Originally posted by: SahanaG
Tehsina i'l be blunt with you here so asking sorry before i start my verbal diarrhea 😉
Its human nature to have difference of opinions, if we didn't have opinions we wouldn't have progressed to designer Homo-sapiens 😳 we've had clashes and arguments from day 1, what broke the forums back was Prithvi's MIA, DB-IP as the star of the show by dumb CVs 😡
off course what made it worse was comments which came out looking distasteful 😕 I won't explicitly jot what was written by whom & stuff but would like to give you an example to help understand what went wrong & where
I've been in a complicated on & off relationship for the past few years 🤔 Its on when my b/f visits town and off when he goes back to his nomadic life 😡 In his absence if i indulge in harmless flirting & hang out with guys, its normal and acceptable right? But if i start having affairs, wouldn't people question my loyalty? Is getting offended by those Qs and sneers right on my part? 😲 I hope you got my point 😕
I can't speak for others but i had cut myself from forum coz i didn't like the topics and comments which were made I compelled myself to make comments & posts later on because there were few topics which were being made to purposely rile other members for the sake of fun🤔 Glossing that as freedom to speak, my personal choice, blah blah is not done at all 👎🏼
We are all in this platform for Mithvi's Junoon, if someone challenges that i can be caustic,sarcastic or any stick which can be stuck to stop this absurdity & am not sorry for being that 😳 We all know its a stupid fiction show, it doesn't mean we'l be thrown whatever s**t CVs feel like 🤢 I am cordial and nice until am provoked & that's how i've been since i joined this forum 😕 😕
Sahana,u do hv da freedom of speakn,but protectn Mithvi or standing for wat is ethical,nd against non-ethical dusnt mean givn deliberate taunts at odrs my frnd...I didnt mean u or any1 in particular...I meant all of us fightn nd turning da forum into a battlefield...
U were direct at most tyms,unless sm ppl who indirectly giv taunts nd insults thru different posts...If u cn say ur pov,so we shud be allowed to express ours shudnt we?😕
Y shud we be attacked my frnd,for liking sth,which odrs dnt,no matr if its ethical or unethical..Its a stupid serial,nd we r allowed to enjoy our leads chemistry upto sm extent..😲
We never sd we want IP-Meera hvn SR,or kissing nd cuddling..!🤢We jst enoyed Adni's chemistry,where IP ws shown tryn to avoid Meera nd failing everytym..Bt we were attacked for our likes,jst because we hd a diffrnt POV?!
We wil nt enjoy now,if IP forces himself on Meera lyk DB did wid Prithvi,bt m sure wn we protest bout dis,we'll get more taunts nd insults,lyk WE TOLD U SO..ND NW DEY R ASKN..Nd i dnt want to go into da details..Dey giv me headache..
Nd tokn bout groupings,y didnt we get comments on posts where we were askn bout Prithvi's return?Or ws hvn a laugh on Hudda?Were dey against da ethics too?M nt tokn bout u,here..I think u commented..🤔
Wat i m against is da indirect nd direct taunts nd insults,nd definitely da attacks...We cn argue in a polite way too my frnd..Not by insulting ppl's intelligence nd knowledge..Arguing is not da problem..Being so impolite,as to direct insulting is da problem here..Nd ur u cn show ur anger at da cvs or MYP,a thousand tyms,we dnt hv prblm wid dt!Infact we'd hv cheered u ppl,if dey also did not contain,insults nd taunts,directed at us too..Dt is not acceptable..Sorry if i hurt u..Thank u fr reading dis patiently...
Edited by TehsinaJFJ - 12 years ago