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He would be a complete mixture of all the characters, He would be handsome, willing to do anything for his love like Angad, He would be a good friend like Old Prithivi, He would have a great sense of humor like Josh and a smile like Shabbar.. He would a mixture of sorts..😳

Hey guys,

The question of who we select for ourselves is always the one who has all the traits for being the best. It's amazing how we want "our man" to have it all! May all you darlings find your Mr. Perfect someday…my best wishes are with all of my sweeties!

Personally, I am not looking out for myself—coz love simply happens, we can't control who we fall for. Just for this contest sake…I shall surely participate to saying who I think should be everyone's life partner. I will start by saying who all I disapprove and will surely provide reasons…

Kartik—this man needs to understand why we have been given life to begin with. No one has ever achieved anything by destroying other people's lives. He is too far away from realizing the power of sincere care and love. He doesn't even value the importance of a family, indeed seeks revenge at all times. His character is extremely shallow for he only cares for himself.

Prithvi—he held my respect for the longest time, but his latest actions proved my belief in him absolutely wrong. His strong character was taken over by obsessive love. I thought he understood the meaning of friendship and love, but to my despair—he was nothing that I imagined him to be. He considered having his love by killing someone and ruining others lives. How long will his love last if he continues to walk on the path of evil? How can he be happy by snatching love? How can a woman be happy with such a man whose values were captured by his despicable deeds?

Shabir—we know very little about him. From what I saw, this man was dug in grief, yet he took lust as a support to try gaining someone relief in life. He went to his love asking for death, yet he is betraying her beautiful thoughts by being with other women for surviving purpose. It seemed a little unbelievable to see someone so deeply in love, yet behaving so harshly. It's not that I don't understand the condition of his heart, indeed I was very happy to see him support Kripa's case—it's just his way of living was not so praise-worthy. I don't say that a human has to be sunk in grief if he/she loses the love of his life, but I won't really want him to randomly go be with any woman that he met to help him get over his sorrow.

Angad—he deserves a lot of credit! He is a great man in love, who tries everything possible to be with his love. He knows what love means, yet he cannot withhold the main element of it for long—which is trust and faith in your love. Agreed he suffered immensely in love and tried to help her all along, but only if he maintained trust in her—nothing could have harmed their relationship. He disbelieves those people who truly care for him—Dadi, Josh, Aaliyah and Kripa! Once again, Angad sunk in his own eyes, then how could he rise in Kripa's vision? He doesn't deserve the punishment of not being with his love, but he still needs to understand the intensity of love. He shouldn't have believed Simone's words so easily—his self-esteem was lowered and hence he fell in his own eyes. Love is about conquering the hurdles in your way and not simply accepting defeat. Love surely changed him, which highlights the magnitude of his character—yet he needs to persist on having conviction in his beliefs and his sincere love. We all want our life-partner to be good looking and Angad surely possesses the looks, but character speaks louder!

The character which I think has all the qualities is:

JOSH—he was a man with amazing qualities. He was not only a true friend, but a wonderful human being. He never gave up in life, even while dying—he supported the truth. He did everything possible to bring two souls so deeply in love back into each other's lives. After learning the truth, he went against his dearest friend's wishes and persisted to bring love in 2 lost souls. He knew that life was only worth by truly living and not merely existing. He understood the meaning of relationships all along. He came as soon as Angad needed help. He couldn't bear to see pain in Angad's heart and so he revealed everything to Kripa. He even enlightened people's souls by bringing humor into their lives. He filled the air with liveliness every time there was even a slight chance of gloomy weather making an entrance. His loyalty was defamed by Angad's accusations, yet he did NOT give up on his friendship. He proved that there was someone creating rift in their lives, unfortunately the truth killed him. He maintained faith in himself, people he cared about and allowed love to reign in people's hearts. Josh was the man who LIVED LIFE TO THE FULLEST—never allowed circumstances to control him; rather he wished to see everyone happy and did everything possible to bring love into his world and leaving no room for words such as dislike or hate. He understood that life brings problems, but all people need is a heart full of love to change the world around them!

I hope people in reality find more men such as Angad and Josh and less as Kartik and Prithvi! May everyone find their man—someone full of love in their hearts! A person does not need to have all qualities to be perfect, but rather someone who has a soul who understands and values their faults and rectifies in love! May love be with every one of you…

-Love4ever!