Jalal's episode...... - Page 40

Originally posted by: elasingh

Ayushi I feel both Jallu and Ruk are in the wrong...Jallu in past encouraged Ruk to insult Jo and now when he has fallen in love with her he doesn't like Ruk to misbehave with Jo...Now he should clarify to Ruk that Jo is important to him...but he didn't and let Ruk to insult Jo by making her sleep outside...Ruk toh encourage hogi hi na...

Originally posted by: MaddyO

I think Rukayya behaves BADLY with everyone except Jalal, she does not treat even HB with much respect (the scene when they are having desert and she tells them she needs to talk with Jalal and they get up and walk off)

She is never about giving respect or basic decency
I had shared one post in my weekend favorites - one post had said when Ruk treated the people in haram badly with giving handouts I lost all respect for her. Never take anybody's dignity cos it matters most to them and nothing to you

So Ruk DOES NOT DESERVE respect when she does not give it

Jalal goaded her but that does NOT MEAN SHE CAN GO TO ANY LENGTHS
He does not understand, which he asked her in one epi when she has audha, 1st wife, all support BEK his friendship why is NOT HAPPY or secure

He is a man and of just 21 how can he share with Ruk when he himself is not aware
When a close friend starts behaving badly he did not notice at first and indulged her,

I think he changed after Ben and Ruk NEVER even bothered to go to him to say sorry for almost making him marry Ben, she has no grace so how can she expect from ohters

Originally posted by: Akanksha_33

Maddy! You're right! 👏 well said...

Originally posted by: elasingh

maddy well said...but why is he expecting Ruk to say sorry after Ben track when his badi ammi didn't? And he was not even angry with her but remembering her fondly and murmuring ki Woh humara kitna khayal rakhti hain?

When infact it was his BA who had brought Ben to him...

Originally posted by: elasingh

Ayushi I feel both Jallu and Ruk are in the wrong...Jallu in past encouraged Ruk to insult Jo and now when he has fallen in love with her he doesn't like Ruk to misbehave with Jo...Now he should clarify to Ruk that Jo is important to him...but he didn't and let Ruk to insult Jo by making her sleep outside...Ruk toh encourage hogi hi na...

Originally posted by: elasingh

Ayushi I feel both Jallu and Ruk are in the wrong...Jallu in past encouraged Ruk to insult Jo and now when he has fallen in love with her he doesn't like Ruk to misbehave with Jo...Now he should clarify to Ruk that Jo is important to him...but he didn't and let Ruk to insult Jo by making her sleep outside...Ruk toh encourage hogi hi na...

Originally posted by: nabiii

ela, largely there won't b any benevolence to happen candid discussion amid jalal n ruq b/c that hb told yesterday maamla agai baarchukai hai..means jealousy, insecurity of losing audha have been made ruq already villain n if jalal discussed with her before nevertheless there would haven't been much beneficial as cvs wanted to make ruq full on vamp n hence she is always manipulated by maham n never uses brain positively..but i m unanimous with u that jalal is also liable for this vindictive ruq.

Originally posted by: MaddyO

I had read a post which pointed out something about the tent scene we never thought of, it was by a newbie

That for Jalal that was an eye opener that Jodha will not get close to him cos she thinks Ruk has him so she walked out of tent, after that he started pointing out to Jodha that HE decides who is close with him etc.

We do not know if he was inside the tent for 5 mins and with Jodha outside for 5 hours cos of bad editing of the scene

That even when he was in all comfort besides Ruk he could not stay with her but chose to stand outside looking at Jo

I still hated him for it but I read this diff viewpoint so sharing it

Originally posted by: MaddyO

Ela read this by Reemerocks about Ruk

Let me share a wonderful post reemirocks has made about Ruk

I can't even blame Mahamanga entirely for instigating Ruqaiya. Had she not made herself mentally vulnerable enough, then Mahamanga's "sautan ka ghar tudwao" and "audha bachao" lectures would not have affected her a bit. But then in this case I would definitely say its 50-50. If Mahamanga is to be blamed for instigating her, then Ruqaiya has to be blamed for getting easily manipulated and not using her brains! People hear what they want to hear, see what they want to see and believe what they want to believe. And so is with Ruqaiya who only wants to listen to Mahamanga. She says with pride that she has control over Jalal's mind but I guess in that process she lost her own!

Be it Jalal, Gulbadan phuphi, Salima Begum or Hamida Banu Begum, everyone did advice her. Each one of them was talking sense but what caught her attention is Mahamanga's nonsense. This happens when you talk sense to a person whose mind is preoccupied with jealousy, arrogance, rudeness, insecurity and a hell lot of pride. Who says only love is blind? Those who think so, please add jealousy and insecurity to it. Insecurities have the ability to shape and mould our minds to live with everything that's bad. Jealousy?? What should I say about this? You can be the moon and still be jealous of stars. Its all on you. Those jealous are troublesome to others but torment to themselves. It contains more of self love than selfless love