SOME OF MY FRUSTATIONS.... - Page 3

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Anoli I said the same thing in Anu's post also and now I m repeating the same thing 😃

See just yesterday somebody saved my life while crossing the road when some car was coming from the opposite direction and i never noticed it ...so now should I marry that stranger and return back the favour just because he saved my life 😕 😆 ..thats really unrealistic 😕

Fine no need to forgive dev 😃 ..but then how can u marry a guy just to return back the favour when u don't love him at all ..If I was in kajal's shoes then I wouldn't hv married at all at this stage when I had just recovered from my ML 😃 ...to prove your hatred for someone...u don't need to marry someone and to return back the favour to someone also,u don't need to marry that someone 😃

O Jyoti, dear be careful. crossing roads is sometimes one of the most difficult task, specially on a busy road at busy times. take care dear.

and yeah u r right, i dont think you will go ahead and marry ur savior 😊

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Ya Satya seems to b quite unrealistic in his approach now..fine he is angry with dev and doesn't want him in his daughter's life but then his daughter has just recovered from her mental sickness and instead of trying to give her some rest and mental piece,he is indirectly pressurizing her daughter to go ahead with the marriage through emotional blackmail

Satya should just relax and actully think this whole thing through. This decision wont give anyone happiness, its just a road of sadness, and hurt. and whats this i hear? Kaajjal said she doesnt love Dev anymore??? 😲

Jyoti and Aoni i totally agree with the both point of views.
But now lets make this a bit realistic and relate to the real world .No father would tell her daughter to get married to a stranger>>>I know Adi saved kaajjal's life but he is still a stranger...before making any decision he must first try to get to know Adi and his family .It is possible that also Adi has a past life and maybe another woman in his life.. you never know????? 😳



On the other hand all that what happend to kaajjal >>Ok doesn't happen in real life.But the reason why dev expect her to forgive him coz she forgave him earlier when he throwed her out of his house in some pooja...

kaajjal mightfind it difficult to forgive him but as far as i knew she was feeling guilty herself...
A normal person might not accept this and feel insecured to spend her whole life with a person who could so rude and treat like some dirt!!!!!

Although to come to a conclusion kaajjal should also consider things that he did for her. And do..tolna...did he hurt her more or gave more love!!!!

I am sure dev's love weights much more then the pain he gave her!!!!
😊

Originally posted by: jasmeet khaneja

Jyoti and Aoni i totally agree with the both point of views.
But now lets make this a bit realistic and relate to the real world .No father would tell her daughter to get married to a stranger>>>I know Adi saved kaajjal's life but he is still a stranger...before making any decision he must first try to get to know Adi and his family .It is possible that also Adi has a past life and maybe another woman in his life.. you never know????? 😳



On the other hand all that what happend to kaajjal >>Ok doesn't happen in real life.But the reason why dev expect her to forgive him coz she forgave him earlier when he throwed her out of his house in some pooja...

kaajjal mightfind it difficult to forgive him but as far as i knew she was feeling guilty herself...
A normal person might not accept this and feel insecured to spend her whole life with a person who could so rude and treat like some dirt!!!!!

Although to come to a conclusion kaajjal should also consider things that he did for her. And do..tolna...did he hurt her more or gave more love!!!!

I am sure dev's love weights much more then the pain he gave her!!!!
😊

Yup I agree with u completely...see thats my point that even if satya and kaajjal r angry with dev but that doesn't mean u will go and marry a stranger just for returning the favour of saving one's life😕..I mean how can a father just get her daughter married to a stranger whom he knows just from one week and that too in a situation when her daughter is recovering from her mental sickness😕..all this looks a bit unrealistic to me😕

Originally posted by: sharna2k6

Satya should just relax and actully think this whole thing through. This decision wont give anyone happiness, its just a road of sadness, and hurt. and whats this i hear? Kaajjal said she doesnt love Dev anymore??? 😲

Sharna unfortunately Kaajjal said those words...but it was only her mind speaking that time😡..her heart definitely say something else😳

hey guys i am not new to this forum but i follow the updates and i have always loved the show but now i am just annoyed and frusterated with it..............
but i think kaajal only got her memory of the bad things dev did to her........... 🤢

There is something, something in this track whcih is very very important, that will lead to that final dawning on her memory that Dev is her very life! I can't seem to pinpoint, 😕 but I sure hope that reason has a strong climax to it else I shall wish to rename Shreya Porductions as "Unnecessary Stretching Unlimited Production House" 😡

Mishti, unnecssary stretching is an understatement! If they can give her instant memory loss, in the space of a single episode, then why can't they rectify things. Why take so many episodes? And then all the old characters could have blended in, well earlier on in this stupid goat-track!!!! Stupid khichdi they have cooked up here. And they are butchering a father's character!! I don't even want to say it. And then in the end, we all know SP will have to bow down!!! Stupid!!! 😡

