Originally posted by: KanJmaskis
Solid and a wonderful analysis aunty like always
From the tittle till the chessmat...ur style of writting is obviously 'juda' from all ...its a unique piece of writting ur tittle describes the whole story ... what the matter in it & what its depth...π
Maybe the bangle bit was rather insensitive, but the rest of it is a perfectly legit, no holds barred boxing bout, from which Jalal retires having won on points. This is not yet the self-destructive spousal hostility of Who is afraid of Virginia Woolf .
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Absolutely right this mirchikand was an example of sbs saga though i enjoyed his angry performance π...they made all illogical effort what u put, to show only this mirchiwarπ‘ ...not even ja ate the food in solitary state in present of ameris bt also he only ate the food which was prepared in that big big ' kadhais ππ so then she would think that he is not pretending...
Why then does Jodha assume that he is making up the chilli complaint? If she had taken even a single look at him while he was eating, she would have known that something was badly wrong. But of course she does not. Even without that, a look at him pouring all that water down his throat as she is coming into the room should have alerted her to the fiasco. But that does not even seem to register with her.
Remarkably inept handling: Jodha's response to Jalal's fierce question as to why she did it, that she has no bhay of him, and this not once but twice, before she gets around to a denial, is bizarre. ...perfect ππ ...that was irritating
It all goes to prove that if there is one thing Begum Jodha does not have, it is sound practical sense, plus some understanding even of 'the other', her interlocutor, and why he behaves this way.
If Jodha had, immediately after issuing a firm and unequivocal denial instead of such a roundabout one, rushed to Jalal's side and done something to ease the burning, not out of fear but out of sheer compassion, only would her character have gone up several notches and become truly admirable, but the show would have been cut short, at a rough estimate,by 200 episodes. ...
Agree with u not for her husband but fr the kindness she served to save pigeon bt wonder that is the thing which she shows to all except ja...if there is point that she hated him and don't care about him...then the food cause of suffering made by only her...that too she can see the reactions r saying or screaming that he is true and as u said even not a cross checking that anybody will do after getting bad response for the food which is prepared by herself only...
He then ends with Aadat daal raha hoon...Jodha ke zeher ki aadat daal raha hoon, and the sudden bitterness in his voice sears the screen ππ
"I think also the spice thing further enrages Jalal as it opens up that wound of abandonment/not being cared for, because after all food is nourishment and a source of comfort. That he wanted her to feed him, I think on a deeper level, he wants her to care about him; and feeding someone is one way to do that. So, that he thinks she mirched it up is not just an insult for him, but another rejection. "
That's very true aunty...and it confirmed from his wordings " hamari zabaan ki jalan se jada apko apno ki rusvayi ki parvah hai" ( something like this)...that too after doing what she wants
Zara sa mirchiwala khana to kha nahin paaye, to humein bhojan banana ke liye kaha hi kyon? Ameri mirchi to sah nahin paaye, hum to Amer ki beti hain! ... This shows Attitude waali jodha...π
And Then He revert back-
When he tells her Aapne humein mirch khilakar hamari zubaan par hi nahin, hamare zehen mein aag lagayi hai. Ab us aag ki dahak mein aap khud jalengi, the anger is but a mask for the unacknowledged hurt.
As he rages at her in ever increasing fury, what he is really saying is I did everything you wanted of me and more. How then did you do this to me? Why did you do it?
As she listens to this, for a long moment , Jodha's eyes hold an indefinable, troubled expression. Is it a sudden sense of isolation, of exclusion from what she assumes that this pleasant lady, another spouse of their husband, who moreover has a son from him (Jodha would assume that Rahim is Jalal's son), enjoys? She gets hold of herself soon enough, and salutes Salima very graciously as her senior, but as the two leave, that troubled expression is back in her eyes.
I too noticed that ... Bt onwards it was totally invisible or shown in the particular ones after a long gap,...for benazir and ruk when the situation already reached very high
- Adham, jis din tum sach mein kisi gunehgaar ko pakad laoge, hum use nahin chhodenge! ππ and a little later, Tum sirf unhein pakadna, sazaa hum muqarrar karenge!.π³
About the chessmate I was expecting maham's view bt she was totally silent only giving eyes expressions ...that were not soo clear ...
What points u put in ur analysis they were fantastic aunty and showing ur deep understanding of human behaviour ...brilliant analysis of the characters...π. π...u r just excellent
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