Originally posted by: alias
Dude, this is an open forum and is meant to have arguments/ discussion. When JDJ started- everyone was pouncing on Gauhar- then HK and then Parul....where were u then? U didnt come to their rescue. I think everyone is allowed to root for their favourites and back them up...the post maker is a fan of Karan's, so i think it's quite natural that outright bashing against him should disturb her more than that against Gauhar or HK...at the time in question, Gauhar fans did back her up, as did I, since i recognised the manipulation involved in her AV clips...it may not have been in the same intensity since she has a lesser number of fans on this forum...besides, i think even you'd agree that neither Gauhar nor HK were discussed with such conviction, positive and negative alike, at the beginning of the season...that is why this post was made...since the past fortnight seems to have been Karan, Karan and some more Karan, on the forum, whether it's his fans posting things to support him or his non-fans, shall we say, to do the exact opposite...ironically, both kinds of topics eventually come to the same result, and it isn't a positive one, if you know what i mean...
And now it's Karan's turn.
People have every right to voice their thoughts- just as you say people have every right to vote whoever they want.
Important thing is how you counter argue their thoughts vs ur own and provide RATIONAL reasoning to back your thoughts. If you are not capable to do so then please don't jump into conclusion that everyone is Karan haters or after Karan just cause.
just to clarify, i don't think this post is meant to class everyone under a single camp of Haters...it is just an expression of what the topic maker felt when she visited the forum lately 😊...maybe she ought to have made it clearer, but as far as i can tell, she is talking about that chunk of people who bash Karan outright, and i'm sure you'll agree that there do exist some such individuals...
People are after KARAN for a REASON and they have every right to make their case. Absolutely...no one is denying that...like Anisha said, the problem lies not in expressing one's opinion, but in how one does so...and again, i'll reiterate that the fault lies on both sides, and this post is the topic maker's reaction to those opposing her point of view who do not restrict their comments to rational criticism... Although, I am against bashing and I see some members bashing him but U cant generalize everyone being haters.
We are here to PUT FORTH a valid DISCUSSION. (some maybe unreasonable but reasonable ones- CAN YOU SAY ANYTHING AGAINST THOSE?? If yes, then please POST. That is exactly the point...this post is meant to be only about the unreasonable ones...look at it this way, there are posts made by the non-fans, classing each and every Karan fan under one term "K-Babes"...does that appear equally valid to you? just as all crtiques cannot be classified as Haters, all supporters cannot be classified as Blind...as with Anti-Karans, some Pro-Karans are unreasonable too, but that does not mean that all of them are...but that's just a minor reference, aside from the point...i'd just wanted to clear it out once, seeing so many posts with that term splashed around like an insult at anyone who chose to disagree...coming to the point, that's what i said...there is absolutely no problem with voicing one's opinion, provided one does so in a rational and open-minded manner, no matter what side one is on...and this goes for Pro-Karans and Anti-Karans alike...the former should be willing to take genuine criticism and the latter to not overstep that line and get down to outright disrespect...while there are a few who fortunately do have it in them to do so, both sides also have people who, like Huma said, come from the extreme poles of the spectrum, almost willingly obtuse to each other's arguments...🤔
One more thing- If you do make a valid point then I would concur otherwise...bring on the discussion!! Also u'l have to hear sides as well. Bingo...that's what i've been looking for on this forum for a long time...sadly, it's very hard to find in the midst of this, well, mess...most of the time, the valid points just get dismissed, from both sides...i've had that experience myself, with many of my posts being quoted and marked with "Long Essays Are Injurious To Health" Warnings, just because i did not concur with the post 😆...lol...so much for healthy discussion...i'm glad to see at least one post that acknowledges some semblance of the same...😊