The 'Kiss' and the 'Slap'
Hello girls & boys,
How is it going? No, no need to answer! I can tell from the miniscule numbers of posts that were put up today. Today's post is divided into two parts- first part is on you & for you, and the second part is on A-K & is for you, too.
Over the past few days, I sense a calmness spread all over the forum. Do tell me: Is it the silence before a storm or the mourning session after a deadly blizzard?
For all the so called 'silent' or 'passive' members on the forum,
For all those who feel 'not-loved' by other forum members,
For all who feel 'not-respected' by others,
Listen up!
I am typing this post up for you guys. This is not my idea of a 'fun' post. In fact, I find it disturbing to have to post as such. However, you force me to put these thoughts down.
I have used logic & reason to make you guys understand the value of sharing your perspectives & caring about others; I have had an emotional post- 'the blind girl' - as a crutch. I just hoped that you might find reason either way. I must have made countless efforts to make you see the light, but all in vain.
You will no more hear me reason why you should become active. You will no more hear me begging you to consider participating in lively discussions. I am fed up. Now is the time for me to get blunt.
When I joined this forum, I was quite impressed with the sense of 'family-like' presence here. Everybody was so supportive of each other. Everybody rejoiced in being one BIG HAPPY FAMILY. At times, I just felt annoyed cause it made me feel like leftover meal.
Finally, I have made my place and feel part of this family. However, you abandon the very family you created. You abandon me. I seriously will not have it. I must say that you guys are being over-sensitive. What in the world has changed you guys over past 3-4 months? Every single day, a ruckus is created; one post is made to say that a certain someone is leaving. Another is made to apologize for being rude. Another for letting others know how insensitive they are. What is all this?
All right, some one made a comment regarding you. Is their opinion of you so valuable to you that you can't IGNORE such comments? Do you not value yourself enough to not be disturbed by comments by these ignorant fools?
Ok, you feel horrible; fine, I would too if somebody passes a remark on my character. I would be irritated like hell & would want to curse. I would be willing to forgive once. However, I wouldn't find it worthwhile to wait on that someone to improve or change. Change doesn't happen over-night. Moreover, I definitely would not quit doing something I so passionate about cause of others' ignorant & thoughtless behavior.
So, just stop all this nonsense!
1. EVERYBODY, JUST GET OUT OF MOURNING FOR SOMETHING THAT IS LOST. MOVE ALONG WITH LIFE & LEARN TO FORGIVE.
2. BE GAY, PUT YOUR OPINIONS DOWN & DON'T WORRY IF YOU WILL END UP OFFENDING ANYBODY. I AM 100% SURE THAT YOU WON'T.
3. IGNORE HORRENDOUS COMMENTS MADE TOWARDS YOU. KEY WORD BEING 'IGNORE'. You can curse out loud, too😆
4. IFYOU WANT TO LEAVE, BE MY GUEST. HOWEVER,LEAVE SILENTLY, WITHOUT A POST. YOU DON'T NEED TO MAKE OTHERS MISERABLE CAUSE YOU FEEL THE NEED TO VENT OUT.
5. BE HAPPY & MAKE OTHERS HAPPY.
All right, I hope I was able to enlighten some of you guys, and I won't have to make such a crappy post again.
now to the topic...nah, the above wasn't 'the slap' from me to you. I have a different present for you guys...yes, news on A-K.
Hmm...maybe, I won't have to send pine back to school. The 3 slaps by krips did the trick. Hehe.
I can't believe he said 'sorry'.😛 Lovely, lovely. I was hoping to see a rxn. Similar to one he gave in initial KYPH days- krips venting out at angad when he comments that she is just like one of his fans...Muhaaa...I was happy for that. 😆 He is scared of krips...he stopped flinging himself at girls when she stared at him.😆 Rest of the episode was horrendous. I forwarded through most of it.
My jalapeno, how I pity your sorry state! 🤢You have made the mistake of loving a fool. Even though he understands you better than you do, he leaves no stone unturned to take a dig at you for leaving him for the right reasons. He is a fool to have loved you, too. But, you were no less. So harsh on him...I know, I know, you are both hurt. Hence, I can't decide who the bigger fool is. All I am gonna say is that both of you are adorable fools.😡 I wonder how it feels to have so many qualms against the one you love the most. Terrible, terrible state of affairs.😕
Ok, I had intended this post to be funny, but what to do...the somber first half has made me a bit dull. I can't come up with anything funny right now.
But I do have something interesting to share: my sister pointed out something to me...I found it so amusing! Here it is:
Most Indian soaps that have a woman vs. man fight...for example our Pine vs. our jalapeno war....the woman always fights for a rightful cause! Example: my jalapeno fighting against pine to save BP (misthi) from angad; jassi fighting for the truth & righteousness. Hhehehe...while men always end up taking vengence cause they are mad at the girl. Example: Pine being so cruel to jalapeno cause he is mad at her for leaving him & not loving him; armaan being mad at jassi for leaving him at the mandap, lolz. I hope they don't pull this trick during A-K wedding. 😡
See, the woman is always right! The man is always wrong. 😆, I don't know if I agree, but that's how ekta mai and others see it, I guess.
Ok now, don't let my efforts go to waste! I don't write up these to merely satisfy myself. I do it to put a smile on your faces and to entertain you. Hopefully, I am being able to do that.😃
Here is what you do now, have your little fingers type up something meaningful, funny or lame as a reply.😆 I don't care what.😆 For every click on this post, I demand to see a reply. You better not use laziness as a excuse either.😡
Gang, we need to wake up, make it look like the grass is greener on the other side. SO PARTICIPATE & ROCK this post!
Lolz, I forgot about the 'kiss' part of the post. 😆How is it that none of you mentioned or commented on the 'kiss' angad gave his madubala.😆 (hehe)
Did you see how he brushed his lips past her so quickly while planting a peck on her cheek? What the hurry? It seemed a little forced on IQ's part.😳 😆
You know what, my sis and I noticed that IQ doesn't make good happy faces...can't act happy??? He always puts his tongue out & his face wrinkles up and all, but he still looks cute! Remember the milk-scene? (hehe) Good thing, he doesn't have too many happy scenes on the soap.😛
Alright, make this post HOT NOW!
*reeps
Jhanak
