I hate him since i'm not allowed love him?

I do understand that CVs want to show us Jodha transforming a vainglorious egomaniac into "Akbar" and thus they adopted the cliche' "hate transforming into love" story line .And right they were because it is definitely working.
But my bechari brain still doesn't understand why Jodha hates Jalal?Is it because his soldiers looted the mandir or because he doesn't have a heart ? I can sort of get why she would harbor so much hate for him since she was taught to hate the mughals her entire Rajputi life. But that was before she met the guy!
Now that he practically saved her entire kingdom by not waging a war and instead settling for her hand in marriage, albeit it was not exactly for that reason,I expected her to be at least a little grateful if not like him for it.
Her parents and family have accepted the fact that Jalal might not be all that "jallad" after all havent they?!.Also Jodha herself has seen how sweet he can be with those kids didn't she ?He forgave Mansingh too. He never forced him-self on her.He could have but he chose not too(and before someone points out that it was because of that night when he was drunk i would like to remind them that he did get a chance before that night and he left smiling) Shouldn't all of these at least make her "doubt" that she might have have judged him too soon?

I keep thinking that Can a woman like Jodha ( unwise, impractical) can change Jallalu din Mohammad into Akbar?

I started watching this show from their shahi shaadi seq so dont know what happened between them so jodha hates jalaal so much. All I know is tht Jalaal is responsible for the death of Jodha's fiance and she have seen his men rob the temple and killed ppl so she thinks he is heartless and biggest enemy of Amer Kingdom

Originally posted by: elasingh

I keep thinking that Can a woman like Jodha ( unwise, impractical) can change Jallalu din Mohammad into Akbar?

Will a man of Akbar's calibre ever fall for a woman like Jodha?

What they promised was this..
Jodha is Wise,Inteligent and "all that" .
But what we actually see is this
Her "maid" Moti bai is wiser than she is.. It was her who suggested that she talked to Jalal wasn't it? When everyone is making the wise decisions for her how are we supposed to see her being "wise"?

I can't see how this will make him fall for her..shes giving him more reasons to hate her 🤔

well its not about just hatred actually. it those times hindu muslim marriage & tht too an arranged marriage was out of question. & 2ndly, obviously rajputs hated mughals at tht time so she finds it impossible to be even grateful to an enemy. yes i do agree tht in tht "mirchi" episode jodha should have been little practical & should have personally checked tht food. her behavior actually comes from the hatred which is not allowing her to see sumthing gud in jalal. besides jalal had already said tht he had married her for revenge, as a result she is even more pissed off. but yes actually its time tht jodha starts using her mind.

Originally posted by: munnirony

well its not about just hatred actually. it those hindu muslim marriage & tht too an arranged marriage was out of question. & 2ndly, obviously rajputs hated mughals at tht time so she finds it impossible to be even grateful to an enemy. yes i do agree tht in tht "mirchi" episode jodha should have been little practical & should have personally checked tht food. her behavior actually comes from the hatred which is not allowing her to see sumthing gud in jalal. besides jalal had already said tht he had married her for revenge, as a result she is even more pissed off. but yes actually its time tht jodha starts using her mind.

Exactly the point of my post.I can understand why she wants to hate him
But i want her to use her "brain" and show us that she is indeed the "wise and intelligent" Jodha that we were promised.The current one is disappointing.

for now its all abt their ego issues ... both for jalal n jodha ...😒

Originally posted by: munnirony

well its not about just hatred actually. it those hindu muslim marriage & tht too an arranged marriage was out of question. & 2ndly, obviously rajputs hated mughals at tht time so she finds it impossible to be even grateful to an enemy. yes i do agree tht in tht "mirchi" episode jodha should have been little practical & should have personally checked tht food. her behavior actually comes from the hatred which is not allowing her to see sumthing gud in jalal. besides jalal had already said tht he had married her for revenge, as a result she is even more pissed off. but yes actually its time tht jodha starts using her mind.

Originally posted by: misaki

Exactly the point of my post.I can understand why she wants to hate him
But i want her to use her "brain" and show us that she is indeed the "wise and intelligent" Jodha that we were promised.The current one is disappointing.

This was my actual point which i felt yesterday but i couldn't get exactly n my words😊 . Really this transition part makes it poor !