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selvi1275

@selvi1275

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Posted: 6 years ago

#471

Originally posted by: lghosh

Ab ro mat!! 🤗 Sach mein, he looks like a villain! 😔 Kya dikhta tha aur kya dikh raha hai!! 😒 But you said na, he is innovating new look for new roles. Toh woh soch ke khush ho jaayo.

So you too saw him......I didn't...😊

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

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Posted: 6 years ago

#472

Okay completely off topic!! I know peeps from India will not be able to relate to this but when you are away from India it comes to perspective more.

I have 2 Indian kiddos, both autistic, the older one very verbal and very good in math and reads and spells well but comprehension is zero. If you show a picture and ask where is the setting he will not know why it is outside! I will have to prompt through various questions about the background to get it out of him. When is the time day or night, he will be at a loss to decipher! I have to hint about the color of the sky. And he is very sensitive and doesn't want to be corrected in any way even if he gets a math problem wrong.

The younger one talks but you can say non-verbal. I have to write everything on a piece of white board for him to read and understand. Maybe the older one talks so much and takes all the attention and that is why the younger one doesn't get a scope to talk.

The home scenario is tough I guess because the parents are separated. Mom babies them, the older one in 6th grade doesn't know how to put on socks or cut with scissors or any motor skill for that matter. I hear mom does everything right from brushing their teeth to dressing them up. Swimming days are a headache! Literally, I have to give them turn by turn instructions for them to get dressed.

And the dad, he makes me raving mad! He is a stock market broker, filthy rich, 'new money' written all over him! Comes into my class as if he owns it, looks down on everyone and everything and makes snide remarks! I can see that his influence is much stronger than the mom's and the older one kind of looks up to his dad like a role model! Whatever dad says is written in stone!

I had the older son's IEP on Friday for which I had to prepare for the whole week. Oh my gosh, he is a total MCP, arrogant and aggressive! I was zapped seeing him in the meeting! He snubbed the mom once saying, 'What are you talking about, you are not even a real doc'! The mom is going to school for Homeopathic degree. The mom sadly smiled and looked at me! The principal, other teachers, and staff later simply looked at me with big questioning eyes asking as if 'Are all Indian men like this?'! Shameful I tell you!

In the meeting he said, He doesn't care about any subject but Math and Science. The older will be an engineer and so he has to do well in those subjects. Son is good in math but not in science. And he said his older son will look after the younger one. I looked at him and asked poignantly, what about teamwork, collaborative powers, social skills! To survive in this day and age you have to work as a team, you can't be a solo player at work, you have to listen to make others listen to you! He simply pooh-poohed me! I got so angry with this man I can't voice in words! Your sons don't have any bonding, they don't communicate, they don't interact in any way and you expect your older son with zero social skills to become an engineer and will look after the younger son! It is easier to teach the kids than their parents!

I lost my patience on Friday which I never do! Even before the bell rang he walks into class without knocking and tells his son 'lets go' and the son got up to leave! I very calmly and in an authoritative manner told him he will have to wait outside for the bell to go and told the son not to walk away without being excused by me! You should have seen the face of the dad, he had an unbelievable expression! He walked out unhappily but I didn't care!

Seriously, it makes me wonder are these MCP and new money attitude and traits prevalent only in Indian men! Are all Shehzades and Mahendars around? Aren't there any AMKs around?! 🤔 The other parents are also rich because our school is the best and richest in the district with all ranch owners as the parent mass, in and around the residential area but none of the parents are so aggressive and arrogant! They are more like needy about their kiddos which I completely get. They will insist on this and that for their kids but not making snide remarks and comments. They can be in denial about their kiddos but they are not disrespectful!

Anyway, sorry to rant away but seriously I was so mad and upset on Friday! The whole week was a nightmare!

