so sad for shruti - Page 2

first of all i wasn't tryna be appealing or trying to shout...i just used the capital font and that don't mean i am tryna shout. um...the only reason why shruti didn't want to marry sameer is because she knew it was wrong to do so. and when her parents told her not to marry sameer by then she already fell in love with sameer knowing it was wrong and wanted to marry him anyways. and don't you remember she was fighting with her mom too so that she could marry sameer after? she said why should she sacrifice her love for gayatri. she only refused to MARRY sameer when she found out that gayatri was om's and parvati's child and she wasn't theirs...um otherwise i do think she would of married sameer right that moment just like she did with aryan. and ye that's my point if she wasn't selfish then she wouldn't of married aryan nor sameer knowing they were pregnant by her lovers. it's not like she found out after she got married that monalika or gayatri was pregnant...she knew this from way before so that gave her time to make the right decisions...she didn't have to marry them but she still did. tell me if you would do the same with your friend like she did with gayatri? tell me knowing that sameer and gayatri was engaged and loved each other, you would still go ahead and love your friend's fiance/bf???? a girl has all the power to resent a guy. shruti didn't have to marry him..shruti didn't have to fall in love...i wouldn't never stab behind my friend's back. if she had sacrifised anything then she wouldn't marry aryan or sameer. if she hadn't of done these then it would of been called sacrifise. sacrifised her love because of her sisters. and just because she is the oldest of the family doesn't mean all her sins and faults should be forgiven and all the memebers should receive the same amount of love from each other. and remember how she fought with her parents so much especially parvati when she wanted to marry aryan. parvati begged her not to marry him buh she didn't listen to her and tht's wht happens...she had a miscarrage. she also stopped her mom from slaping her that time and said so much **** to her and made her cry, even monalika and gayatri didn't make her cry so much. i hope they do justice to everyone not just shruti.

Moderator's Note: Edited to remove inappropriate language.

Originally posted by: neharika

first of all i wasn't tryna be appealing or trying to shout...i just used the capital font and that don't mean i am tryna shout.

Using capitals on the internet is considered shouting under any circumstances!

Originally posted by: neharika

the only reason why shruti didn't want to marry sameer is because she knew it was wrong to do so. and when her parents told her not to marry sameer by then she already fell in love with sameer knowing it was wrong and wanted to marry him anyways. and don't you remember she was fighting with her mom too so that she could marry sameer after? she said why should she sacrifice her love for gayatri. she only refused to MARRY sameer when she found out that gayatri was om's and parvati's child and she wasn't theirs...um otherwise i do think she would of married sameer right that moment just like she did with aryan.

Exactly....Shruti didn't want to marry Sameer because she knew it was wrong. Would that be called being selfish?🤔

I don't think anyone can control who they fall in love with. Also, Sameer was in love with her. Do you think it was fair for him to be married to someone he felt nothing except friendship towards? Was it fair to Sameer to have to marry some chick he didn't love knowing that the woman of his dreams was in love with him as well?

I totally agree with Shruti. Why should she sacrifice her love for Gayatri when Sameer doesn't love Gayatri but Shruti? It wouldn't be fair to all 3 of them. Gayatri would just suspect them of having an affair even though they might be good friends. They might even had an affair. After all, they loved each other and lust could come in the way.

About her stepping out of the way when she finds out that she isn't an Agarwal. I think she felt that Om and Parvati might blame her for ruining their biological daughter's life. She still knew it wasn't fair to either her or Sameer but she loved her foster parents more than Sameer and that is what motivated her to do that. Their love for her. Her fear of losing them.

About getting married to Sameer right at the spot, why shouldn't she?

Regarding Aryan, they had a DNA test done which proved to be NEGATIVE! Also, having trust is important in a relationship and that is what Shruti did. She trusted Aryan when he said that he and Monalika did not share that type of relationship, ever! What did you expect Shruti to do? Everything supported Aryan. All the tests and everything. She also knew that Monalika was a grey character and how could she take Monalika's word for it when the tests proved that the baby wasn't Aryan's.

