Originally posted by: Balannaraprema
One thing I really don't understand people are okay with understanding Anirudh situation and what kind of situation he was in... but ...why they don't think/understand about jhanak's situation
Ani kuch step liya to bolta hai ki his in difficult situation and no option bechara kya kartaa....
In the point of jhanka they never thought about her situation and beyond reasons but why?...
Not sure if I can answer your questions but my views…
When J had expectations ( or at the very least questions) of Ani when they came first to BH, Ani was solely focused on his responsibility towards her even as he was showing care towards J within the constraints of their uneasy bond.
He then started to fall in love along the way but by then J had been hardwired into believing that this relationship doesn’t have a future. Ani was also not very vocal about his changed feelings. When the floodgates of emotion broke in Kashmir on both sides, the relationship wasn’t strong enough to handle the aftermath. Mistakes and recklessness happened and I would say from Ani’s side principally causing them to drift away. They stayed in limbo for a short period before both gravitating to each other…The tumour/ HA track was one where they understood what each meant to the other.. The only thing stopping them to come together was J’s inhibitions about the home wrecker tag even while she felt Ani only loved her. Now beyond this stage, I would liken this to the stage similar to post Kashmir recklessness on J’s part… where her actions for not accepting the love they shared has resulted in a difficult pathway for their love. In the post Kashmir, Ani had taken stupid steps that had caused misery but this time around it is Jhanak who is largely responsible for this..
if inhibitions have to be broken, pray tell me how could have Ani broken it? By leaving Arshi but that was the thing J wasn’t comfortable with? In fact even in the Nutan phase, her inhibitions remained intact with the added swag of “ Didi, remember I can take this all from you”
Again… it’s ok that she felt this way cos it was true only; J could take it all away from Arshi at any point was her justified pride. By then she was convinced of Ani’s love but couldn’t get over her inhibitions In fact even while agreeing to marry Ani due to his illness, she aimed to “hand over” Ani on him surviving the disease. Post HA, her pride in Ani’s love was unmistakable…..yet it broke and J’s sense of despair is understandable.
when the tables turned and she discovered that Ani was in a physical relationship, her anger and sense of loss was palpable.. ( though the narrative did not focus on it) Today, when Ani is in front of her, her frustration is coming to the fore about a lost love… My simple submission is what was J’s understanding about a married life for Ani? What was her concept of Amar Prem? abstinence conditional for Amar Prem is correct but from her side how could she expect that from Ani too while being bound in a relationship with someone ? What is she actually upset about now in terms of expectations from Ani?
If J chooses nothing to do with Ani in the future, it is understandable given the circumstances but now she shouldn’t express any form of love for Ani… if she does that it is meaningless in the scheme of things.
With Ani it isn’t the same, cos he is still hopeful that they may be connected to each other if fate wills…He is actually delivering on the premise of Amar Prem… atleast at this point of time..of wanting to be tuned into reports of her wellbeing from afar as the doors for anything else is closed now.
I don’t know if this is a love story though anymore 😂😂😂😂
Edited by sanfan - 6 months ago
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