Originally posted by: Shanayass
that is ur view!! But my dad is also a doctor! A neuro surgeon to be more precise! The doctors do get nervous sometimes out of the blue! However they never show that in front of their patients! But the ppl who live with them r well aware about the pressure they also face!!
Nervousness, anxiety, not bieng confident actually spoils things which we can easily do! Rohit was nervous because of the pressure he had from the press, the ministers and also since the surgery had complications beyond the ot..1st time smthg like this was happening and even the government was involved! Sona took out that feeling away from him! Amd he instantly got relaxed that is y was easily able to perform the surgery using his talent and by god's grace!! He just said that it wouldn't have been possible without sona assuring jim and showing the confidence in him! And then they simply moved on! It was like thanking her in front of the world for showing trust in him! That's it! He didn't go on taking her name again and again nor thanked her again or preached about how she was behind his success and all even when they were alone in his cabin! It was a very simple scene!! And in my view a very beautiful one too!!
And long time wali thing surely u r right but it is not necessary that that would be the case everytime! And no my father even credited my mother for one of the awards he won back then and they were not even married back then! They had just started dating..say about 2-3 months in the relationship!⚫ it depends upon person to person and relation to relation!
If u still don't agree that is ur wish!
It depends on person to person I agree .for me I would thank my mom and dad for my career success and not 2to 3 months relation ships bcos I know the sacrifice they undergo
I will thank my spouse but it will happen in a long time frame of adjustments made .
And seriously no one can suddenly give me uplift before crucial projects when I am tensed
I meditate and that makes me calm down.not any person
And science agrees with meditation calming u down too ..many successful people have said that ..in crucial times meditation works
But in minority cases might be some person can calm h down.i am not sure.it depends on the relationship
Any ways I don't believe a thing called love in the sense they show in TV cinema and so many outside people talk about
For me love is universal unselfish ..romantic love is selfish to the core
Closest thing for unselfish love is mom child love that's it
Love without expectation and not bound by gender of species ..that's universal that's love a true swamiji has for living beings on Earth .
What husband wife has is or lovers has is attraction caused by some chemicals in brain and if u don't marry for what ever reason it gets fizzled out like rohith and raima when u get married it turns in to responsibility and how u stand up on promises u made at altar in presence of God ..some cheat forgetting holy promises like Rohan ..naren ..and some hold up promise ..
Edited by VARUNI2014 - 5 years ago