when you do have a good post it will get overlooked as being another Rubbish post by the "attention seeker".

This is true and also agree with u and advice to have some patience😳

I am not sure if what i just said described all of you. But i know for one thing it described me. I know this makes me kind of a hypocrite. But it's just what i do. I look at the name of the post and ask my self is worth my time.

So people, Make good and sensible posts so you will have a good reputaion. Dont make rubbish posts. Try to start healthy disscuioms because being well known matters.

Thanks for posting. I dint read hardly any posts today because of repetetion 😕

-neelu😊

P.s.- I am very sorry if anyone was hurt. Please feel free to disagree😃

Originally posted by: dadhich

Its never to late. We can start givinng evrybody the respect they deserve, Starting now!😃

i so agree with my 2 dis, selu di n neelu di😊

Neelu ... u r so right ... from personal experience I could say that ppl respond to u only if they know u ... it did confuse me at the start... 😕😕😕nowww my view has totally changed... if u want to post something ..... which is relevant... cheerful, funny etc etc... then post it ... without the intention of getting any reply as long as it brought u the smile and u thought of sharing it ... I think thats wht counts.. never keep the expectations😭... and who knows u might have brought the same smile on others... 😳😳😳... as long as it made u happy that's what counts👏

my request to newbies is that never be too afraid to post /pm someone ... u never know u might find some really gr8 friends... i did ... and u surely will too 😊 and which reminds of a quote.."Happiness is not so much in having as sharing,we make a living by what we get but we make a life by what we give".... 😳

take care

lots of luv
samia

Originally posted by: Selina

I think you're right Neelu!! We all do that.. even though we might not be aware of it!!

We need to remember that we were newbies too at one time.. and that we need to give the new people the respect they deserve!!

yup i agree Selu😃