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Hello everyone, just saw trailer of upcoming Bollywood movie named - "Thappad- bas itni si baat?"

In short want to discuss it, the story is about a couple who love each other but an incident happens and unknowingly the husband hits his wife infront of all to which she decides to divorce him as she thinks that it is the question of her self respect.

Now let's think this in reference with Ronakshi. In today's episode we all saw how Rohit humiliated Sonakshi infront of media. Not only Rohit, but whole Sippy family is targeting Sona and is behaving like an outsider with her. Isn't it a kind of rude and harsh behavior which is intolerable? In this case what should Sona do? Yes I agree that Rohit is under misunderstanding and is behaving like this due to anger. But is it tolerable for a wife? He didn't do any kind of physical violence like hitting his wife, but whatever he is doing is a mental torture, isn't it? Sona can take a step to this. If she really care about her self respect, she should stay away from Sippys atleast for sometime. No matter what, the very first thing above every relationship is self respect. The CVs are showing a bit of " bechari" behavior of Sona. She is today's woman who has to respect herself no matter what.

Do watch the trailer of the movie and yourself think about the situation.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I watched the trailer and I remembered a woman I worked with in an organization who told me exactly the same last line in the trailer. Also the line woman wants love AND respect!!! One should come at the cost of another ... it’s not an either or situation

we can come up with whatever reasons and justification about this show lekin the fact is that time and again the FL in this show has been treated with no respect so much that in the name of “love” she loses her self respect


Anyways I also realize we are expecting too much from an ITV show which is frankly quite regressive in its story plot lines and tracks. These are good actors with terrible writing

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILuvAnya

Hello everyone, just saw trailer of upcoming Bollywood movie named - "Thappad- bas itni si baat?"

In short want to discuss it, the story is about a couple who love each other but an incident happens and unknowingly the husband hits his wife infront of all to which she decides to divorce him as she thinks that it is the question of her self respect.

Now let's think this in reference with Ronakshi. In today's episode we all saw how Rohit humiliated Sonakshi infront of media. Not only Rohit, but whole Sippy family is targeting Sona and is behaving like an outsider with her. Isn't it a kind of rude and harsh behavior which is intolerable? In this case what should Sona do? Yes I agree that Rohit is under misunderstanding and is behaving like this due to anger. But is it tolerable for a wife? He didn't do any kind of physical violence like hitting his wife, but whatever he is doing is a mental torture, isn't it? Sona can take a step to this. If she really care about her self respect, she should stay away from Sippys atleast for sometime. No matter what, the very first thing above every relationship is self respect. The CVs are showing a bit of " bechari" behavior of Sona. She is today's woman who has to respect herself no matter what.

Do watch the trailer of the movie and yourself think about the situation.

Sona should prove herself not guilty and asap leave the sippy mansion if she has any ounce of self respect

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Sona is a loser and pathetic


She should now play ‘doormat’ of Sippy mansion



Just lie there at the entrance and let everyone walk over her

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: ILuvAnya

Hello everyone, just saw trailer of upcoming Bollywood movie named - "Thappad- bas itni si baat?"

In short want to discuss it, the story is about a couple who love each other but an incident happens and unknowingly the husband hits his wife infront of all to which she decides to divorce him as she thinks that it is the question of her self respect.

Now let's think this in reference with Ronakshi. In today's episode we all saw how Rohit humiliated Sonakshi infront of media. Not only Rohit, but whole Sippy family is targeting Sona and is behaving like an outsider with her. Isn't it a kind of rude and harsh behavior which is intolerable? In this case what should Sona do? Yes I agree that Rohit is under misunderstanding and is behaving like this due to anger. But is it tolerable for a wife? He didn't do any kind of physical violence like hitting his wife, but whatever he is doing is a mental torture, isn't it? Sona can take a step to this. If she really care about her self respect, she should stay away from Sippys atleast for sometime. No matter what, the very first thing above every relationship is self respect. The CVs are showing a bit of " bechari" behavior of Sona. She is today's woman who has to respect herself no matter what.

Do watch the trailer of the movie and yourself think about the situation.


Honestly, Sona is letting others get into her personal space just like she wants to get into other's. For others to respect her space, she must start defining one for herself and respect other's. If she's going to do anything to please others, she's getting into a black hole where she starts justifying her illogical actions or even forgive other's rude behavior for the sake of "love".

It's a two way street.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Key word here is Self Respect.... And sona had lost it all be herself. Since it involves ones self one need to defend it. When you make life altering decision to please someone (even if they insist) you loose your self respect and in my opinion Sona lost hers on the day she signed the prenaup paper. Now she is on mission to help the people who loves her to lose theirs 😡

So like one person said above from what all she is taking from others in the name of love!! she doesn't look like a poor girl to me rather looks more like a doormat!!

Instead of focusing why she is being treated this way the question should be why is she letting herself down by allowing others to disrespect her.

