Originally posted by: Sandhya.A
Anu,
Why do you take the shove as the meaning of begum hone ka farz nahin nibhaya!
Begum hone ka farz can also mean also protecting the family name - which Jodha failed by not asking Shivaani even when he specifically kept asking her to do so. These things take time to settle and come out of. He only declared her innocent of knowing the Shivaani affair before-hand. But he still holds her responsible for brushing aside his repeated insistence for clearing things with Shivaani. A girl who might lie in DEK out of fear might have confessed to a sister if cajoled in private and the whole thing avoided. But Jodha didn't attempt that though he kept asking her to. I'm not blaming Jo. Both of them are victims of circumstances created by MA and Shivaani.😭
Also she has kept insulting him time and again at Amer and in Agra till the fake pregnancy track. Begums don't do that either to their Shahenshah
But you should remember that he didn't create the situations to humiliate her publicly.
In fact he only kept away and kept quiet. He didn't even accuse her or taunt her. He didn't wantonly insult or hurt her.
Situations were created and twisted by MA so cunningly. Think from his pov. He doesn't know that Ben is a Vishkanya. He gave her a benefit of doubt did a public test and it got negated. Even yesterday, he got back at her only privately after everyone left. But today things got complicated worse and his frustrations got the better of him.
Sandhya I would LOVE to see the way you do...As that would mean my Jallu has not fallen so bad ...and I can enjoy the serial better.
Regarding Jodha insulting time and again, lets not forget its her false implication and the immense embarrasement in Rqu's pregnancy was the root cause. Was it her fault?
Regarding Shivani's case... agreed she did not ask Shivani, But that makes her the culprit? Shivani had a lot of occasions to tell Jodha even without Jodha asking her.
Regarding Jalaal's outburst in DEK. He clearly said she has satisfied NO DUTY of being the wife.
So what happens to the assistance in the matter of Ruqu's divorce etc...
As much as I would like to, am not able to get over Jalaal's outbust in front of everyone in DEK.
Ghum Hai Kisikey Pyaar Meiin
