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What would you do if you were in Ruqaiah position?

myviewprem

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Posted: 11 years ago

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What would you do if you were in Ruqaiah position?

I would go for choice 4 or 6 for Ruqaiah

Why cling on to any human who does not love you just beause parents arranged marriage?

Why spoil your life, mind and mood fighting, feeling, insecure and uncared and unloved all life

Better to leave jalal and have a happy life either alone or with someone who will love her with all her bad qualities(yes there will be someone who like her with her audha, ego issues too in this world). It was tough for girls to stay alone in 16th century usually they stay with father or brothers if not married/divoced or widowed but since ruqu has no family but yet she is very rich and from royal family so i do not think anyone will try to trouble her if she decide to stay alone.

Only problem is ruqu is childish without maturity so people will use her and fool her all the time like maham does if she stays alone. And going by her reaction yesterday how she darkened room and slept weeping because jalal was no longer hers(yes she realized it for those few seconds but is still in denial mode) she has no coping abilities alone and will have tough times ahead without siblings, parents or children to support her emotionally when she realizes jalal does not love or need her anymore. Break up's are always tough and without any family by her side to lean on i am not sure what will happen to her?

Thank God Hosiyar is there but he is no family whom can give shoulder to cry and she tell all her inner turmoil he is more like a friend.

Edited by myviewprem - 11 years ago

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bokul

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Posted: 11 years ago

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even i feel option 4 will be best for her

if she really loves jalal she has to set him free

rather than keep clinging to him and suffocating him

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FatedSoulMates

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Hmm option 4 for me too 😃

Not because its spoiling her life, mind or mood fighting, feeling insecure or uncared or unloved all her life but so that Jalal can be with Jodha I want that 😃

Edited by JeannieJA - 11 years ago

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myviewprem

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: rima4ever
even i feel option 4 will be best for her
if she really loves jalal she has to set him free

rather than keep clinging to him and suffocating him

yes but will jalal be ready to let her goo

in those days kings and emperor never divorced anyone

and who will dare marry an emperor's divorced wife

it will create wrong impression in people mind if she divorce him

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Parijatrocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

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hmm

Ruquaiyya is acting like jealous wife, its natural to get such reaction from her because Jalal all of a sudden stopped giving her importance, i read in skandas post...

when a new child arrives the parents give much attention to new born and the leder child feels insecure and may hate the new child in family...

Ruquaiyya is a child who is deprived of all attention from jalal all of a sudden and she is living in a fear of loosing her title and best freind...

so i think Ruquaiyya needs to keep quite for sometime, untill Jallal comes to her and pacify her..

i think Jalal is wrong in this behaviour of Ruqu...

All these years he gave too much time and importance to her compared to other begums of sultanate, but when new fresh air Jodha came he is giving importance to Jodha...

Jalal should now balnce both the wives properly...and Jalal is lacking in it...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I say to Ruqu, instead of becoming negative and boiling inside its better to keep quite and improve the behaviour of hers towards other begums...

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