Kahaan Hum Kahaan Tum Written Updates & Daily Discussions Thread # 13 - Page 115

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Good morning. Me missing Ronakshi. No segments on 150episodes completion. They are. Keeping it low key to not reveal anything

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

Arrey.. These people are stuck up only at one thing the damn consummation..

What's the big deal over it??!!!

Just enjoy the journey na... Don't cute moments make any sense to them..

And ab toh sona ke wadrobe ke peeche bhi lag gaye... Why is she wearing saree and all??!!! Had hai yaar.. ??!! Well now I don't even find words to express such people...

It becomes below the belt now even to clarify all this everytime!

Everyone has a right to their opinions. You can't degrade people and call them names for thinking differently from you. This is beyond ridiculous. Everyone on this forum does not have to agree with your line of thinking or the majority thinking in this thread. In this thread I have consistently seen ridiculing of people who express their unhappiness over the way the story is going or about character portrayal or the dressing of the FL. No one is ridiculing any of you for fangirling over the ML and discussing tattoos and untying of doris. Some of us might find that stupid and irrelevant but we accept it is everyone's right to express their reactions to the show and what it makes them feel.

Originally posted by: Shanayass

The forum except for this dt and ig thread is teally really bakwaas!!👎🏻🙄 sry but no sry!! Ppl comment shit and have to crib even if a char breathes in the normal way!!

This sonakshi ki bashing has become way too much...i mean criticise when necessary but why ppl have to do that everytime? The negativity and drama in this forum is way to more than what is happening in the show! Problem kya hain yrr??

And sry to say but except for these two threads this show's forum is the most negative forum i have ever been a part of! I don't know whether anyone of u have visited #krpkab forum..but i so so wish this forum was like that one! Everyone expressed all their views on almost everything but i never felt that the place was bieng -ve!

And even in the dt we talk about everything..criticise..make fun..troll and even bash but the atmosphere here has always bieng positive!🧡

Now cribbing about how their is no intimacy and sona always wants to run away..i mean serioudly! That is not even true!!🙄

@bold - But who decides when criticism is necessary and when it is not? You? People on this thread?

So now people in this forum can only criticise when a certain group of members deems it the appropriate time to criticise? Come on!

Originally posted by: kar08

Everyone has a right to their opinions. You can't degrade people and call them names for thinking differently from you. This is beyond ridiculous. Everyone on this forum does not have to agree with your line of thinking or the majority thinking in this thread. In this thread I have consistently seen ridiculing of people who express their unhappiness over the way the story is going or about character portrayal or the dressing of the FL. No one is ridiculing any of you for fangirling over the ML and discussing tattoos and untying of doris. Some of us might find that stupid and irrelevant but we accept it is everyone's right to express their reactions to the show and what it makes them feel.

I didn't call anyone any names...

It's been a constant thing of saying the same old things repeatedly...

Why would you want to watch smthg which doesn't fit in...

We are just trying to tell to understand others pov too... Like you are not entitled to think like us... Similarly even we are not entitled to think the way you guys think..

It's getting way too much to go on and on about the same sr and consummation thing... At the end of the day it's itv.... And just for the sake of some viwers they cannot just show whatever we want... They can give us only some moments and many of us are happy with that...

Humara hisaab se it relates to real life... That's we are enjoying it...

Aap logon ke hisaab se it doesn't so be it.... You are free to express whatever you feel... But constantly saying over the same thing reduces the enthusiasm of others who love watching the scenes

It's the same old repetition of the thing...

Even here we make fun, criticize appreciate.. Express anger... But we don't go on and on over the same issue for a long period of time which is the case of one id and most of the members...

We are just telling to understand our pov too... Coz clearly most of you are not trying to do

Ps: I am sorry if you felt offended or bad .. I didn't intendto hurt you...

Peace and love ❤

Originally posted by: kar08

@bold - But who decides when criticism is necessary and when it is not? You? People on this thread?

So now people in this forum can only criticise when a certain group of members deems it the appropriate time to criticise? Come on!

Similarly..i felt frustated with everyone in some certain threads bieng extra critical!! And i did this in tgis thtead where no one except my friends usually visit!

And stop bieng extra rude to everyone in the forum..i have read a lot of ur comments..i find them negative so instead of fighting with u..i simply choose to ignore! It would be better if u also do the same!

Even u might be finding my thoughts wrong or not relevant..but thats completely ur choice!! And for god's sake nobody is demeaning anybody here! This constant bashing of her char is going on from way long!! Not only for one reason or one scene but for every damn scene! U guys try and make a positive post..everyone would post positive comments..make a negitive post everybody comments negative! This is a common pattern i have observed in this pattern from the last 6 months!

I didn't mean to be rude or anything..i am extremely sry if u felt bad!

And i agree the show has become dramatic since the wedding track but calling it "unrealistic" or "illogical" is still not justified! Many married woman i know who follow the show is still finding it realistic..for them they have gone through or done or faced similar situations!! My own mother who is a working person and even manages home finds it relatable! Some things r not i agree but many things r too!! The main problem is there is only criticism and no appreciation! Even if sonakshi wants ppl in her new family to love her and take efforts..ppl bash her! No appreciation and only criticism makes the place negative!

