~Love :That hurts and heals..but what is it? ~

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The most simple question yet so difficult to answer! No, not because we don't know the answer, ofcourse we know but simply because it is difficult to find the appropriate answer!!
Everybody have their own rules, own definitions and they stick to it!

For some it is sacrifice and compromise, for some it is being with your love because you LOVE your love and for some it is letting it go because you know there is somewhere, someone who LOVES your love!!

But does this mean, that these people are wrong in their thinking or it is simply that THIS is their own was of LOVING their LOVE!!
And the fact is WE DO NOT HAVE AN ANSWER!!


Today, someone's LOVE reached it's shore! They became one, their soul became one, their body became one and their LOVE became one!!
Today, her eyes cried but her heart..her heart smiled. Today he became complete, he is no longer a loner. Now, they know, they have realised that no matter what happens, what is at stake, they'll fight, they'll doubt each other but at the end they'll be FOREVER TOGETHER because of the bond of LOVE they share!!
Today, a story completed, a story which started at the times of hate only to be written in goldn words in history along with more or equally ravishing tales!!

But with this completion will other relations fail?? Or will they emerge even more stronger then the bond of LOVE??


Where two hearts are contented, somehwre few rooms apart one heart broke, it cursed, it shouted, it cried...cried for crying for the rest of her life!!
Where someone got their LOVE, here someone lost her love! LOVE which was never hers, but it was hers...LOVE which was somewhere between one-sided and two sided...LOVE which was more about friendship and companionship and love which was never a LOVE!!

Where someone was enjoying the warm embrace of their LOVE, someone was living the chillness of a lonely embrace!
Somewhere someone was thinking that this is the beginning of their life, their world...but someone else was thinking this is the END of their ROAD! A road which will never let her go back and nor will allow her to move on!
A road which laughs at her and at the same time feels bad for her!!


But when closer...who was at fault in all this?? Or was it simply what we call DESTINY???

Was it Ruqaiya's fault, that she became his wife at the tender age of nine and adapted herself as per the needs of her husband then, or because she could becaome his best friend and Begum-E-Khaas, Khaas wife but could never be his lover!?

Was it Jodha's fault, that she came in between the beautiful relationship of two firends and fell in love with a person she once hayed and made him realise that he too has a heart!?

Was it Jalal's fault, that he somewhere though unintentionally forced his best friend to accept him as a man without a heart, or because he fell in love with a woman who was once only a pice to decorate his harem!?

Were any of these at fault on the first place???

Questions...Questions...and only Questions!!!
Questions which will never be answered!!!
Questions which are baseless for some, but holds lot of gravity for some!!!


Yet, inside all these questions there is only one truth!!
The truth about LOVE!!

Yes, there is no gainsaying, that LOVE of all these people are DIVINE, PURE and ETERNAL!!
LOVE that demands only two things ACCEPTANCE and RESPECT!!

Where one relationship is struggling for it's existence, other is battling for respect!!

And somewhere we have failed in giving them both!!
But our failure can never eradicate LOVE these three people had for one-another because LOVE cannot be compared!!!

P.S. This is music enabled post!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hii Sweety...!!!😊 🤗

Now that the first impact is over, I can comment better. So here I am...!!!

At the outset... what a beautiful post Apu... I just loved the way you have put forth your views... and the way you have highlighted the Love as well as the Heart Break...!!! And the song just adds to the charm..!!

Take a bow my dear girl...!!! U deserve it...!!!

Such a thought provoking post...!!

Truth be told...what is Love...???

Whether Love is Sacrifice, whether being jealous is Love? Whether satying silent and letting the Love of your Life walk away is Love? Or whether fighting for the sake of that person is Love?

Truth be told, Love is Multi faced. there is no one single definition of Love. N we cannot actually point out and say specifically that this particular thing is love. Where there is Love, there is sacrifice. Where there is love, there is jealousy.

After all, as you had once explained to me... Only few fortunate ones can pass through the road of love...!!!

