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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SahanaG

Sudha is a mother who doesn't want her darling daughter to the same mistakes (as per her) as she did by marrying a goan ka chora Data Thakur was educated but he gave up on things for villagers happiness which made Sudha bolt from village with baby Meera . Sudha has the notion that Prithvi being a staunch villager, uneducated & lacking social skills is not a fit husband for her city bred daughter.


She's aware of Meera & Prithvi getting attracted to each other in spite of all the odds 😉 but she fears they won't be compatible in the long run & Meera might get separated like she was & suffer 😕 She sees Akash as the safe life partner who will give Meera materialistic & easy life 🤢 She's being the protective mother like she has been all Miu's life, i can understand her uneasiness regarding Prithvi. I hope she lets Meera make her own choice now & give Prithvi a chance to prove as a husband 😉

I won't go so far as to applaud Ramdhari, he's been an understanding father but hasn't given any reason yet why he had to marry Mithvi There are lot of questions he hasn't given answers & as a village sarpanch he's acting like a docile person 😕

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agree.
I don't like her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SahanaG

Sudha is a mother who doesn't want her darling daughter to the same mistakes (as per her) as she did by marrying a goan ka chora Data Thakur was educated but he gave up on things for villagers happiness which made Sudha bolt from village with baby Meera . Sudha has the notion that Prithvi being a staunch villager, uneducated & lacking social skills is not a fit husband for her city bred daughter.


She's aware of Meera & Prithvi getting attracted to each other in spite of all the odds 😉 but she fears they won't be compatible in the long run & Meera might get separated like she was & suffer 😕 She sees Akash as the safe life partner who will give Meera materialistic & easy life 🤢 She's being the protective mother like she has been all Miu's life, i can understand her uneasiness regarding Prithvi. I hope she lets Meera make her own choice now & give Prithvi a chance to prove as a husband 😉

I won't go so far as to applaud Ramdhari, he's been an understanding father but hasn't given any reason yet why he had to marry Mithvi There are lot of questions he hasn't given answers & as a village sarpanch he's acting like a docile person 😕

Agree with Sudha being protective of her daughter, but my concern is that she has made no effort to understand what her daughter wants or feels, she is only stuck with Aakash. Being a caring mom, she should have atleast made an attempt to speak to Meera and find out what she really wants, but sadly she has never done that. She is being protective to the extent of imposing her decisions on her. Meera has shared such close relationship with her mom, that she used share all her feelings with her, but now its the same Meera who no longer wants to tell her mom anything and thats why I said that Ramdhari needs to be applauded. He understands Meera and Prithvi perfectly, he wants them together, but does not impose his decisions on either of them, he just provides them guidance when ever they need it and supports all their decisions.
We are yet to know why were Prithvi-Meera were married off in childhood, but thats upto the CVs to clear.
Edited by phulwa - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't like sudha mom😡 coz... she all time so much Hate Prithvi😭 & apni miu ki dil ki baat tak nahi sunti 😭 only apni zid puri karni hai...😡.
so poor Meera...😭
very good DT... Miu ki dil ki baat jante hai jabki miu saath nahi rahi ...👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sabaSpeaks

Sudha is a mother who doesn't want her darling daughter to the same mistakes (as per her) as she did by marrying a goan ka chora Data Thakur was educated but he gave up on things for villagers happiness which made Sudha bolt from village with baby Meera . Sudha has the notion that Prithvi being a staunch villager, uneducated & lacking social skills is not a fit husband for her city bred daughter.


I don't think we can blame sudha for thinking like this, isnt this normal behaviour to try to save your children from your own mistakes,at least in her case DT was educated and was far better than Prithvi in social standing (sadly, hawtness not a deciding factor)

She's aware of Meera & Prithvi getting attracted to each other in spite of all the odds 😉 but she fears they won't be compatible in the long run & Meera might get separated like she was & suffer 😕 She sees Akash as the safe life partner who will give Meera materialistic & easy life 🤢 She's being the protective mother like she has been all Miu's life, i can understand her uneasiness regarding Prithvi. I hope she lets Meera make her own choice now & give Prithvi a chance to prove as a husband 😉

I remember she said to Akash that if one of our loved ones wants to jump in a well , we should stop her, if they cant think right for themselves , it is our responsibility to stop them from ruining their lives, probably still atkofied at the same thought .Also Meera hasbt clearly said to her that she loves Prithvi and wants to stay with him , she hasnt ever cleared her stand on Prithvi , yesterday also when she was asking what is wrong , meera did not answer
This is the catch, Meera has not said anything to Sudha as she thinks that Sudha will never understand her feelings for Prithvi.Sudha has only been imposing her decision on Meera, but she has never really tried to talk to her and genuinley know whats in her mind. Sudha only wants Aakash-Meera to get married period. So, Meera does not see any point in letting her know that she does not want Aakash in her life.

I won't go so far as to applaud Ramdhari, he's been an understanding father but hasn't given any reason yet why he had to marry Mithvi There are lot of questions he hasn't given answers & as a village sarpanch he's acting like a docile person 😕

very true, we need to know why mithvi were married in the first place , what ever idiotic reason it is , we should be made aware of that

Edited by phulwa - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think we can blame sudha for thinking like this, isnt this normal behaviour to try to save your children from your own mistakes,at least in her case DT was educated and was far better than Prithvi in social standing (sadly, hawtness not a deciding factor)

Yes hawtness isn't a factor to consider 😆 😆 I am not blaming Sudha for thinking about Meera but its irritating nevertheless 🤢

I remember she said to Akash that if one of our loved ones wants to jump in a well , we should stop her, if they cant think right for themselves , it is our responsibility to stop them from ruining their lives, probably still atkofied at the same thought .Also Meera hasbt clearly said to her that she loves Prithvi and wants to stay with him , she hasnt ever cleared her stand on Prithvi , yesterday also when she was asking what is wrong , meera did not answer


Correct again, Meera hasn't told Sudha how magically & ridiculously she fell in lub with Prithvi & turned Akash into her chuddy buddy by bhagwanji's kripa 😡😡

@bold: ohhh.. I dont have any doubts in that , he will pass with flying colors in all the departments 😉

Koi shaq nahi 😉 😆


very true, we need to know why mithvi were married in the first place , what ever idiotic reason it is , we should be made aware of that

I swear, i thought he would say something about the majboori ki shaadi Meera & Prithvi had in yesterday's episode but he didn't give any explanation. I think CVs are still searching the answer to that question 😡 😆

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