Good evening / morning girls !!!! I had to put out umpteen fires, dodging missiles yesterday and today at work, had smoke coming out of my ears😔 Didn't leave me with much bandwidth to understand much !
Now, I am hella confused at what Rohit is worried about. Which jhoot, which sach is he worried about? This that Raani is not the birth mother ? But he didn't utter any such thing that she IS the birth mother, did he? The only jhoot he said is that he is with a patient when in actuality he is behind that bridge. I really didn't like Netraji's insinuation of " is everything OK? Why is Rohit talking to your body double"?😡I don't know but that is bringing a little different connotation to the situation. The precap also is made to look with Raani begging at his feet and cruel Rohit denying whatever it is that she is begging for😡👎🏼Writers, please don't go there ! I am sure all of you guys know what I am hinting at, I don't want to spell it out 😡
Pari and Rohan bhayya, are well disgusting 👎🏼I don't want to comment much on them. I would be completely heartbroken if Tanya is not in on their yuckiness😡👎🏼I am ready with my coffee ice-cream to enjoy the behind whipping session by Tanya👍🏼. Please don't disappoint me writers. Looks like both Suman and Tanya ( I still have my hopes up for Tanya ) have walked into their nasty trap and had her cover blown respectively.
So, finally Rani will be out of the house, but I don't want the other kind of nastiness please😡 Whatever this toofan is, please let it come. I am getting confused, I can't wrap my head around what is the jhoot, what is the sach, what is it that Sona knows that is jhoot and what is the jhoot he uttered that Rohit is feeling guilty about😡👎🏼 Sorry guys, to confuse you all with my complete gibberish here. I still don't get what Nishi and YK accomplished by doing this Rani drama other than waking up a sleeping lion and then run for their lives😲
Now saving the best for the last😃My rant😃. Sona and her reasons to quit work. Some of the most stupid explanations I heard, my work spoiled Nishi and YKs celebration, gave my saas sleepless nights and sasur got hypertensive and therefore, I have to quit 😡This wouldn't have been the case if I were a police officer. That completely discredits her profession, the honest work that was her identity, her security for many, many years. What if somebody doesn't like police officers, they have to work long hours, they can get involved in political rivalries, they can be in the harms way? What if Sona being a police officer raises her mom's BP, sasur is mad because his bahu is out till late hours of night or has to leave at 2 AM and what if the sasur's anger makes her saas have sleepless nights?😡 What a stupid excuse the writer chose? What I mean to say is, every profession has its downsides, you don't give up because the downside is affecting people. Then what about the extreme satisfaction, joy and honor you derive from the best part of your job? What if Suman fears about Rohit being at risk for getting blood borne diseases such as hepatitis or HIV by the nature of his work, or she is paranoid that he might be sued by litigant people in the case that he was unable to successfully operate? Would he have given up? Kuch zyada hogaya, but I am just trying to make my point hereI would have completely understood if she just stopped at saying " I have worked for a long time, I need a break", not these cockamamie reasons👎🏼 And it is a totally different ball game if she is quitting because SHE is not happy with her work, she is having to give up on the things she cherishes and values for her work or that she wakes up with that feeling of gloom that she has to go to work. Here none of that 😲
Is everything lost in that tirade? I don't think so. We see a realistic, supportive husband in Rohit. He listened to her reasons, gave her his input and let her take the final call👍🏼. I want to share something here guys, if it helps anybody. I was in the same position a few years ago, but for the reasons of our child. I agonized a lot, I didn't think there were any solutions other than giving up work, my husband did the exact same thing as Rohit did, but he made me look at all the pros and cons thoroughly. He even looked out for the emotional turmoil I might feel quitting something I loved and revered doing. I took my grievances to my chairperson and told her I don't really have options but to quit. Then she asked me what my hypothetical ideal work situation is, I completely coughed up my true IDEAL work and work-life balance would have been, thinking that, nothing can hurt me now, as I am leaving work, so why not speak my mind. And then a miracle happened , my chairperson, BLESS HER HEART, told me in plain words, that she is willing to give me what I wanted and is not willing to let me go😭🤗❤️ In a large institution such as mine, I am a miniscule droplet, but even in such instances there are people who will know your worth👍🏼. I have to say I am blessed to have colleagues that look out for me. We just had to realign our goals and we are now in business. What I am trying to say, please do not fear to talk it out to all relevant people before making that final decision. You never know what can and will come out of it. I will say this in the end though, when you have a very supportive husband, it becomes even harder for you to decide, because they will support you no matter what 😊I don't know if I am making sense. Anyway, enough of myself for today.....
Have a great day 😃!!!! Not sure when I would be able to watch today's episode and comment.