Ode to Dr. Surgeon

Just watched today's episode and I am impressed with sippy boy all over again. He deserves applause and an ode written for him.

Haven't been to the episode and chat threads all day. So please let me know if my swooning over dr Surgeon is repetitive.

The most adorable mummy's boy acted in such a balanced way by not taking mother's or wife's side. Rather, he supported both of them and acknowledged the fact that his mom was right and sona would still have his support.

I have heard a lot of people say that a guy gets distressed being pulled apart by mother and wife. But rohit proved otherwise. Such a sorted gentleman.

I hope all guys can learn to balance life and situations like rohit and not turn their household into a oneupmanship ground for its members.

Well done dr Surgeon, 👏

Amy, I am Mili. I hope I can write my thoughts here.

You are absolutely right. I echo the same thoughts, I am very impressed with how the doctor/surgeon and now a tactful husband had been showcased yesterday👍🏼.

Even though I find it hard to believe that a 29 yr old woman didn't feel that what she had done was a grave blunder before she had done it ( I am talking about having her dupe sit in for her ), I will sweep that under the rug for now. I am going to forgive her because of what she had gone through and how she has now realized her blunder😳.

But what the good doctor had done is phenomenal. He kept his cool, he tried to make his mom see his biwi's view point and vice versa. He didn't take anybody's side. He understood both of them and served as a bridge between them👍🏼. Isn't this not what we all want? Realistically speaking, I don't think most of us want our husbands/partners to put their mothers on the spot and grill them in front of us, for us to enjoy the oneupmanship. We want them to be given a space to save face. And vice versa when it comes to us. I can't speak for others, most of the time I don't even want him to confront his mother ( as sometimes the older women can get very offended even if the son brings this up ), but to acknowledge the mother's wrong doing/ slight or mistake with me. I am happy with that usually. That lets him still have his relationship with his mother, untarnished. At the same time gives me a feeling of getting implicit support.

Ditto, I hope all guys learn to treat their most important girls like this. Kudos to the writer for helping people see things in a new light👏. Much warranted for today's generation👍🏼I hope the writer deals with tricky situations such as these in the future and show practical and amicable resolution of those situations. We can all learn a thing or two!

Liked Veena and Suman too. Loved that Veena got everything she felt out in the open. That Raima is a stupid character. Why is she running from Rohit, Sona and hugging Sumit for protection? Is she 2 ? Where are her mom and her friends who didn't leave her 24 x7 for 4 years while she was comatose, now disappeared into thin air ? 😲Suddenly, she is homeless and has to be cajoled to grace her presence in Sumit's home? How did the slick, sleazy Sumit turn into a docile, understanding Sumit?

Please, that orange/cheap red is jarring to the eyes, especially Sona's outfit with a cheap, glittery ghunghat/chunri or whatever that horrendous contraption is 👎🏼Everybody else got such classy, purple and maroon clothes. Why did she get THAT?😒Even Rohit's outfit looked OK, of course not fit for a groom, but you know what I mean, pastel and pleasing to the eyes😳. What has Sona done to deserve that horrible cheap bling?🤢

Have a good day !

Hi mili. They showed us the reason why sona left. But it wasn't enough to convince me. She left her wedding for a job, which may or may not last another month or year. Makes me question her sanity. Making raima take her place was another blunder, but rohit forgave her so easily. May be coz of her deplorable condition or may be coz she acknowledged that it was her fault.

I actually appreciate the fact that veena took a stand and called sona out on her folly. Some ground rules have to be set, when someone totally new joins your family and puts it in jeopardy before she enters your house. She was firm, yet forgiving. Having said that, I do not think that rohit's house is a prison for sona. But imagine veena's fear for the future.

Suman for once didn't set off in a verbal diarrhoea and speak for sona. She instead requested veena to take sona as a daughter.

Actually, all the characters were at their best today, sans drama that itv SaaS bahu shows have.

As for the clothes for the bride and groom, I believe pages have flown away criticising the choice. I even felt that cheap veil looked like a plastic sheet.

In real life no MIL or would-be hubby would look at this so lightly. Esp coz it is not the first time, this expediency for the sake of work is a pattern with Sona - coz of her work she came late for her own engagement making guests wait for hours. Those guests who wld hv left their own jobs earlier than usual to attend the function. She talks abt prioritising work above everything. Sorry - not work, “her” work. Uska kaam kaam aur baki logon ka kaam kuch nahin?

Instead of admiring her dedication to work the Sippys shd now realise it is all her deep-seated insecurity abt losing her rozi-roti, thats what is driving her. And thats a much more primal instinct & can make her behave cheaply. It may be justified by her struggles but it is not viable in her new life with the Sippys.

Originally posted by: Bana

In real life no MIL or would-be hubby would look at this so lightly. Esp coz it is not the first time, this expediency for the sake of work is a pattern with Sona - coz of her work she came late for her own engagement making guests wait for hours. Those guests who wld hv left their own jobs earlier than usual to attend the function. She talks abt prioritising work above everything. Sorry - not work, “her” work. Uska kaam kaam aur baki logon ka kaam kuch nahin?

Instead of admiring her dedication to work the Sippys shd now realise it is all her deep-seated insecurity abt losing her rozi-roti, thats what is driving her. And thats a much more primal instinct & can make her behave cheaply. It may be justified by her struggles but it is not viable in her new life with the Sippys.

Agree with your post. Sona has to make a lot of changes, not only in living arrangements, but also in her thinking. Which most likely will be the crux of the story from now on.

It's obvious that sona works for running her household, as the sole bread winner. That is not the case for the sippy family. A lot of clashes are in the fore.