Another paigam from Jodha to Jalal ... thankfully read by Moti! - Page 2

Originally posted by: history_geek

@ Ayesha(ashpat)

I made a post yesterday about the question/doubt, you have raised. 😊

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/104382355

She actually did NOT mean it that way.

Originally posted by: fatma201

Great analysis. One thing I felt missing in the letter is omission of an apology from her for how she has hurted him because of the vachan and lying.

Originally posted by: history_geek

His words were rough, aggressive, berating, whiplashing ... and yet it was an expression of his love that brought the anger to the surface and tinged his words with harshness. Her words are passive, soft, resigned and reconciled to her state of affairs, and yet they too are an expression of love that has brought silent suffering to the surface and tinged her words with the wetness of fresh tears.

Can we conclude from the way he was harsh and the way she was passive that he feels more love for her than she does for him?


That would not be fair, for the language of love should not be judged by how strongly worded it is or how strongly felt the sentiments are. There is a saying that "Calm passions are not necessarily weak, nor violent ones strong. There is love in rough words and a lashing tongue as there is love in rolling tears and in soft whispers."

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Mansi,

Nice points, and nice depiction of Jodha's feelings. You have already said that Jalal's words were rough. And, on the other hand her words were, soft.

Really liked your Lines in Green above.
How can we compare the "LOVE" of one was MORE or LESS than the other one.?.


She can NOT/NEVER express herself like the way Jalal did. That won't mean that, love of one is less or more. Being rude and being silent, both are extremes. Love means total absence of fear, which was MISSING IN BOTH.(It will be NOW that they will overcome this fear). Love asks no questions. Its natural state is one of extension and of expansion, NOT comparison and measurement. What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, PALES in COMPARISON to what lies INSIDE YOU. 😊

She blamed herself for not been able to create "bharosa" about herself in Jalal's mind.!!!. Wasn't that an acknowledgement on her part.. Jalal is ready to apologize, and she too acknowledged a shortcoming in their relationship.

All points well-said, expressing her state.
It was a fine epsisode, though i may be in minority thinking so.😉

Originally posted by: Akanksha_33

Mansi, great analysis.

I quite liked yesterday's episode after the bad episode on Tuesday.

I'm quite glad the track is progressing and Jodha has finally left, I really liked the depth of the letter, and no where I felt she was accusing Jalal, she was just pouring her heart out like Jalal did on Friday. Cv's have saved our sanity by making Moti read the letter and not Maham (I can't stop thanking God for this).

Asharriff and Maham, the less said the better! 🤢

Ruqaiyya and Maham also, the less said the better- although Ruqaiyya had a doubt on Maham still Maham covered it, how blind is Ruqaiyya?