run away frm house is right step for any gal???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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hey guys...m back vd a stupid question again😆.

we use to see these kind of cases in real life too when parents do not agree for marriage then a couple use to take ds step. i mean they run away nd get married without parents permission...is it a fair step ( m sry bt m vry much against it)...

i hv seen 2-3 cases in real life...my neighbour ran nd got married bt after vry short time they filed for divorce x] 😡 ...nd in another cases they came back nd got married at another place... 😡...i ws like wt z ds...they r mature nd still dng childish things. if they blv in love mrg dn they shld convince thr parents if parents r nt convinced dn i dnt thnk dy shld get married...it z vry vry bad step...

p.s...its my personal view. sry if i hurt anyone.
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-ParidhiHolic- thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ofcrse nt yr its a rubbishh step...
Wats ds.. Bhagna is nt solution.
If u truly luv sumone den try to convince ur parents.
I meant u ll gt ur hppiness by running away bt wat abt
ur parents happiness nd xpctations which is reltd to
ur marriage. Al gone in garbage den..
U ll hv a njoyable marriage process wd ur fmily rather
thn dt alone marige process..
Nd if ur parents r soo hard struck on dere dcsn den simply
dnt marry ny1 else... Live alone
Wel ur lover hs to b good prson..like it shd nt b
ki ur luvr is thoda ahemm ahemm...ngtv guy bt u stil
Want to marry him nd ur prnts knw abt d guy..
Den dis tym you ll b 100% wrong..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arre if such decision z taken wisely, then ok hota hai.
My one of bhabhi z bhagke ayee hui.
Lol!
Humne hall tak book karke tayyari thi n ye madam bhagke ayi!
Only elders knew this!
N one wasn't permitted due to caste problem so her uncle did kanyadaan n her father, after 5 years of her marriage, accepted this marriage.
Imagine!
After five years n two babies, her father accepted this marriage!
Aisa bakwas reason k liye parents oppose kar rahe ho to bhagna hi padega unko!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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today people doesnt have stability
in my surrounding i saw 2- 3 coples madly in love their parents is against them but they wait neither they run nor they agree to other person for marry finally their love cum arrange marriage takes place and they are enjoying their married life after kids so i dont think run away is an option when parents dont agree
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AngadPariAddict

Ofcrse nt yr its a rubbishh step...
Wats ds.. Bhagna is nt solution.
If u truly luv sumone den try to convince ur parents.
I meant u ll gt ur hppiness by running away bt wat abt
ur parents happiness nd xpctations which is reltd to
ur marriage. Al gone in garbage den..
U ll hv a njoyable marriage process wd ur fmily rather
thn dt alone marige process..
Nd if ur parents r soo hard struck on dere dcsn den simply
dnt marry ny1 else... Live alone
Wel ur lover hs to b good prson..like it shd nt b
ki ur luvr is thoda ahemm ahemm...ngtv guy bt u stil
Want to marry him nd ur prnts knw abt d guy..
Den dis tym you ll b 100% wrong..



hmmm...agree vd u. i thought i find it wrong bcz i dnt blv in love marriage. i feel dt only our parents can find a gud life partner for us. in my family all ppls hv many dreams for my mrg or i can say for all mrgs which would hpn near future( m frm joint family)...nd i cant make my parents sad...nd i thnk i vl nt see any love mrg in my family...cant say for next generation bt m sure dt we all siblings vl nvr do.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: RagSia

Arre if such decision z taken wisely, then ok hota hai.
My one of bhabhi z bhagke ayee hui.
Lol!
Humne hall tak book karke tayyari thi n ye madam bhagke ayi!
Only elders knew this!
N one wasn't permitted due to caste problem so her uncle did kanyadaan n her father, after 5 years of her marriage, accepted this marriage.
Imagine!
After five years n two babies, her father accepted this marriage!
Aisa bakwas reason k liye parents oppose kar rahe ho to bhagna hi padega unko!



u may be right bt sry i hv vry conservative thinking regarding ds. nd i cant support ds.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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but it will be fun if u run away with a person who loves u truely
but if u have choosen wrong person it will be worst

better make it love come arranged marriage ... it will be good too
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anshfever



hmmm...agree vd u. i thought i find it wrong bcz i dnt blv in love marriage. i feel dt only our parents can find a gud life partner for us. in my family all ppls hv many dreams for my mrg or i can say for all mrgs which would hpn near future( m frm joint family)...nd i cant make my parents sad...nd i thnk i vl nt see any love mrg in my family...cant say for next generation bt m sure dt we all siblings vl nvr do.


hmm well u cn too urself find a gd lyf prtner fr urslf.i meant
luv mrge cn b sucsful. Excption is alwz dere..
Olmost evry gal wants a luv mariage..i too want
Bt m nt sure wil i gt a good guy by myslf nd who ll
Hlp me to mk my F*Ly say yes ovr our relation..
Wil he truly love me or not.. Toh bs ase hi
ques aa jte h bich mei which stops a love
marriage..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i too think its rubbish step ...
and according to me ... girls should not love before marriage ..
bcoz their parents have full control over their life au woh jis se chahea unki shadi kere .. and parents cannot make wrong decisions...
and i don't like love wagaira before marriage though i am a teen .. i am 15 aur is umar ma ladkiyan boy friends rkhte ha .. but i am not of that type or that thinker ...
i would love my hubby with pure heart and sincereity ... and my parents would choose one
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

but it will be fun if u run away with a person who loves u truely

but if u have choosen wrong person it will be worst

better make it love come arranged marriage ... it will be good too



fun???😲...omg bhavya di...u thnk it would be fun...i thnk life would be vry complicated.

what if guy z dng family business nd after ds step he vl surely nt do dt business dn how thy vl survive????infact i thnk in most cases they come back only bcz of ds money issue.

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