Originally posted by: IFLove
Girls, I m trying to understand these characters, just hear me out once.
Starting with Suman, we all know she is a money minded woman. Earlier, she was using Sona as money machine alone, now she is her daughter as well as money machine. Just because she started loving Sona doesn't mean her money minded nature has changed, the two are separate things. Apart from that, she has been a celebrity mom since years. As for Sippy's and most of us, no media and promotions is normal life, for rastogi's and other celebs, media, promotion, publicity is a normal life. Going by our normal standards, we won't think about publicity and sponsorship when we r planning our wedding. However for celebs, that will the first thing they'll remember. For us, it is using marriage for publicity, for them, it is maintaining their image and involving their stakeholders in their big day. Like, won't we get mag if our fav couple gives us zero access to their wedding celebrations? Don't we love it when we get their news segments etc when they r shopping for the wedding? As much as they get money from this sponsorship, it is a part and parcel of their job to keep their fans satisfied by giving some access to personal life, to keep their stylists etc happy by giving them the credits because they are going to need all these people for life. Yes, suman does go overboard, but we have to understand that this is routine for her. As much as she is not understanding that this could not go well with Sippy's, Sippy's too don't understand that it is the normal for those coming from this fraternity. They are not creating an issue till it is tolerable. Once it goes overboard for them, they speak it out. That is what this show is, they'll show how 2 different backgrounds will try to work their relationship out, when none of them is wrong in their own place.
Coming to Sona and Rohit, both are mature adults. But the difference is, Rohit has grown up in a big family, he understands the relationship dynamics better, he has seen his dad doing something wrong to his mother and has stayed quiet for her happiness. He has seen Pooja's adoption and how whole family doesn't make an issue out of it but treats her like her own, for her happiness. He has seen how his mother takes care of the whole family. He has seen how is badi mumma has been managing this big fat family and every relationship in it. He has seen how u give importance to relationships letting go of certain other things. Whereas, Sona grew up in a small family where she didn't have dad, mother was behind finding source of income, her younger siblings have been her responsibility and she has been working for them since the age she could understand any relationship. She definitely is empathetic and understands people and loves them. But she still doesn't have an idea about how u manage relationships. For her, it has always been more of a responsibility than relationship. Work has not been just work for her but her way of fulfilling these responsibilities. So she is not able to understand that at this point of her life, giving more time her new relationships is more important than her work because since the time she could understand the dynamics of any relationship, she has only understood one thing, that is, u have to keep working to fulfill the needs of Ur loved ones n keep them happy and that has made her this workoholic that she doesn't understand that being involved in her marriage functions and taking out time for eachother can be more beautiful.
Previously, we had seen Sona being very understanding and loving, she still is. But at that time, it didn't have anything to do with her work. Her work was not getting hampered unlike now. Even now, she is trying her best to do everything possible, but after managing her work. And back then, Rohit used to be a selfish man...and he is like even now, but the difference is, Sona is now his, she is a part of his selfish world. With his own experience about relationships and by Veena's advice about managing Ur relationship beyond any differences, he is trying to understand this new relationship in his life and everything that comes with it. He will have issues with Sona, but he'll sort it out, like he did the raima's ring scenario...and she too will understand him. Sona works on daily deadlines, whereas Rohit can keep his non-emergency work on hold. He'll get busy post marriage and she'll need him more in that new big family. That is how they'll understand how to balance eachother's work as well as relationship demands. Obviously this is a daily soap n some drama will happen to present this basic plot of the show...but unless they don't change the characters of Ronakshi or anybody else, I think we'll be fine.