Edited by lghosh - 6 years ago

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

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Posted: 6 years ago

#473

Originally posted by: selvi1275

So you too saw him......I didn't...😊

No Selvi, I didn't watch him! I don't have any Indian channels at home, I got them all disconnected! 🤔

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Shraddha

@lashy

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Posted: 6 years ago

#474

@ Selvi I tried watching but here none of the links allowed

@ Lana - that is horrible... 😡

And to answer your question... no... Mahendars and Shehzaades are not the only men around.. while you might not find an AMK easily, if you look hard enough, you'll definitely find the Ibrahims, Azeezs Sayyids Mohan bannas and the Chacha jaans😃

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divyadaya13

@divyadaya13

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Posted: 6 years ago

#475

Originally posted by: lghosh

Divya the problem is, for all good male actors that Balaji has produced so far be it Hiten Tejwani, Harshad Chopra, RT or whoever it is, she builds them up and take them to a height and then drop them mercilessly from the top to make them grovel, cry, weep and beg for forgiveness for the rest of the story. They are made to commit mistakes and then repent for them. Isi liye, I gave up on Hindi shows! 🤔 And after 2 shows, they are slated for 'Father figure'! Why after 2 shows, in the same show they take a leap and become a father!

i agree what you said. But in romance and looks department RT looked dashing inspite of that jungle on his face with paridhi as the older joja. 😉

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

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Posted: 6 years ago

#476

Originally posted by: divyadaya13
i agree what you said. But in romance and looks department RT looked dashing inspite of that jungle on his face with paridhi as the older joja. 😉

That is the saddest part na, Divya!! In spite of having good looks and talent, they become puppets in the hands of EK and do anything and everything she dictates! 😔

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

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Posted: 6 years ago

#477

Originally posted by: lashy
@ Selvi I tried watching but here none of the links allowed

@ Lana - that is horrible... 😡
And to answer your question... no... Mahendars and Shehzaades are not the only men around.. while you might not find an AMK easily, if you look hard enough, you'll definitely find the Ibrahims, Azeezs Sayyids Mohan bannas and the Chacha jaans😃

Thank you for passing that glimmer of hope!! 🤗 He made all of us feel so insufficient with his arrogance and remarks! The older one said our school will be dead for him from next year since he will go off to middle school! And all of us too! And I took offense, I knew where it was coming from! I explained to him in several ways about what he means but he kept repeating that!

I felt like telling him, if our school and we are so bad then why not take your kids to a private school? Hmph! 😡

Anyway, I feel better after ranting now! All the staff and the principal and psychologist were dumbstruck seeing his attitude!

I will let you know if I see IM, Azeez or Sayyid! 😉😆 And if I see AMK...then...THUD! 😆

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divyadaya13

@divyadaya13

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Posted: 6 years ago

#478

I hope someone or atleast life teaches that idiot for a man a good lesson. You couldnt bear that man for a sec. Just imagine wha t his wife might be going through. Atleast you taught a small lesson to him to some extent. And hope you keep doing it. Lashy dear your jalal of NJAPA and AMK OF HBAS have raised the bar and expectations of not only bachelor girls but of married woman too😆. And yes i agree it is difficult and in a way impossible to find AMK in real life but yes there are azizs and list of men as per lashy gave in india. But not very common are they you see.🤓

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divyadaya13

@divyadaya13

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Posted: 6 years ago

#479

Originally posted by: lghosh
]like MCP ek is FCP😆. She is taking gin gin kar badla from men through her shows as well as through the ladies who watch her shows while their husbands are pulling out their hair😆

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

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Posted: 6 years ago

#480

Originally posted by: divyadaya13
I hope someone or atleast life teaches that idiot for a man a good lesson. You couldnt bear that man for a sec. Just imagine wha t his wife might be going through. Atleast you taught a small lesson to him to some extent. And hope you keep doing it. Lashy dear your jalal of NJAPA and AMK OF HBAS have raised the bar and expectations of not only bachelor girls but of married woman too😆. And yes i agree it is difficult and in a way impossible to find AMK in real life but yes there are azizs and list of men as per lashy gave in india. But not very common are they you see.🤓

I know Divya!! I can so see him trashing his wife at every juncture! To live with a man like him is difficult...period! But with 2 autistic sons, I can so see him dictating everything and wanting everything to be followed by what he says!! One day mom was supposed to pick up and she send an email saying so and He walks in and picks them up with such a bossy attitude and left with them. The younger one last year was in the primary grade then, both his teacher and I kept saying 'Mom is coming' but he again walked away without paying any attention! And you can't say anything if it is one of the parents unless we have a court order saying so! 🤔 All the ordeals we go through every day!

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