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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
Jalal loves Hamida more than MA. He feels totally deprived & blames his mother & has a gigantic & very bitter wound in his heart.. But he loves her a lot.
Jalal is an ahem,😆 unique man. When he feels his most vulnerable , he makes the one he loves, the target. He did that with Hamida Begum in the second episode when he tells her to tell Maham Anga how much he misses her & to tell Ruqaiyya that he thinks about her only twice And Hamida was so sad. She doesn't get angry, she only feels exceptionally sad & hurt. She loves her son beyond anything & now maybe Jodha too. She passes on this advice to Jodha because she sees that Jodha has the qualities that Jalal needs in his Life Partner/seeks them un-knowingly. And because she has taken a deep shine to Jodha since they're really similar in many aspects 😊


Jalal of course loves his Badi Ammi deeply ! But he also feels over-whelmingly indebted to her. Because she filled the void that was created by his real mother. Hamida Bano & the rest of the Mughals believe that Jalal loves MA more but I doubt that. He calls Maham Anga, Badi Ammi which indicates not a higher position in his nazar, but a deeply heart-felt bond of respect. He calls Hamida, Ammi Jaan.

And there isn't anything dearer to the Self, than one's Jaan. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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first of jalal does not have bitter feelings towards hamida, if that is what most people here are thinking. he has a strong bond wid maham anga because of her sacrifices (atleast he sees it that way) and emotional support towards him. a child bonds with his parents while growing up and the best years for that bonding is years from birth till they become a teenager. if the bonding does not occur during those time, it might happen ever or it will take a very long time to be have strong emotional connection. regardless of the circumstances and despite of hamida's best intentions, jalal as a child did not receive that pure and unconditional love that a parent gives and was constantly surrounded by battles and conspiracies. even after everything returned to normal, i dont think hamida ever tried to have a heart to heart convo wid jalal. even if she did she should have tried harder to break those walls in jalal's heart. i dont expect jalal to do that coz after everything he went through, it is quite natural for him to have a barbed fence around the walls of his heart (metaphorically speaking ofcourse😆).
so if he is not giving her the same respect he gives MA, i dont blame him coz she was never there for him and she is still not there for him and that is quite clear when he loses his kid.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

the near death experience proved us wrong. The first name on jalal's lips was of his mother and her reaction on seeing him with such injuries shows how much he loves her despite not showing it in front of his mother or anyone else.

but i still do not understand why jalal keeps running to badi ammi for everything if he loves hamida so much
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose



But you know, she doesn't want to do anything by herself... except for praiying and telling everyone about it jodha.. and that day she gulbadan begam must be confused over why hamida is so worried about Akdha relationship.. there are plenty of other begams..😆

Plus, this shows how little she knows her son. Maham knows he has a heart and therefore warns Rukaiyya.

and why does hamida not care about rukaiya?

They are plenty of begums but jalal is not going and placing sword on their necks and shouting and putting them in jail right? Thats why hamida is concerned about jodha
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose


they will not bring it up in the show.. it will confuse the viewers😆

Yes they may not show
But i wonder what would be Akbar's reaction to know his mother loved Ruqu's father. It would make their relation a bit akward. Although i am sure Akbar and Ruqu have some idea of their parents past.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oh Good Lord,😆 Hamida is nowhere "obsessed" with Jodha!! They're both pure souls with gold hearts so she feels a kinship for Jodha in a way she never has before for any other wife of his son's. And of course she really cares about Ruqaiyya! But she might not love her like she loves Jodha, that's all.
The first name, even before Ruq & Jodha that Jalal took in episode no 80, was Hamida's. That says it all.

Hamida also feels that, Jodha is an innocent & has no idea about how the Mughal world functions which is very true so she had taken on he role of her mother out of all these factors.

And lastly, because somewhere she knows that Jodha can be her son's true Equal Partner & can see the pull that Jalal feels for Jodha.. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Another factor is- Ruqaiyya has loving memories of her stay at the Umarkot palace & her old friendship with the Umarkot Maaharaani 😊. It has never ever happened before that a Mughal Baadshah married a Hindu Rajput Raajkumaari so their marriage being an un-precedented happening, also brings forth these reasons.
And also Jodha's registaan ki noor title!! 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

Oh Good Lord,😆 Hamida is nowhere "obsessed" with Jodha!! They're both pure souls with gold hearts so she feels a kinship for Jodha in a way she never has before for any other wife of his son's. And of course she really cares about Ruqaiyya! But she might not love her like she loves Jodha, that's all.

The first name, even before Ruq & Jodha that Jalal took in episode no 80, was Hamida's. That says it all.

Hamida also feels that, Jodha is an innocent & has no idea about how the Mughal world functions which is very true so she had taken on he role of her mother out of all these factors.

And lastly, because somewhere she knows that Jodha can be her son's true Equal Partner & can see the pull that Jalal feels for Jodha.. 😊


They are good people, but they are still flawed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well that might have to do with the fact that they're human beings, Alakh.. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mallika-E-Bhais

Well that might have to do with the fact that they're human beings, Alakh.. 😆

😉


For whatever reason, I feel that the Jalal they are showing now is a way better human being than jodha and hamida.

He is more sensitive to other people's feelings.. He does realize that jodha is in pain, why she acts like a fool..But jodha.. doesn't. He doesn't have any double standards for people. He is not prejudiced, he understands.

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