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Originally posted by: elasingh

Adi you did not understand my question fully...perhaps i was not clear...My one question is about wet nurse and the other is abt the practise of children given to other queens to raise and they dont get to meet their mothers ever...like Ruku and Hussain...

ela what ekta is showing is more dramatized, do not know what happened in reality but i believe khurram was raised by ruk and i think she must have allowed the mother to see the child..but it is unfair for both mother and child to be separated..but i will give u my own example i was raised by my grandparents and they taught me the true meaning of love..till date i love them more than my own parents!

Ela such instances were rare - and in the case of EK's show its mor of NR - and as for what may have happened in case of Ruqs and Khurram - Ruqs may have been given the child to raise but the birth mother being totally not having access is something I doubt - and in case of Akbar and MA that happened due to circumstances and not deliberately - HB chose to be with Humayun becoz Akbar was almost an year old and then she was seperated from Akbar for a long time due to the situation - otherwise wet nurses were part of the team of care givers and no birth mother was ever seperated from her own child totally unless the mother went into post partum depression which affected her mental health - today we have treatment for post partum depression but in earlier times we did not - yahan Ruqs ka naatak is NR from EK not reality.

Originally posted by: elasingh

Adi you did not understand my question fully...perhaps i was not clear...My one question is about wet nurse and the other is abt the practise of children given to other queens to raise and they dont get to meet their mothers ever...like Ruku and Hussain...

Originally posted by: adiana12

Ela such instances were rare - and in the case of EK's show its mor of NR - and as for what may have happened in case of Ruqs and Khurram - Ruqs may have been given the child to raise but the birth mother being totally not having access is something I doubt - and in case of Akbar and MA that happened due to circumstances and not deliberately - HB chose to be with Humayun becoz Akbar was almost an year old and then she was seperated from Akbar for a long time due to the situation - otherwise wet nurses were part of the team of care givers and no birth mother was ever seperated from her own child totally unless the mother went into post partum depression which affected her mental health - today we have treatment for post partum depression but in earlier times we did not - yahan Ruqs ka naatak is NR from EK not reality.

yes.!.. in reality i believe the twins died in a month and when did she have all the time to play such games..ekta ne jaziya ki khatiya khari kar di ye to phir daawat=e=harem ka maamla hai😆

Originally posted by: mandyg

ela what ekta is showing is more dramatized, do not know what happened in reality but i believe khurram was raised by ruk and i think she must have allowed the mother to see the child..but it is unfair for both mother and child to be separated..but i will give u my own example i was raised by my grandparents and they taught me the true meaning of love..till date i love them more than my own parents!

Originally posted by: elasingh

I too was raised by my grandparents but I loved all of them equally and Khusaro was given to Rukku not khurram...

see how similar leos are😆..i think as long as the environment is healthy it should not affect much!

Originally posted by: adiana12

Ela such instances were rare - and in the case of EK's show its mor of NR - and as for what may have happened in case of Ruqs and Khurram - Ruqs may have been given the child to raise but the birth mother being totally not having access is something I doubt - and in case of Akbar and MA that happened due to circumstances and not deliberately - HB chose to be with Humayun becoz Akbar was almost an year old and then she was seperated from Akbar for a long time due to the situation - otherwise wet nurses were part of the team of care givers and no birth mother was ever seperated from her own child totally unless the mother went into post partum depression which affected her mental health - today we have treatment for post partum depression but in earlier times we did not - yahan Ruqs ka naatak is NR from EK not reality.

Originally posted by: elasingh

even if birth mother did have some rights , it could not develop close bond between mother and son and not all foster mothers were like MA ...who cared so much for jallu

i guess the child develops a close bond with the foster mother provided she is caring, but if she is not then the child is raised with a grudge against his own mother..which will make the child a loner and self centered!

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Akbar employed 11 thousand tailors to fullfill his and family clothes needs

Originally posted by: elasingh

Akbar employed 11 thousand tailors to fullfill his and family clothes needs