Good morning / evening girls and boys !
Thanks for all opinions. In my opinion, both the bahu and saas overstepped their positions.
First off, thanks for pointing it out, Scorpion ( my friend, is this how you want to be addressed ? ) about Sona putting Rohit on the spot and make him wish his dad. The reaction of the family is unrealistic too. In the real world, the dad should have been infuriated as he was kind of humiliated at the breakfast table. The people whom I know would have countered, Heinnn..... wo jo bhi ho, mera beta hain, woh kuch bhi karein, uske marzi se karein, tum kaun hoti ki ( I know who you are ) you make him wish me? If he wants to be non-cordial with me, his wish. Rohit on the other hand got his title already of zoru ka ghulam a few episodes ago. Lady, give him some credit for why he is behaving the way he is. It is not like the guy is a complete nitwit who needs to be lectured on what relationships mean and so on...... It is not like this fixed his relationship with his dad, it is a simple band-aid. Majorly overstepped 👎🏼from my standpoint.
Coming to Veena, I am OK with her getting angry and surprised by the way a crude guy is speaking. But, I didn't feel it is her place to tell Suman what she should have done once upon a time. If Veena is uncomfortable with the guy, she can very well erupt on the guy and put him in his place herself. I don't remember if she said anything to the guy or simply hung up😕 In principle, I also agree that we can't let people talk any which way they want. But practically speaking if we look at the scenario, I might feel otherwise. It is not like Suman is a patience ki moorat who would take in all the insults from anyone. She has a short fuse herself and a very proud woman. Clearly, seems like Suman has an affable relationship with this Jitesh bhai or whoever. May be he is one of those guys whose bark is worse than the bite. May be he brings something valuable to the table despite his crassness. May be she needs him for Pari's career or any number of things. It is very clear that he is not soliciting Sona for any nefarious thing, he is enquiring her going rate for an event, I think. Yes, he is crude, but how is Suman responsible for his lack of finesse? If I look around myself in my professional life, I can very easily point out people like these around me, they are not dangerous, they don't mean any disrespect, they are simply less sophisticated. So, no I don't fly off the handle on people like those, more importantly on a third person who has no control over the situation whatsoever. For Veena who was shown as a very loving, patient personality, this seems like a 180 degree turn. Is she feelong insecure now that her favorite beta is married? Or is she also stuck in class conflict which didn't come to the fore till now, as she didn't have to deal with it?
Just some food for thought ! Have a great day.
Edited by mili9 - 5 years ago