In conclusion, I have to disagree with you and say that I think Shruti is totally unselfish.

ye you're right trust is a very important thing in any relationship either with your parents or husband. but she didn't trust her mom aka Parvati<- who never lies. she chose aryan over her mom who raised her all these years and instead of trusting what did she do...she argued with her and stoped her from raising her hands on her for the second time. what is she trying to do like parents can't raise their hands on their kids espeacially when they know that they are wrong. and about monalika she was bad at first but she realized about her mistakes so i think she should get a second chance. and she also didn't wanna reveal at first that she was pregnant because of shruti. it's only when parvati found out that she was. as i recall that she was even going to have an abortion but then it was too late. and ye people sometimes don't intend to fall in love but they still do but you still could have control over it or you could still sacrifice it. it only shows in the movies that if you can't have the person you love then they will commit sucuide...how many of the people do you actually think does that...like seriously. and is obvious for her to sacrifice because of om and parvati and i am glad she did and i think every good person would do that...atleast that's expected to. but my point is that you people just feel sorry for her even though she makes mistakes too. no one remembers her sins and faults but others. how is it fair to gayatri that both families just love shruti and not her. how is it her fault that she ran from her marriage to sameer because of the love of her other family. she went to save her dad's reputation otherwise she wouldn't and would got married to sameer. how is it fair that sanjana got her daughter shruti to marry sameer instead of gayatri who went because of them to save their reputation. because of them she lost sameer. sameer and gayatri were very much in love and that's why they were engaged before. and sameer proposed to gayatri before shruti. and how can you fall in love with man knowing he is engaged with another one. if you know it's wrong then why would still do it and fall in that so called love trap. gayatri's life was ruined by shruti's real parents. and what gayatri did is wrong like kidnapping shruti but that just happened too but she realized what she did is wrong and she was even going to commit sucuide. and sometimes when you're pregnant a lot of women gets into depression and doesn't realize what actions they taking or doing. thoughts just come over them.

and ah using capital letters in any internet site does not mean shouting because in internet no one knows what they are really doing cuz you can't see what those people are thinking. on msn people use different type of fonts and coulours so does that tell you why they're doing that? people put LOL 5 times in any conversation but do you really know that they are actually laughing. you may think that but really it could be that they are typing it for the sake of it.

Originally posted by: neharika

and ah using capital letters in any internet site does not mean shouting because in internet no one knows what they are really doing cuz you can't see what those people are thinking. on msn people use different type of fonts and coulours so does that tell you why they're doing that? people put LOL 5 times in any conversation but do you really know that they are actually laughing. you may think that but really it could be that they are typing it for the sake of it.

Using capitals mean shouting on I-F maybe not the internet😳

of fine whatever cuz i didn't know about it and i am new here so ye. buh next time when i do have to shout i will use capital only then. but that time i wasn't shouting so i want all the mistakes to be cleared up and as i said i will use when i have to. buh then i don't like shouting all that much just like to prove my points and that's all.

Originally posted by: neharika

ye you're right trust is a very important thing in any relationship either with your parents or husband. but she didn't trust her mom aka Parvati<- who never lies.

Exactly, trust is important and that is what Shruti did. She trusted Aryan because everything supported him. Parvati had no proof against Aryan. Nobody can blame Shruti for trusting Aryan over Parvati since she had no proof. Also, Om trusted Aryan and Shruti was in a tight position. She just had to go with her gut instinct otherwise she would be offending one of her parents by not trusting their belief.

Originally posted by: neharika

she chose aryan over her mom who raised her all these years and instead of trusting what did she do...she argued with her and stoped her from raising her hands on her for the second time. what is she trying to do like parents can't raise their hands on their kids espeacially when they know that they are wrong.

Om also raised her. Parvati couldn't have raised Shruti on her own. Shruti didn't know she was wrong. She felt she was right and her belief was right.

Originally posted by: neharika

about monalika she was bad at first but she realized about her mistakes so i think she should get a second chance. and she also didn't wanna reveal at first that she was pregnant because of shruti. it's only when parvati found out that she was. as i recall that she was even going to have an abortion but then it was too late.

Exactly...Monalika was bad at first and there was no gaurantee that she didn't have evil intentions. She didn't want to reveal her pregnancy. That's a joke. She shouldn't have done anything to get pregnant in the first place! It's always too late to get an abortion done in Ekta's serials🤢

Originally posted by: neharika

people sometimes don't intend to fall in love but they still do but you still could have control over it or you could still sacrifice it. it only shows in the movies that if you can't have the person you love then they will commit sucuide...how many of the people do you actually think does that...like seriously.

Why should she sacrifice her love when her feelings are being reciprocated?

Originally posted by: neharika

and is obvious for her to sacrifice because of om and parvati and i am glad she did and i think every good person would do that...atleast that's expected to.

Umm....I think it's a good thing she did as well but I don't totally agree with the way you put it😕....Why is it expected of Shruti?

Originally posted by: neharika

but my point is that you people just feel sorry for her even though she makes mistakes too. no one remembers her sins and faults but others.

Ya...we feel sorry for her. Nobody's perfect.

Originally posted by: neharika

how is it fair to gayatri that both families just love shruti and not her.

Umm....they love Gayatri as well. Gayatri's their daughter for Pete's sake! How can someone not love their offspring?

Originally posted by: neharika

how is it her fault that she ran from her marriage to sameer because of the love of her other family. she went to save her dad's reputation otherwise she wouldn't and would got married to sameer.

