Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 16th Oct 2025
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When a female neurosurgeon comes back home after an unsuccessful surgery of a child (that she lost), she shuts herself away from her family for a while - in a way neglecting them. Punishing them for something neither she was responsible for nor her family was responsible for.
Does this mean the doctor doesn't value her family?During a very complicated natural birth and/or when a woman is in extreme pain she is known to curse, swear, wish death upon her husband (and even physically kick him out of the labour ward) 'All my woes in life are because of you' she says!Does this mean the wife really blames her husband for this state of hers or is she just unable to cope with the physical/emotional trauma of labour?When a parent is extremely stressed and angry about say finances/home affairs, they end up over-punishing a moderately-troublesome child. What is the child's fault? Does the child even know/understand what the parent is going through. Yet the angry parent says hurtful words like 'You are the reason for all my problems'Does this mean the parent resents the child?Answers to all of the above are NOIt's better for a family/child to be briefly taken care by another (could be a few minutes, an hour, a day or a week) while the person in stress deals with the root causes of the stress and then returns to normalcy. Similarly, it's better for Jodha to be taken care of by another for now. Or the palace/house would only be a permanent war camp!It's better Jalal steps out of his palace for a while. He is doing neither himself nor Jodha any favours in his current state of mind.Also as Abhay said, it is very difficult to justify Akbar's Chittor massacre and they've chosen this route.All in all a very dark area of their relationship - a very grey shade of life - but who said life is anything but a differing shade of grey most days?
Originally posted by: chitterati
Lashy, chittor massacre was no grey area, it was not even a blip, it was a big black spot, and cvs have really pulled it off - they have done justice to both jodha and Jalal in this war , they could not have shown jodha preganancy with Jalal's children while he was ruthlessly plundering Rajputs and civilians, similarly Jalal became akbar much later, he was very much the power hungry ruthless emperor atleast till Salim was born.
Originally posted by: Sandhya.A
All through the mohabbat phase, Jalal was always vocal, expressed his love openly and wooed her explicitly. That is his nature.
Jodha never expressed her love for him even when and after vishpaan, not even when he asked her repeatedly why she drank the poison for him. But that is Jodha.Now both of them share the bitterness of their love being the cause of Hussein's death. Jalal has again been vocal and Jodha feels the blame within. That is what Jalal meant by 'aapki razamandi yeh bayaan kar rahi hai.' Yes Divi. The blame is in her heart and on his lips. Any closeness between them at this stage would do them both more harm than good. The beauty of what was to them so close and precious has been scarred by their guilt.Jalal and Jodha have not just lost their children but the beauty of their love too.Jalal's guilt is making him behave the way he does now. Jallad-ism was his way to shut out his pain. It was when as a child he was betrayed by many. It is now when he feels betrayed by God who took away Atga, his badi ammi, both his sons and who twisted fate such that his very precious love became the indirect reason for the death of one And he is in a worse phase than earlier as even as Bairam Khan's protege his faith in God was intact but not now. Hence while Jalaluddin was angry with AK for killing innocents in Malwa this Akbar chose to massacre Chittor.Jodha too is not yet out of her guilt. She gave such a sick look as moti waa watering the tulsi. Her Kanha remains still shut. She is not suffering from Jalal's attitude but more by her guilt and her anger on God.Does Jodha accept this as she has no choice? This is a girl who defied the jallad husband of hers on their first night, who stood up against him whenever she thought that he was wrong. Who walked out when her character was questioned. She even chose to end her life twice rather than accept injustice. If she is quiet now it means she doesn't feel that Jalal is unjust to her. She knows that he is hurting and bleeding as much as she is from within and knows that his anger is only his expression of hurt while hers is silence.For normalcy to be restored they have to overcome their guilt and their faith in their Gods have to be restored. Let us see how the cvs go about doing that.Everything said i still feel that 3 yrs is too long a time for wounds to heal. But the pain and stretch has been extended to accommodate Chittor.