The Volcano has erupted with full force shedding the boiling lava in all directions. All the suppressed dirt, rock, coal, acid and alkali have come out and whatever is left is only the water with pigmentation of soil here and there. The soil particles are to settle down to leave the crystal clear water which is more important for the living beings.
The outburst is really required in everyone's life to save the relation be it personal or professional. Even after venting her heart out now, Jodha is not totally convinced on her stand. Now that she has vented out her pent up feelings of almost one year, now there is space in her heart which can accommodate her rational thinking. Now that she knows Jalal heard her without objecting her flow of words, she can sit in a place and recap all the words she said and then she can also have the answers of Jalal for all those questions. She will recall what all she asked him and also she will recall what all he asked her the other day @ Agra.
Till now she didn't had time to revisit their relationship and their behavior towards each other, their feelings towards each other etc.
From the day one, they both didn't have time to think what they are to each other though they were bound with the sacred bond of marriage. The marriage itself was a bargain and for Jodha, it was a samjotha to save her family & subjects from the clutches of cruel Mughals while she was ignorant about the identity of the Groom whom she was supposed to be married. From that stage, the struggle for existence continued for her till now. It started as a chess match and ended with her character assassination. She had to go through all the rough faces of life just in a span of 1 year or less than that and for a girl who had never even been scolded with high pitched voice at her maternal house, it is difficult to sustain her calm and stay collected. Now that she had vent out her pent up pain, hurt, anger, misery, helplessness, she can sit a place and analyzed what all happened in her life and why it happened & how didshe react to each and every situation and what made her to react in that way or what influenced her to act in any given situation. Only then she will realize why Jalal behaves differently in different situation. Why he doesn't believe anyone easily apart from his fixed circle of 3 people (Maham, Ruqayya&Hamida). Here also he gives 3rd priority to his own mother as he spent more time with Maham and she took care of him the most when he was deprived of his parents love and affection and protection. Then come's Ruqayya who spent her childhood life with him and dedicated herself to his service as a child then and as an adult now. For whatever reason it may be, but Hamida stayed with her husband and deprived Jalal her love and affection which was very much required for a small child. When his mother didn't chose him, chose her husband (her love if can say) over him, how will he believe Jodha will not chose someone else (if she had a lover from the past). She needs to take note of the fact that Jalal had a troubled childhood and he will fear to believe even his own shadow. It is her responsibility now to build the trust in him to accept all the relationships in his life at their face value. She needs to make him understand his mother left him back not because she didn't love him but because she loved him more than her life, so she didn't want to risk his life during her nomadic life with her husband. She needs to make him understand his sister betrayed him not because she loved him less but because she loved her husband more than her life. If he realize these 2 facts, then it will be easy for her to make him understand that she didn't just saved his life from Benazir or his marriage with Ruqayya just because she was bound by marital vows but because she had started accepting him as her own. She helped his sister because she accepted her as her SIL. She had accepted Rahim as her son in the same way Jalal accepted him as his son. She had accepted all his relations as hers but had apprehensions in acknowledging her feelings for openly as she didn't know what are his feelings for her? Whether he really thinks and believes her as his wife (with all due respect) or whether he takes their relationship for granted and feels he owns her.
Once she realize all these she will also realize why it was difficult for him to acknowledge his feelings for her openly as no one in his close circle has given him that chance to think about his feelings. Every one of his relation treats him with his post and not as Jalal. He had faced betrayals from each and every corner of his life from every one and fears to open up his bolted emotions for the simple reason, he can't take one more betrayal and that will be the last blow to his survival. He is a plain stone now and it is Jodha's responsibility to turn him into a beautiful Sculpture. Jalal is like a crude iron ore which may damages anyone who comes in contact with its uneven shape, surface and character. So it is her responsibility to shape it out to a required form. He is hot and ready to be beaten up to meet her requirements. So Jodha needs her patience and creativity to shape him in such a way that he will be a better person, king & what not. For this she need support from her dear ones (both direct & indirect support) like her father by telling about the difficulties of an emperor and how & why he should always be suspicious on even his own people and he may give some examples on how people betray the king. His Mother and granny should help her to realize, where all she need to compromise and where she should expect her husband to compromise. They also need to help her to realize how it is her responsibility to make him concentrate on his empire and for that what all she needs to contribute. She needs to realize unless he is at ease that she has pardoned him, he will not be at peace and he can't concentrate on his work.
For Jalal, it is required for him to realize how difficult it is for a girl who lived an hassle free life all through her days at her parental house to get used to a totally different atmosphere where she needs to adjust to a totally different religion. He needs to understand what are all a newly married girl will look from the relation and how much he had fulfilled his responsibility towards her other than providing food & Shelter. He needs give his time and mind to her requirements even if is as small as flower. He needs to understand just cloths, food & jewelry doesn't compensate his presence and attention. He needs to learn what makes her sad and how he can change her mood. He needs to know that it is not the amount of time he spent with her but the quality time he spent. He needs to acknowledge her as an individual with heart and soul and not as furniture to entertain him. He needs to understand love is a feeling and should not be demanded. He just needs to express it and it will be reciprocated automatically without any external force. For all this he needs some guidance and advise of an elder person and I hope that will be provided by both Bharamal&Todarmal.
Right now they just need to sit alone and start their debate and they will have to question & answer on behalf of the other. They need to visualize the answer from the other person and then for that what will be their fresh attack. With this they will complete their question & answer session along with that they will be cooled their mind and will be open to listen to each other with open mind & heart.
Now on both sides, the cooker has released the pressure an dthe food is ready and edible unlike where the cooker is kept on the stove with a low flame where the food just gets overcooked and end up inedible. So they just need to give the cooker time to cool off before open the lid, otherwise the food will spread all over the place and might even burn the person and leave permanent scars.