Peace!🧡

Originally posted by: Shanayass

just like u..even i have the right to express my opinion right!! ..did i come and comment on ur views to stop ur unnecessary comments!! No..right??

Similarly..i felt frustated with everyone in some certain threads bieng extra critical!! And i did this in tgis thtead where no one except my friends usually visit!

And stop bieng extra rude to everyone in the forum..i have read a lot of ur comments..i find them negative so instead of fighting with u..i simply choose to ignore! It would be better if u also do the same!

Peace!🧡

You are telling people to criticise when necessary. So I would like to know who decides when it is necessary and when it is not? Nothing rude about that.

This thread as far as I know is open to all and not to a specific group of people.

I am questioning the inability of some members here to live and let live and not jump on people for what they perceive as negativity/too much criticism. Not just jump, you and some others make fun of specific members of the forum for their opinions. Which is uncalled for. Let everyone have their views. Thats what this forum is for.

Originally posted by: kar08

You are telling people to criticise when necessary. So I would like to know who decides when it is necessary and when it is not? Nothing rude about that.

This thread as far as I know is open to all and not to a specific group of people.

I am questioning the inability of some members here to live and let live and not jump on people for what they perceive as negativity/too much criticism. Not just jump, you and some others make fun of specific members of the forum for their opinions. Which is uncalled for. Let everyone have their views. Thats what this forum is for.

The thing is we are just telling it now... But this constant bashing is there since longgg... We are just voicing it out now.. Coz it's getting too much of negativity around...

You aren't commenting much on that.. That's fine and not everything is directed towards to you.. There is actually some specific person who tries to divert each and every damn thread into a negative direction... That's what we were talking about !

This is really uncalled for to do this on a constant basis... Why do it and kill the mood of others...its not just this time... It's there since really long time like my friend mentioned.. We are just voicing it put now!

We are extremely sorry if you are getting offended by it... But there is no such intention

Bhaiyon and behno with much love and humility I say this, every one is entitled to their opinions and it's expression. We are also free to like it or dislike it and say so openly. The only thing that we should refrain from is getting personal. We should also know when to stop and retreat from any engagement. Sonakshi will be right for many and wrong for others. So will Rohit and even Naren. While most of you mock him I don't. Just being a doctor does not make one progressive or not being comfortable with seeing your DIL romancing someone on the screen may not actually be regressive but a question of view point. In the end we are free to make our choices. We come from different walks of life, different professions, different cultures(India is a land of varied culture and heritage), nations, gender, ages, we will be different and have different opinions. Try to convince other about your opinion but please do refrain from criticizing them for holding on to it. It is their right. There is no cinematic experience that is not dramatized. Real life to sabhi jee rahey hain. The reason why we may not relate to what is being shown now is because many of us started watchin this show with a different expectation. I miss those initial days of fun. These repeated psychos ready to attack Sona at the drop of hat is irritating to me, does not mean it should irritate you too. Let us not start telling others how to feel or how to convey their feelings. I love to chill around and enjoy the diverse opinions on this forum. Reading them gives me a look into the view points of girls and boys not my age. It gives me an idea of how millennials and the later generations interacts. Lets not try to make it uniform or a battle round. ......Much Love--Saumya

Originally posted by: kar08

You are telling people to criticise when necessary. So I would like to know who decides when it is necessary and when it is not? Nothing rude about that.

This thread as far as I know is open to all and not to a specific group of people.

I am questioning the inability of some members here to live and let live and not jump on people for what they perceive as negativity/too much criticism. Not just jump, you and some others make fun of specific members of the forum for their opinions. Which is uncalled for. Let everyone have their views. Thats what this forum is for.

Whateber i wrote was my frustation about the constant rambling going on! Since u mentioned it is an open forum..even i have the right to express my frustation!

And we make fun of ppl?? So far yess..we have done that for 1 or 2 ppl but i guess u r new here and u have seen just one side..u should go aland read the comments made by that person and even how every member of this thread was even called names!!and that became so dirty that that particular thread was shut down! So pls don't comment about something when the entire picture is not known!! Even in that making fun..we made fun about that person's obsession over certain topics that were brought again and again..she was not called names or we never commented about that person on her back! Whatever was said was done in a discussion in which she also took part!!

And yess..u r bieng rude! Pls tonne down a little! Nobody decides qnything but the situations automatically tells what is right and wrong..and where criticism is required and where not!! A lot of ppl do that in tge forum..even ppl here in the dt too but there is a way of doing that!

U criticise her wadrobe...justified!

U bashed her when she took puja without rohit's consent..justified!

U bashed her when she went for shooting without informing rohit on her wedding day..justified!

But her char was even criticised when she took stand for herself in that anniversary party, when she expected rohit to tell her the truth(she didn't knew till then that it was related to naren), criticised when she shared her views on rani, stooped puja from going out, wanted to be loved by ppl she considers family and what not! And the list is endless!!😐

If u wanna know the complete picture why i commented on the forum turning completely negative..kindly stalk the last 10-15 pages of the forum and go through all the comments! That post was not for one particular thread made in the forum..it was after silent observations from quite some time!