Ishq di gali vichh koi koi langda...

One love was fortunate enough. One Love attained its peak... it was completed... One stayed alone and suffered heartbreak...!!!

There is happiness for the completion of one love story, but there are also tears in my eyes at the heartbreak suffered by another lover...!!!

Thank you for this post Apu...!!! You have summed it up so well...!!! Hats off to you..!!!

Love u loads...
Flavia.
Edited by PrincessFlavia - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Apoorva...!!!!!!!!!!!! 👏 🤗

tu na aaj mujse jhappi pappi sab le le...so touching yar...so very touching...!!
before reading this particulate...i always thought that in between a love angle...atleast a person...atleast one person must be at fault always...!!

may be the one who loved wid all his heart n soul...may be the one who came in btw...or may be the one who got stuck in btw the two...one who accompanied him in all the situations of life...or the one made him cherish every single moment of life...!!!!

after reading this...i got to knw that this is not important ki har bar koi ek galat ho...u have changed my POV about the whole thing...!!!!


thanx alooottt 👏😛

LOVE Darshu...😉
Edited by darshika121 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Apuuu Its An Amazing Post But Very Complicated

and Why Not? Afterall The Topic Of This Post Is "LOVE" Which Itself Is Very Very Complicated,

LOVE = Its A Feelings, Its Something No One Can Controls,

This Feelings Has Many Names In Different Languages, For Someone Its "Pyaar", For Others "Mohabbat" or "Prem" or "Love" n Someone Calles It "Bhalobasa"

Just Like Many Names This Feelings Has Many Definations Also, as You Mentioned Everybody Thinks Different, and Everyone Thinks Their POV Is Right.

The Problem Is When It Comes To Love Everyone Thinks From Only Their Own Pov and Does What They Think Is Right.

If Two Peoples Loves The Same Person Then One Of Them Are Going Get Hurt For Sure Becoz Two Peoples Can Loves The Same Person, But One Person Cant Loves Two Peoples In The SAME Way,

Jealousy Comes Out Of Love, But When Jealousy Becomes Insecurity Then Its Cross The Border Of Love, Jealousy Is Fine But Insecurity Is Not.

Jealousy Involbs The Person You Loves n Its Add A New Flavour In Your Love Story. BUT Insecurity Involbs The Person Who Loves Your Love n Its Makes Your Love Weak Becoz If You Are Insecure It Means You Dont Have Any Faith In Your Love.

Sacrifice or Fights Back Both Are Not A Solution, TRUST n FAITH Thats All A Relationship Needs.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its actually noone's fault. i will say its destiny. sumone can be sacrficing, sumone can be possessive. all of them r right in their own places. actually love & heart dont have any control.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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love is the question
love is the answer
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Diii...
I just can't express in words how much I loved your comment!!
Thank you for such a lovely comment...and I am glad that you just picked it up so well..on what exactly I was trying to say..I am happy I could put forth it in words..!!

And yes di..
''Ishq di galli vicho koi koi langda''
But what upsets me is the fact that people start questioning the LOVE of the person who falied it..in front of them who could live it..! Is that right?

Your comment just touched me dii...thank you so much...!!
I just can't explain my feelings after reading your comment..God knows how many times have I read it already!
Love
Apu...!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Darshu..beleive me when I say...I am happy that this mere post could change your thinking!
Even if one person could see things with every body's POV and not just from those who are ONE..things would be lot simpler..!!
Sometimes things are way to complicated to understand..!!
Sometimes it's just that no one is right, yet no one is wrong...!!!

Thanks for your comment!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks Arpita..!!
But then when has love been so simple to understand?
Insecurites and Jealousy are part and parcel of love...and depends on the person how he/she handles it..and rest is DESTINY...!!!

Thank you for your beautiful comment!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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That's just so true Shreya...Heart has no control...and when it is about LOVE..it definitely have none!
Thanks for your comment!

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