Originally posted by: impiya
Ela, u have said it all. I am disappointed with Jalal's characterization only. I wish he accepts his mistake, before Jo's pregnancy news come in. That will b a huge relief itself. Nobody is denying the guilt part, just that I want him to be fair with everybody. Jodha is almost sidelined in Agra now. Ruqaiya blamed her very publicly, Ja didn't say anything and now avoiding her, so many of the haremites must b thinking that Jo had certainly done something wrong- but actually she is the one who is least responsible for death of the kids among the three (Jo, Ruq and Ja).
Ela, in my distant family, there is a case of a childless jethani and a devrani with 3 kids...when the 3rd kid was to be born, it was decided that it would be the jethani's. ...after a girl & boy, a girl was born again n the jethani was very happy to adopt her... .but things became sour between jethani devrani over the years, &the poor child finally came back to the devrani...
Can we even imagine the emotional trauma of this kid?????kicked n tossed around like this???????...
Hence, it is very imp to have legalities in place during adoption...whether from family or from an orphanage...
Imho,
1)Ruqu should not have asked for Jo's baby first of all...
2) Jo shouldn't have agreed...no reason is good enough to hand over your baby, esp in your very first delivery...& esp to a person like Ruqu...knowing fully well how mean & selfish she is. ..
3)If Jo has agreed, though it is morally wrong of Ruqu to deny access to Jo to the child, legally she is right...
4)For the 1000th & last time, Ruqu did not appoint Zeenat to murder the twins...infact, her dream of becoming MUZ went kaput with Hussein's death...she was devastated, not for Hussein's death, but for her coveted MUZ title...n it's not like she brought zeenat from just about anywhere...Zeenat killing Hassan during jashn had NOTHING to do with her being Hussein's dai ma. ..she was in the palace as Jalal's bhabhi, n murdered hassan...she would have done the same with hussein even without being her dai ma. ...
5)why do many on the forum keep saying that y does Ruqu keep winning???😕...if this is winning, n Jo's fate is losing, i sincerely pray to God that I m blessed with this losing fate of Jo in each of my subsequent births, n don't come even remotely close to Ruqu's fate in any...
Life is not a bed of roses...n neither r we perfect humans...life isn't happy...we have to find happiness in our life...simple...😃
Jo & Jalal will only find happiness with each other...period.