not getting influenced

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How many of us get influenced by what we see on TV?
Till recently, I thought not many get really influenced by the inane serials shown on TV. But I am changing my opinion due to 2 reasons. First, the debates on this forum about what should and should not be shown on TV because it influences the public perceptibly. For instance, scenes of manhandling of women. Second and more personally, I am seeing the influence of TV on my own li'l son. He watches only cartoons. But if we see the cartoons today, they also have adult themes of romance, dating, fighting over guys/girls, being possessive of/marrying your best friend, and of course, the language (downright filthy and lowbrow).

I had light heartedly commented that we should simply stop watching what we don't like. But what if we like what we see and get influenced by it, even if it's not appropriate? Would a child or a young adult have the ability to discriminate between what to watch and not watch?

Another alternative is censorship. But, in a free country, there is really no place for this. And it can't be imposed either because what all can you censor? Someone suggested to me that I should child lock the cartoon channels. Is this a fool-proof solution? Children pick up from anywhere - TV, movies, internet, peer group, neighbourhood,...What all can you restrict? And the same goes for grown-ups, on a larger scale.

Somewhere then the responsibility of ensuring that the young and the impressionable are not corrupted by what they see on TV and outside, lies with the adults - parents, teachers, role models. We have to make the character of the young so strong that they are not influenced by the negativity around and reach out for that which is bright and positive.

What do you feel?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I fully agreed on dt part d "present day cartoons" one..
Now how cn we evn say to our young ones to watch over
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i feel more general awareness should be implemented
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good Post !! 👍🏼
I do not get influenced by what I watch on TV, did not when I was a teenager and do not now when I am in my twenties.
My mamma has taught me enough to take what is shown on TV as either entertainment or just plain over exaggerated nonsense, if you can still learn something good out of these shows great if not ignore. We also shared a pretty free relationship that I could go and ask her the weirdest questions on this planet and she would still answer them. You do not want to know the questions 😆
It is the parents responsibility to teach the kids the basic sense of good/bad, right/wrong, respect/disrespect, then they can apply them to all circumstances in life. Hence expecting fictional shows to show goody goody stuff is wrong, they have not taken the responsibility to teach our young or us, that's wholly and solely our responsibility.
Yes I agree with you here that 😊
Somewhere then the responsibility of ensuring that the young and the impressionable are not corrupted by what they see on TV and outside, lies with the adults - parents, teachers, role models.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JeannieJA

Good Post !! 👍🏼
I do not get influenced by what I watch on TV, did not when I was a teenager and do not now when I am in my twenties.
My mamma has taught me enough to take what is shown on TV as either entertainment or just plain over exaggerated nonsense, if you can still learn something good out of these shows great if not ignore. We also shared a pretty free relationship that I could go and ask her the weirdest questions on this planet and she would still answer them. You do not want to know the questions 😆
It is the parents responsibility to teach the kids the basic sense of good/bad, right/wrong, respect/disrespect, then they can apply them to all circumstances in life. Hence expecting fictional shows to show goody goody stuff is wrong, they have not taken the responsibility to teach our young or us, that's wholly and solely our responsibility.
Yes I agree with you here that 😊
Somewhere then the responsibility of ensuring that the young and the impressionable are not corrupted by what they see on TV and outside, lies with the adults - parents, teachers, role models.


Thanks, Jeannie, and thanks for posting!

I would say there are both type of people, those who get influenced and those who don't. I never took TV seriously but only now I'm beginning to see how much power it wields over some.

As for the questions, I can tell you weirder questions my son asks me than you would ever have thought of! 😆

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