shveta- good dancer; bad human

you know i was kind of shocked when i heard what akash said to shveta during his exit speech, 'you may be a good dancer but you're a bad human being.'

now obviously im in no place to say whether she's a good or bad person because ive never met her. i know she's known for a bold lifestyle which is completely fine. but at times i feel this girl is a little too thick skinned to the point of being insensititve and lacking compassion. i read somewhere recently that during her first couple of performances, she mentioned to the judges that she danced under a lot of stress and pressure. reason being her fiance, rodney barnes' father passed away two days earlier. now what i don't understand is why would someone go out dancing, having a blast, competiting in a game, etc. during a mourning period like this?

on top of that, her and her fiance were also seen playing at the garba-dandiya afterwards with no sign of emotions whatsoever. some actress, who they kept anonymous, but im guessing they were referring to shilpa shetty, questioned why would shveta or anyone continue dancing in a competition during a period like this when her future father in law passed away only two days earlier???!!!! she accused of her trying to get sympathy votes

no wonder akash said that she's a bad human, after reading all of this, this girl seems to lack sensitivity and compassion

u never no they mite have gone out to cheer their mood up so may be we shouldnt judge them.

i don't like the title of ur post (apparently akash's quote, not urs). I am glad you urself admit that you don;t know her as a person and hence will try not to call her a bad human.

I believe that IT IS WRONG to judge someon based on how they react and what they do during their mourning period. It is ONLY their choice to make. Several sports personalities, celebrities, politicians, scientists and other working PROFESSIONALS choose to COMPLETE what they are COMMITTED to. There is nothing wrong in that. It is VERY LOW to criticise someone for continuing their work and job during their times of sorrow. "BAD HUMAN" is a serious accusation! don;t u think??
please don;t get offended. i wrote what is heart-felt.
i am never supportive of mud-slinging in the first place.

last but not the least, even if it is somehow proven that Shweta is a horrible person, lowly bad human, So what?? This is a dance competetion.. and as almost everyone says "she is the best of the JDJ lot at dancing"
😉 she is not in the competetion for the best human being 😆 😆 😆

qt

i no soap queen, i agree with buffie.
in my opinion, just because u r a mona fan(i think u r) it doesnt mean u need to find something said a long time ago in another episode jus to try n make shveta look bad. u guys r using cheap tactics n its no good. i no that ur saying that u shouldnt be jusging a person like that. but if ur saying that then y bring up this topic in the 1st place? plz dont post such things next time.

alright now guys need to calm dowwwwwnnnn!! i mean not speaking for or against shveta. i titled this based on akash's comments, not mine. and let me tell you, i am a fan of shveta's, NOT mona's. i hated jassi the show so much and was so happy when it stopped. i was dissappointed when kittie party and sarkar finished because i love shveta's roles and shows. i don't know a single thing about mona/jassi because i am not her fan.

furthermore, i am in the US and don't have access to SONY so i've never seen this show before. whatever i know about the show is through this forum and surfing the net because im a huge fan of indian television. so i never heard or saw akash say these things and starting this topic based on his comments. i dont know why you guys are attacking me when i am shveta's fan and think she dances wonderful.

yes i do believe jhalak's votes are done more fairly than nach baliye's where only an audience's favorite couple wins. ive seen shveta dance and think she's an excellent dancer and probably deserves to win. but all i was mentioned was that in my opinion, it's unrealistic for someone to continue a competition two days after they've lost their father in law. i do believe this because it was allover the news, and reading this completed dissappointed me about shveta.

lol n i thought u were on the opposite side 😆 now that we have the misunderstaning cleared out, friends?

First, I dont care for Akash's comments to the press regarding Shveta's character. How do we know his words weren't twisted by the press? Or if they were even his own words. His own behavior during his exit episode certainly wasnt explemary, role model behavior. 😆

I rather see Shveta acting like whoever she is in real life than acting like a phony, personally. Some people are sensitive and compassionate but just dont express it. Not their fault. Shveya has struggled a lot as an actress and luckily, has seen some success. Struggling makes some people more realistic, more bindaas, more thick skinned. After all, you need to be street smart and cautious when you're in showbiz. Being sensitive and nice isnt always the best way to go. Ive always liked Shveta as actress. Her acting made the serial Lipstick worth watching. After Gautami replaced her, the show went down the drain. Since I dont know Shveta personally, I wont make pass off any comments on her personal life. What she does in her own life is her own business. Who is Shilpa Shetty to pass off comments on Shveta and her personal decisions? 😆 If the comments are coming from, I'd just ignore them.

Remember, TRPs are everything for TV channels. They'll go all out to make more people watch their show, even if it means posting false and sensational news.

we shouldn't critise a person whom we donot know personaly...

Originally posted by: soapqueen

but all i was mentioned was that in my opinion, it's unrealistic for someone to continue a competition two days after they've lost their father in law. .

Sachin Tendulkar played for India the day he lost his father....he played for india,then went to mumbai to perform the last rites,and then came back the next day to play for india again...WOuld you call him insensitive and diabolic....

Svetha kept up her committment and she performed....