Originally posted by: history_geek
hi cleo,
you and maddy have perceived my post on a different tangent. Maddy included Ruqayya Begum in her response (on which i did not want to carry on, as she was already in a blast mode, waiting for her to cool down..) and here i am being asked about what if any of my friends were acussed.?. In between all this, no one noticed WHY and in what regard i made my post..Finally, trying to explain my point..Abhay,I apologise if I hurt your feelings...Not sure why I got that feeling after reading your reply. By now you should know how much I admire your views...I agree with you 99% of the time...this one time I did not...and expressed it...please don't take it to heart.😊..my frustration is not directed towards you but the show makers...Please read what Rashmi81 has written...these people do not have views/opinions/principles...the only goal they have is to generate maximum profits...nothing wrong with that...I am guilty of practicing it too...after all, this is a material world where success counts...but not at the cost of principles...not when we sending a wrong message to the masses...not when we are making an innocent person look bad...and when I see people do that, I get enraged because there is absolutely no compulsion to do what they are doing. Trust me, It doesn't take a lot of effort to lead a somewhat principled life and make money at the same time.You may be right that I didn't interpret your post as I should have...So let me explain how I interpreted it
My post was made in a different regard. i made my post owing to the following reason...
" after the promo was out, it was being said yesterday that TM is one of the 9 gems, HENCE, he should not be shown like this. "
The clause given was >>> TM being one of the 9 Gems, and hence he can NOT be accused.. In response, i made this comment. that EVEN THE 9 GEMS of Akbar can be accused of such an event.!. As an example, i mentioned Birbal.
Coming to your question. > i do not know entire history, and do not know if TM could ever have been accused of such a charge. But, i STRONGLY believe that TM was not accused of such type of charge ever by ANYONE. This, i am saying from my reading on TM . But, having said all this, let me tell the other side of story, i ALSO believed PREVIOUSLY that BIRBAL also was clear of any such accusation. But, my BELIEF instantly went down drains, when i read such a stuff, on him about his acussation. Though that accusation was ALSO a FALSE one. So, how can one say that something could have happened and something could not.?. It takes JUST one LINE of a historical text to change the BELIEF into DIS-BELIEF.
Tell me, in future if they show Birbal also, being accused like this. I am sure that such posts will be made... (don't know about others) but I know that happened .!!!!!!!!!!.If something hasnt been documented, then I will assume that it did not happen...I trust you as a sincere history researcher...if you haven't read it...then it did not happen😊 Also, I DID NOT write that the 9 gems could do nothing wrong...If there is documented evidence or a suggestion that Birbal was accused of a crime like this and Ekta chooses to show it, I will be fine with it(somewhat...as long as they don't send a wrong message to viewers)...But TM is not Birbal...so why did they cook up this story?...they could have shown it when Birbal comes in picture...Adham committed war crimes...Is it fair to show Atgah committing war crimes instead of Adham?...they are two different individuals...just like TM and Birbal...So we can't group people and assume that they were accused of a crime based on the category they belong to... I'll give you an example from todays world... just because Bill Clinton was accused of having an affair with an intern, is it ok to make a movie on Obama( naatkiye roopanter) and show him as having an affair with an intern...I am certainly not a fan of Obama, but I still feel that it will be unfair to him if something like this is ever done and I will certainly never support it...THIS WAS MY POINT.
Now, i have marked my reasons above , that why i made that post. My comment was made on the ""historical feasibilty"" of such a promo. No where i said taht such accusations can be or should be taken lightly. You've brought the PRESENT time scenario in the world, in this discussion. For that , i would like to make my stand clear that > I, for one, SIMPLY HATE this 4-letter word --> "R*PE" , so much so that i did not EVEN use this WORD in my writeup, instead i used the term > "outraging modesty". And, i am against glorification or justification of any such acts. Recently, Adham Khan was shown doing such an act (as he misbehaved with Shehnaaz).. Agreed, there may not be any such character like Shehnaaz in history, with whom Adham misbehaved, but there were MANY others. And, i DID mention in my previous post, opening all events from history about all the characters may leave a bad taste here. And, better such things remain buried. Hence, i wrote only few events quite carefully.!.
But, my post talked ONLY about " feasibilty " of such an event. The argument put up after the promo was a "subjective" one, dealing with "HISTORICAL figures, with special reference to Akbar's 9 Gems". And my response was JUST a humble clarification for that argument, that EVEN the 9 GEMS can be accused.!!!!!!.. Now the topic has been totally changed, in present discussion.Historical feasibility??? So they are off the hook because it is a 'feasibility'...not good enough for me when a respected man's honor is being questioned. There is a feasibility that MA was whipped in public for the crimes she committed...will they show it?...NO...because in EK's sadist world, it is only the good people who are shown to be humiliated( wish I knew this before I started watching this show)..Yes, I brought up the present time scenario in the discussion because the naatkiye roopanter is being watched by the people belonging to present time...not the people from 16th century. Can we deny the fact that movies and television have an impact on the society. I also hate that four letter R word...I have my reasons for having a strong opinion on this...but trust me it does not matter to the victim how we choose to call it..if anything shown on tv helps people mock or question a victim, I dont understand why it needs to be shown...I could still see some justification if it really happened...but it did not...so why show something as sensitive as this in the name of entertainment?..and there is no historical justification here...they picked the wrong character...show Adham being accused and humiliated and send the right message to masses...And, just because the character is TM( relatively insignificant in history), should we tolerate it?... what if a tv serial does the same thing to another historical character like MP, Shivaji Maharaj or Bhagat Singh? Not ok to show a lip lock or foreplay on TV...but massacring a respected man is ok????? Just because he is not alive and cannot challenge how they are showing him, they can get away with it?
