Actually it's again related to who earns more...since Choton contributes bare minimum in the household, even his own mother doesn't care about his opinions...it's a reality of many households where money is the ultimate determinant of authority...it's his mother who through her repeated dismissal of Choton's opinions has allowed the daughters'-in-law to be disrespectful towards him, irrespective of age.
Regarding Minu, if her arc is maintained as the OG one, she will stand by Choton and teach some good lesson to these padelikhe gawaar aurats of BH..but given Leena's obsession for toxicity of late, she may again decide to diverge from her own OG character arcs and make Minu mute after marriage just like she did with Ani..
Meenu mother bajaoed bips and Tanuja. So Tanuja was saying look at her mother, meenu got big mouth from her mother only.
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