Till now she only fights ROHIT fair and square when it comes to her so called (not existent) self respect.

Should she leave sippy mission?? Sooner the better for her & everyone else also if you ask me. Because Sona will find another lost cause to help with to feel better about herself and in the process loses her self respect too..

Reading about all the spoilers about ronakshi we are getting we all might to proved a fools for trusting ITV to come up with a sane and progressive show.

So pls understand this is my view point about Sona esp when it comes to her self respect.. She failed miserably in that.. And I believe it's not only because she married Rohit....

End of the day we teach others how to treat ourselves not the other way around.. What they are showing via Sona is utter BS and so regressive..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: mthiru

Key word here is Self Respect.... And sona had lost it all be herself. Since it involves ones self one need to defend it. When you make life altering decision to please someone (even if they insist) you loose your self respect and in my opinion Sona lost hers on the day she signed the prenaup paper. Now she is on mission to help the people who loves her to lose theirs 😡

So like one person said above from what all she is taking from others in the name of love!! she doesn't look like a poor girl to me rather looks more like a doormat!!

Instead of focusing why she is being treated this way the question should be why is she letting herself down by allowing others to disrespect her.

Till now she only fights ROHIT fair and square when it comes to her so called (not existent) self respect.

Should she leave sippy mission?? Sooner the better for her & everyone else also if you ask me. Because Sona will find another lost cause to help with to feel better about herself and in the process loses her self respect too..

Reading about all the spoilers about ronakshi we are getting we all might to proved a fools for trusting ITV to come up with a sane and progressive show.

So pls understand this is my view point about Sona esp when it comes to her self respect.. She failed miserably in that.. And I believe it's not only because she married Rohit....

End of the day we teach others how to treat ourselves not the other way around.. What they are showing via Sona is utter BS and so regressive..


The writers are not able to visualize a strong female - be it the main character or side characters. All I see is they have to rely on dialogues for her to tell everyone that she's good, she's strong.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: mthiru

Key word here is Self Respect.... And sona had lost it all be herself. Since it involves ones self one need to defend it. When you make life altering decision to please someone (even if they insist) you loose your self respect and in my opinion Sona lost hers on the day she signed the prenaup paper. Now she is on mission to help the people who loves her to lose theirs 😡

So like one person said above from what all she is taking from others in the name of love!! she doesn't look like a poor girl to me rather looks more like a doormat!!

Instead of focusing why she is being treated this way the question should be why is she letting herself down by allowing others to disrespect her.

Till now she only fights ROHIT fair and square when it comes to her so called (not existent) self respect.

Should she leave sippy mission?? Sooner the better for her & everyone else also if you ask me. Because Sona will find another lost cause to help with to feel better about herself and in the process loses her self respect too..

Reading about all the spoilers about ronakshi we are getting we all might to proved a fools for trusting ITV to come up with a sane and progressive show.

So pls understand this is my view point about Sona esp when it comes to her self respect.. She failed miserably in that.. And I believe it's not only because she married Rohit....

End of the day we teach others how to treat ourselves not the other way around.. What they are showing via Sona is utter BS and so regressive..

Yes the day she signed prenup she lost it .

Yes this has become a regressive show

See the plots psycho plot so many thappads .MU ..seperation track ..

Also every one slapped pari ..literally no one slapped Rohan I am disgusted with this

Also won't they abort pari unborn baby ?? Is it a big deal these days .

Now she will become sentimental.about baby 😡

What am I watching 1985 bolly film or 2020 show


On top of that naren getting sympathy from his wife and she ignoring son ..what the fxuck ..for hiding she ignoring son ..for perpetrator naren ..she is supporting .

So EMA is ok with men if they get back eventually to wife .that's what this show means 😡

Don't know why I am still watching ..just as a habit

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Yes the day she signed prenup she lost it .

Yes this has become a regressive show

See the plots psycho plot so many thappads .MU ..seperation track ..

Also every one slapped pari ..literally no one slapped Rohan I am disgusted with this

Also won't they abort pari unborn baby ?? Is it a big deal these days .

Now she will become sentimental.about baby 😡

What am I watching 1985 bolly film or 2020 show


On top of that naren getting sympathy from his wife and she ignoring son ..what the fxuck ..for hiding she ignoring son ..for perpetrator naren ..she is supporting .

So EMA is ok with men if they get back eventually to wife .that's what this show means 😡

Don't know why I am still watching ..just as a habit

I am agree with all your points except Prenup. In this show, Rohan didn't get thappad from any body. That is irritating me. Tanya is behaving normal with him. Actually Veena has to be angry with Naren, but here she is normal with Naren and ulta she is angry with Rohit for not telling truth to her. I don't know what makers are trying to convey audience by all these scenes. I am really disappointed with the way they are showing all these things normally like nothing wrong happened.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Just saw the trailer. Every dialogue is brilliant. Never seen a trailer that impressive, in terms of dialogue especially

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