Why would i give an example of Razia, Man Singh or Birbal to anyone else.?. My friend would not be any historical figure. :) I understand, and i have seen , such a clause being used to defame people in real lives. Also, seen/heard, observed such victims. I whole heartedly humbly appreciate your views which you have written after seeing and observing this World MUCH more than me, and I know you must have dealt with such cases, but i also know about this, coming from a family of Administrators, Lawyers, Doctors, i have seen/heard such events from VERY close quarters (and i feel equally bad for them), and i totally deplore these acts. BUT, Just see, why i gave those examples.?. I have repeated my reason many times now, >>> BEING A HISTORICAL FIGURE DOES NOT MEAN YOU CAN NOT BE ACCUSED, AND PEOPLE HAVE BEEN ACCUSED. My comment was NOT a " JUSTIFICATION " to such an act, but an answer to that clause of being a historical character.!!. PLEASE do not mix up the 2 things... I am not just writing this, but i have raised voice against this, written articles on this issue of R*PE , in my REAL LIFE. But, here my reply was on a different perspective.Thanks for appreciating my views...yes, your friend is not a historical figure...and I apologise again for writing anything that may hv hurt you...wasnt my intention...But, Abhay, historical figures were also someone's friends and relatives...they are someone's ancestors...if their character is being assassinated by a greedy showmaker, how is that acceptable?yes, they can be accused...but my argument remains the same...they were people who were once alive...they walked on this planet just like you and me...if there is some evidence, then it is still acceptable... but certainly not in the name of entertainment...not when the crime they are being shown to be accused of is this heinous.If EK makes a serial on mother Teresa or Gandhi and show them to be accused of committing mass murders in the name of naatkiye roopanter, can we say that the people who protest against that depiction are wrong???
Yes, the show can focus on MA and Adham's death. And, should have shown them dead, after 4 months of JJ wedding. But, why are they showing them alive till now.?. I have a reason here also. In Tabqa-at-i-Akbari, the date of Death of Adham and MA is given to be in April and May 1563. Going by that account can we now, get an "excuse" or explanation of seeing MA and Adham so much.?. More shocking are the tales of MA being alive later also. Though, the world accepts Abul Fazl as an authority here, and places MA's death in 1562 only, and i also believe this, but giving you another side of the coin. MA was SO VICIOUS that one can't imagine here. The serial has shown MA as some one who loved Jalal. But, i strongly oppose this. It was always Jiji Anga. Neither MA gave her milk to Jalal, as shown in the serial. Nor she saved him when Akbar was placed in front of the Canons in Kabul. She was also behind the Elephant Attack on Akbar in 1556..!!!!!...She was also behind Bairam's assasination.. Her servants attacked Akbar, owing to their faithfulness to her.. I have said certain events from history should be allowed to remain at rest..!..I just used MA's case as an example.. I trust your posts to read about her...but if they choose to keep her alive for another 100 yrs what can I do...their choice...as long as they dont use her to deliberately assassinate the character of a decent man in the name of fun and entertainment I am fine with her longetivity ...but there has to be a limit to the naatkiye roopanter
Recently, "scratching" etc. , a Mughal Emperor was being shown as an attempt at glorifying Romance.?. On the other hand, when Jodha pushed Jalal via her "Dhakka", that was deplored as attack on Emperor's prestige. double Standards.?.There was dissent when it was shown that, Mughal Begums were drunk and had party. Also, when Akbar decided a case about a Man and his 2 wives, then also it was questioned that what crap is being shown.?. An Emperor should not be shown like this..How many of us know that Akbar never HEARD such a case in private hearing.?. Also, there was a recent question by one of my friends that any bandi could be killed in the harem and no one came to know about that.?. What was the Emperor doing.?. Yes, many times i do not like the portrayal of Jodha and Jalal and fell quite irritated, but i do not question EVERYTHING in every episode, too. I kept quiet as such events happened, in the harem, and did not find it a point to write on that and explain to anyone. What all happened in the Harem and what all we are being shown is a very " dignified " version. I am writing all this today, as i am being questioned here. Can write on more Harem events, and how the so-called Royal Queens " behaved " with others as many feel so, but stop for now, or Mansi will come with her Stick here :)
Reading your well written words is always a pleasure for me, for they show the maturity in it. Saw your post just now, so a late response. What you say is TRUE but my post was a different issue altogether.:)what you said is also true...it is ok to see the same thing in two different ways...the promo irked me and from whatever little I know about you, it irked you too...we just dealt with it in two different ways...we all have developed a certain level of tolerance for naatkiye roopanter...my tolerance gave in after watching the promo...you were able to hold on to yours and tried lifting everyone's spirits...unfortunately, we were not in the mood to listen to that...because this time they crossed the line...but I certainly appreciate your efforts... at the risk of being attacked by all your angry friends, you took a brave and positive approach.take care...chill...enjoy your weekend😉😃
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