Gayatri could've atleast informed Sameer or someone else. It would've made the situation easier and I'm sure Sameer, being the gentleman he is, would've waited for her to return. He would've handled the situation.

Originally posted by: neharika

how is it fair that sanjana got her daughter shruti to marry sameer instead of gayatri who went because of them to save their reputation. because of them she lost sameer.

How is Anjana supposed to know why Gayatri left?🤔

Originally posted by: neharika

sameer and gayatri were very much in love and that's why they were engaged before. and sameer proposed to gayatri before shruti. and how can you fall in love with man knowing he is engaged with another one. if you know it's wrong then why would still do it and fall in that so called love trap.

Ya, Sameer proposed to Gayatri way before Shruti came along but Gayatri was the one who distanced herself from him. FYI, Sameer was the one who made the first move on Shruti. He said he wasn't happy with Gayatri and Shruti slowly fell in love with Sameer. If he isn't happy, why should he suffer his whole life? If he isn't happy with Gayatri, why can't Shruti keep him happy?

Originally posted by: neharika

gayatri's life was ruined by shruti's real parents.

They cared about her!

Originally posted by: neharika

what gayatri did is wrong like kidnapping shruti but that just happened too but she realized what she did is wrong and she was even going to commit sucuide. and sometimes when you're pregnant a lot of women gets into depression and doesn't realize what actions they taking or doing. thoughts just come over them.

But she kidnapped Shruti with the intentions of getting Sameer🤢 There is absolutely no justification for Gayatri's action! Because of Gayatri's foolish mistake, Shruti can never conceive. You tell me, what would you do in Shruti's position? Shruti tried to do everything to make Gayatri feel better about her pregnancy and she even stepped out of their way but Gayatri showed no mercy.😳

Originally posted by: neharika

of fine whatever cuz i didn't know about it and i am new here so ye. buh next time when i do have to shout i will use capital only then. but that time i wasn't shouting so i want all the mistakes to be cleared up and as i said i will use when i have to. buh then i don't like shouting all that much just like to prove my points and that's all.

Using capitals is not allowed on I-F. Period. It doesn't matter if you intend on shouting or not!

if it wasn't allowed then I-F or whatever it's called should put some type of thing sayin capitals ain't allowed in this site and capitals are only reffered as shouting but i don't see any of this in here. and it's all about intentions for me right now cuz as i said i wasn't tryna shout or anythin then why are you accusing me of it when i said i am not...like what u tryna prove here? like capitals are meant as shouting...yo like i get it so leave it alone

first of all truth itself is proof and when it's coming from a person like paravati then it's bound to be true because in the drama everyone knows that she doesn't lie. and who would you believe your mother or your bf cuz everybody knows that a mother would never try to hurt its child. even shruti knows how her mom is. paravati would never do unjustice to anyone. any woman could raise their child on its own and is not like she was poor or somethin and where does om come up between shruti not trusting her mom. even om didn't want shruti to get married to aryan before. that time parvati was the one that went against om and fixed up everything with shruti and aryan. so how is that the person that fixed everythin is the one to ruin it without a reason? shruti should of thought about that. so are you trying to say just once a person commits mistakes means that they can't change and just by thinking that we should never trust them again and that they will be wrong and have bad intentions forever? if it was like that then world wouldn't be how it is now. and you said not everyone is perfect so that means anyone can make a mistake right? so monalika did and so did shruti so neither of them are perfect. and a person that realizes about their mistakes is more better than someone that just like to belive in themselves. and you think to have an abortion is a funny thing and a woman would joke about such things? if monalika wanted she could of revealed herself the moment she found out but she didn't. even when pallavi told her she'll get justice for her and aryan buh she refused. if gayatri's parents cared about her then they wouldn't of got shruti married with sameer...they could of just got their younger daughter married with sameer. it would of been different if they didn't know that shruti was in love with sameer and they did that buh they knew. if they loved her then gayatri's dad wouldn't tell gayatri to leave sameer because of politics. and how could gayatri inform sameer or her mom when those people threated her not to tell anyone. and if she had told sameer then how was the soap suppose to continue? there wouldn't be any purpose the interest would be gone. gayatri didn't have intentions to get sameer by kidnapping shruti. she did it because she saw how much love shruti got from the whole family and she never did so she felt left out. not a very good reason but still she realized and she was gon commit sucuide becuz of it too buh didn't cuz she was pregnant. it is expected to do so for shruti because om and parvati did so much for her and gave her so much love if she can't atleast do that for them then like what the hell? anyone would do that atleast out of generosity! and ofcourse you don't need proof from your parents. if they love you so much then would you ask them to show proof of their love?