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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Kali_S


Yess..just neglect the bitterness..😉..whatever happend..just forget abt it..Though incidents like this not only make u suffer but people around and close to u as well..They also feel the same pain..



You definitely deserve better ..Please make it happen soon for a bright future on ur way..😊


Thank You.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#42
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Posted: 9 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: Hey_Bhaggu


Yes. No consideration at all. Imagine someone getting seriously injured or raped or something and noone even comes to know. I'm enraged at the lack of attention we are given as international students. And I understand the value of the 'experience' dear, and taking a lesson from it, but this is not the kind of stuff that I can take in my stride easily and move on with..if it was some dumb heartbreak its okay, this is like my entire valuables gone. No place to live, nothing to eat, no money at all, and nothing to do. I hope you understand how severe this is, in a foreign country too. Thanks for the positivism nevertheless.




My dear..
I really understand what you are going through.. seriously I do... When my friend was narrating her experience I really felt scared.. Her story would have turned more scary hadn't it for her memory and her boyfriend.. She had no money.. no mobile.. she was all alone.. she couldn't eat anything.. but then she remembered her boyfriend's number and borrowed a phone and informed him.. He quickly came for her aid...

And please don't feel bad about what I said about 'experience' ... What I meant was.. Of course you would have to cope up with current problems but with this knowledge you will be more cautious in future.. You can be of help when , in future, you meet a person who is experiencing what you experienced. You can form a group to spread awareness.. You can make the university do the necessary arrangements in the future..

And about GOD.. well my brother (who now turned into an atheist..) used to say that god is an emotionless energy.. It doesn't have any feelings.. It doesn't care what happens to you is good or bad, it just let's it happen..

I don't entirely agree with him but all I can say is... You are a wonderful person so you would surely figure a way out of this mess.. I am not saying this out of pity or something else.. I am calling you wonderful because you are not shy to express your feelings.. When you were in trouble you sought your friend's support.. online or offline.. you opened up.. From this I felt you were a confident young woman..

No matter how crappy your mood is right now.. or how helpless you feel.. I bet a 1000 that you will overcome it..

Hope you find the lost humanity somewhere..

P.S. btw... how are you surviving without money? Is there any other source of income? Are your friends supporting you? I am kinda worried...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Hey_Bhaggu

I'm turning sore now and losing faith in God. Because if he exists, he needs to get me my justice.
I dont have the option to try anything, I HAVE to be strong because weakness and tears are not gonna get me anywhere. Believe me, you would not wanna be sitting on the streets and begging for food like I was today. Yes. I had to do that because I had NO money at all. Such an awesome experience and amazing life lessons!! Yipeee!! People looking at me as if I'm a dog.



You will get justice for sure! Because this is not what you deserve! Reading this broke my heart... You are one of the sweetest people i know, this should not be happening to you! I wanna do something to help you so badly!! This is going to make you stronger than you already are... Dont lose faith
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Posted: 9 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Kali_S

Just one thing..Make it a GOOD NEWS ASAP..!!..Coz Good News are always pleasant to be heard..!!..please dont find me offensive..

I hope u are strong enough to turn this news into a Good one..:)


Good News ka mattlab to kuch aur hi hota hai dear 🤣
Bina shaadi ke ye sab?! Haye Daiya! 😆😆😆
Kaisi baatein kar rahi hai aap

Sorry trying to be a lil lighthearted today, since everything is closed and I'm kinda tensed now 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: umawanderer



My dear..
I really understand what you are going through.. seriously I do... When my friend was narrating her experience I really felt scared.. Her story would have turned more scary hadn't it for her memory and her boyfriend.. She had no money.. no mobile.. she was all alone.. she couldn't eat anything.. but then she remembered her boyfriend's number and borrowed a phone and informed him.. He quickly came for her aid...

And please don't feel bad about what I said about 'experience' ... What I meant was.. Of course you would have to cope up with current problems but with this knowledge you will be more cautious in future.. You can be of help when , in future, you meet a person who is experiencing what you experienced. You can form a group to spread awareness.. You can make the university do the necessary arrangements in the future..

And about GOD.. well my brother (who now turned into an atheist..) used to say that god is an emotionless energy.. It doesn't have any feelings.. It doesn't care what happens to you is good or bad, it just let's it happen..

I don't entirely agree with him but all I can say is... You are a wonderful person so you would surely figure a way out of this mess.. I am not saying this out of pity or something else.. I am calling you wonderful because you are not shy to express your feelings.. When you were in trouble you sought your friend's support.. online or offline.. you opened up.. From this I felt you were a confident young woman..

No matter how crappy your mood is right now.. or how helpless you feel.. I bet a 1000 that you will overcome it..

Hope you find the lost humanity somewhere..

P.S. btw... how are you surviving without money? Is there any other source of income? Are your friends supporting you? I am kinda worried...


You just reminded me I dont have a boyfriend 😲🤣
On a serious note, I understand dear, dint take you wrong.
My mood was completely shattered that day.
Couldn't think straight. Sorry if I offended you.
If I cannot help myself, how can I be of help to others?
Have to figure out a way for myself first.
I opened up because I dont have any other channel to express my feelings.
Noone was around at the university to help me out.
I needed someone to simply listen. Maybe you will learn from my experience.
I was stupid to live in this bubble that I'm safer here than in India.
Bubble burst, I'm more aware of reality now.
I'm living in the library, begged on streets for past 3 days to get money for food.
Looking for a job but they're all closed or open only to grad and citizens.
More than humanity, I'm not sure if I can even trust God anymore.
And I'm a heck religious person. I've never taken off my pendant and I've never asked him for anything. Just this one time, I deserve my stuff back, thats all I want.

Edited by Hey_Bhaggu - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Mithi373



You will get justice for sure! Because this is not what you deserve! Reading this broke my heart... You are one of the sweetest people i know, this should not be happening to you! I wanna do something to help you so badly!! This is going to make you stronger than you already are... Dont lose faith


Well, the thing is that I've trusted God to protect me since the day I've come here alone. That was my only reason not to care about anything else. But when he fails my beliefs, I dont know where to go to find hope. I cannot keep having trust if there is nothing positive gonna happen in my life. Thats it. I'm not giving up on my trail to find the people who wronged me, but God isnt showing me any signs of believing in him anymore. Ganapati Bappa cannot keep doing this to me. I have not done bad to others, why do I have to suffer for nothing? I need an answer and a result. Patience is not the key to my problem 😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Hey_Bhaggu



Well, the thing is that I've trusted God to protect me since the day I've come here alone. That was my only reason not to care about anything else. But when he fails my beliefs, I dont know where to go to find hope. I cannot keep having trust if there is nothing positive gonna happen in my life. Thats it. I'm not giving up on my trail to find the people who wronged me, but God isnt showing me any signs of believing in him anymore. Ganapati Bappa cannot keep doing this to me. I have not done bad to others, why do I have to suffer for nothing? I need an answer and a result. Patience is not the key to my problem 😭



I completely understand your situation... When someone breaks your trust or gives you a reason to stop trusting them, there's nothing worse... I hope soon you find all your answers and this gets sorted out! BTW you have no one at all? Like maybe you guys aren't close or anything but what about Ashi di and Taira di...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: Mithi373

I completely understand your situation... When someone breaks your trust or gives you a reason to stop trusting them, there's nothing worse... I hope soon you find all your answers and this gets sorted out! BTW you have no one at all? Like maybe you guys aren't close or anything but what about Ashi di and Taira di...


They are in NYC. Their summer vacations are on.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#50
I would pray for u..I wish and hope u get all ur stuff back asap..hope next time when u come here u give us a good news..:)

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