Simply too much!!! 😕

i havent seen the epi...all i can say...didnt feel like seein after i read the update...whats goin on...really...on thurs...(again thats due to a superb performance by sur, not a character change) that i thought Kajjal's character is goin to be like ole...the same mahadash like conflict tearing her apart...but no....shes become like stone
arre after getting all those falshbacks...aur kya bakhi raha... arre one jhalak of his tama patra uske toh hosh udd gaye...the....she didnt think...DEv hurt me so bad....he tried to misbehave in the hotel room...he slapped me...did she think of any of things...no...the only thing on her mind was...Dev is dying...my devu is dying and i have got to save him....and when he runs from her...she even...comes on to him...and when he tells...her...she will die if he marries her...she doesnt blink an eyelid....and says yes...

she stalks him...till he agrees...and she was the one who became alunatic...and put sindoor of his name in her maang...sab bhool gayee kya...Kaajjal...no this is not the kaajjal we know...ab pata nahin what theese writers will do bring soniya in to replace kaajjal in devs life 😡


the writers are not connecting it well...before the goat track they show kaju....goin to the point of sheer...lunacy...chasin Dev for forgiveness...after NT moms death and his anger....she doesnt stop goin to him...even if she is ill, delutional...and has a fever...she says his name (like Dev is doin now)....ek hi naam tha uske zubaan par...

arre DEv ne maaf kiya...he wants her back, he was prepared to grovel...she should be shouting from the roof tops...the ole kaju would have jumped off a few roof tops by now...

is this kaajjal now become a staple ELAS character bejan...robotlike....kabhi is camp mein kabhi us camp...mein....
then please start a new track with Dev maybe...finding a new...love.... nahin chaiyye aisi bewafaa...
i feel sorry for Sur and APu my heart bleed s for this majectic actor who has given his heart and soul to every shot, every performance....he doent derve it....for givin a bravua performance...but she is losing...int...as a good actress does...is turning wooden...they may change the main lead...and bring a staple...ELAS clone...and then kajjal can safely go back to the shelf...ek acche love story ko maar dala...

and i hope sur and apu rock again in a better, well written show and definitely one not directed...by Shreya shoe string budget....jhooten maarnen ko ji karata hai un logon ko....akal nahin...diktha nahin...adi...hero lagta hai kissi mahine se...chee...digusting... 😡 😡

yaar jyo...kya kahen..i share all your sentiments 100%
sammy

Originally posted by: autumnleaf

There is something, something in this track whcih is very very important, that will lead to that final dawning on her memory that Dev is her very life! I can't seem to pinpoint, 😕 but I sure hope that reason has a strong climax to it else I shall wish to rename Shreya Porductions as "Unnecessary Stretching Unlimited Production House" 😡

Mishti, unnecssary stretching is an understatement! If they can give her instant memory loss, in the space of a single episode, then why can't they rectify things. Why take so many episodes? And then all the old characters could have blended in, well earlier on in this stupid goat-track!!!! Stupid khichdi they have cooked up here. And they are butchering a father's character!! I don't even want to say it. And then in the end, we all know SP will have to bow down!!! Stupid!!! 😡

Simply too much!!! 😕

Autumn I guess the makers don't know how to continue the serial ahead once this goat track ends😕..and thats why they r stretching this entire senseless track like a rubberband...And I agree with u ,kaajjal loses her memory just at one go and then gets back her memory in that havan again at one go😕..somehow this entire track of adi-dadu seems unrealistic to me...I mean suddenly a stranger is introduced who gives shelter to kajal and also acts as her husband and is not at all bothered to find out about her past and then suddenly adi's family decides for the actual marriage without even considering the fact that kajal can't remember her past life and then satya comes and instantly gives the nod for the marriage without even trying to know about adi and his family background in detail...which father will take such an important decision of her daughter's life in the split of a second,that too when her daughter is recovering from her memory loss stage...everything looks very artificial..😡

Good post Jyoti! You summed up exactly what everyone is feeling! I only skimmed everryone's replies cause even reading about this stupid Adi saga bores me to death, so sorry if I repeat what anyone's said, but seriously this track has gone on for too long!! 😡 I used to love this show, but I can't even stand to watch the episodes now, I just read the updates and every time I do it makes my heart sink further. This storyline makes no sense whatsoever!! Kajal would never say that she doesn't love Dev!! I can't believe this is the same Kajal who loved him so much, who shared such an intuition with him that she knew he wasn't dead, that she was prepared to sacrifice her life just to show him the extent of her love! What on earth do the scriptwriters take us for? Are we seriously to believe Kajal would marry a man she barely knows, foreskaing the love of her life, all because he saved her? It's insane and it's doing the show no favours. We're all just gonna stop watching it if this goes on any longer. I mean, Dev kahan hai? He only pops up for a few nano seconds here and there! Our only hope now is Hottie will prevail on Kajal and make her see sense, but I'm not holding out any hopes.